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How to Give a Blowjob: Sucking Dick for Beginners

You are about to suck a dick for the first time and your mind is racing How do I even give a blowjob?  Can I fit it in all at once? Am I supposed to suck on it or blow? What if I suck?!? (pun intended). Well, that’s what I am here for, to make sure you don’t suck at sucking dick! So Just sit back and relax because you are about to get the 101 on how to give a blowjob.

How to Give A Blowjob

Foreplay

To start, let’s take things slow.  I like to think that half the fun of any kind of sex is the build up and the tension.   This is what makes foreplay so much fun.

Don’t tear off his clothes and chow his dick down in one go!

Kiss his body, brush your hands over his legs and work your way down to your soon to be unwrapped birthday present. Finally, when his pants are finally off enjoy the moment!

You’ve earned it. 

So much of the fun is in the anticipation.

2. Take off his pants!

Okay, so now his pants are off, and you have a beautiful dick staring you in the face.

~ Now what? ~

Well, let’s learn how to give a blowjob!  The first and most important step?

3. Get things wet! Lubrication

This is key if you want things to feel good so start by making things plenty wet.  Use your tongue and work your way up and down.

Now it’s time to go in. Take it slow and take only what you can manage.  It’s not worth choking or coughing.  Your comfort is just as important.

I’ll even let you in on a little secret.

A good blow job isn’t about how deep you can go,  it’s more about technique.

So take only what length you feel comfortable. (Tip: use your hand as a stopper to limit how far in his penis can go into your mouth).

Now let’s get down to the dirty. If you want to give a good blowjob you need to keep three points in mind:

4. Keep a rhythm
To start, you want to pick a comfortable rhythm and stick to it.  Keep in mind that you could be giving this blow job for 15 seconds or 15 minutes!  It all depends on how long he takes to cum.

We aren’t trying to run a marathon here, so pick a speed that is comfortable and most importantly:

Stick to it!

Blowjobs are all about building to a tipping point, and changing your rhythm or stopping entirely can mean that you lose all the progress you made towards climax!

5. Focus on the suction

Next, I know that it’s called a blowjob but you need to suck!

This is where most guys fuck up, so getting this piece right is what will make your blowjob feel amazing!

It’s one thing to simply have a dick in your mouth, but unless you actually suck then he won’t feel a thing.

Don’t overkill it though find yourself a nice medium that feels good but not uncomfortable.

This kind of feeling is what we are programmed to respond to sexually (think of an ass or vagina).  The closer you can get to feeling like real sex the better.

6. Watch The Teeth

Finally, you need to keep in mind your teeth.  To put it simply:

Teeth + Dick = Pain

To fix this, tense your lips slightly over your teeth.  Again not too strong because you don’t want to exhaust your muscles, but just enough to block your teeth.

This will also apply a bit of pressure on his dick which if done right will feel nice.

7. Use all your tools

Learning how to give a blowjob isn’t just about using your mouth, it’s also about using your whole body!

Rub your legs on his, lick on and around his balls, play with his dick, play with his nipples, and always, always use your hands.

One rule of thumb I always follow is to keep your hands occupied.  You can use one hand on his dick move it up and down with your mouth.

You can also use your other hand to play with his nipples, balls, or rub his thighs.

Get into it and show some fire!

8. Should you swallow?

Swallowing comes down to personal preference and is something that YOU decide.  Depending on the person, swallowing can be sexy, and for people like me, is not their cup of tea.

Although chances of contracting an STD are relatively low when compared to other forms of sex, it is important to note that if your partner has an STD, then swallowing can increase your chances of catching and STD yourself.

If you want to play it the safest then you don’t even need you let him cum in your mouth.

Do what you are comfortable with and have fun!

(Note: Although it is easy to get caught up in STDs which are something to be mindful of, don’t let the worry occupy your mind too much.  If you practice oral sex, your risk of contracting most major STDs like HIV is relatively low.)

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How to suck penis

The Moves

Have fun with this! Enjoy it and I promise he will too.

• The sensitive spots: the areas around his penis are sensitive and need a little attention.
• The shaft: the main part of the show. It’s what you’ll mostly be focusing on throughout your entire performance.
• The balls: these babies need some lovin’ too.
• Tease him a little bit. Gently kiss and/or lick his inner thighs and lower stomach (below the naval).
• Slide your flat tongue from the base to the top of the head (and over the frenulum).
• Lick your lips and slide them along the shaft. Make out with it a little.
• Keep your lips tight around the shaft while you move up and down. It creates a “vacuum” effect which feels really nice for him.
• Be gentle! Please don’t use your teeth If you have to, cover your bottom teeth with your tongue to prevent anything bad from happening!
• Use your tongue! Don’t let it lay in your mouth like a dead fish. Lick all around his shaft. Circle it around the head.
• Be sure to use your hands to your advantage. Grip his penis and move it up and down in sync with your mouth. Be sure there’s enough lube (see: saliva) for it to glide up and down smoothly. Dry rubs may be good for steak, but not for your man’s dick. Use both hands if you want!
• Gently suck on the head of his penis while your hand moves up and down.
• Gently massage them while you are working his shaft.
• Don’t be afraid to use your mouth on them! And again, please no teeth! These guys are super sensitive so licking andgently (and I mean geeently) sucking on them should feel great for your man.
• Lick/suck his balls while you stroke his cock.

NOTE: For each of these positions, make sure that you are comfortable enough to breath, your man is comfortable enough to cum, and you’re able to finish the job.

The 22 Major Penis Sucking Positions

#01 On knees, sitting upright, sucking a standing man

This is by far the most popular blowjob position. I have given more blowjobs in this position than any other. This position works very well on average because it positions the cocksuckers mouth at the proper height for the cock he is sucking. This suggests some modifications when there is a major height difference. If the man being sucked is tall, the cocksucker can accommodate by rising up on his knees to the proper height. The opposite situation is not so easy — if you are blowing a short man, it might help for him to stand on a footstool or other sturdy item. Once the geometry between sucker and suckee have been worked out, things pretty much take care of themselves, unless the blowjob lasts a long time. Most of the guys I blow cum within five minutes, but there are some that take over half an hour. While it is wonderful to have a cock in my mouth that long, it can be tiring. The knees tend to get sore on a long blowjob, so cushions, pillows or even a few towels under the knees can remedy that.

This position leaves the suckers hands free, so there are many possibilities. I will often place my hands on the hips or ass of the man I’m sucking. It also allows you to jack off while sucking. If you do, make sure you are able to finish the blowjob once you cum (some men have a “change of heart” once they cum, and are unable to continue). Some men really like their sucker to stroke themselves while sucking because they like the idea of them being clearly aroused from sucking. Other men forbid their suckers from touching themselves because they want their cock to the center of attention. Some of these men like their suckers to have their hands behind their backs. There are many variations possible in this position, so be flexible and enjoy!

#02 On hand and knees, sucking a standing man

This position can work well in a three-way, with the cocksucker “getting it in both ends at once”. I have only experienced this a few times, but they were all wonderful, and I’d gladly do it as often as I can! Like the “on knees” position, there is a fair amount of adjust-ability, since the cocksucker can raise or lower his head to accommodate men of different heights. The man fucking the cocksucker’s ass will generally adjust either his position or the cocksucker’s ass for a satisfactory fucking. If you are doing this position in bed, it usually works well. If done on a hard surface, such as a floor, some sort of cushioning can make it more comfortable. If you find yourself in the very lucky situation of servicing a line of men in this fashion, long term comfort will be more important than for simply a three-way.

#03 On knees, “sitting on peg”, sucking a standing man

This is another three-way position in which one man lies on his back, and the cocksucker sit on his erect cock. The man being sucked stands, feet apart over the man on the bottom. I have only done this once, and long to repeat it — if I could, it every day! The men I did this with made this especially wonderful. I rode the first bottom man’s cock while sucking the other and stroking my cock. When the man I was sucking came, I was in such a state of arousal that I came on the bottom man’s belly. I checked with the man I was riding and confirmed that he had not yet cum, so I slipped off him and stroked his cock while I licked my cum off his belly, then proceeded to suck him off. As much as I wanted to, I was not able to reconnect with these men. I did this on a bed, which was very comfortable. Had it been on the floor, some knee discomfort may have occurred, which might be remedied with towels under the suckers knees and legs.

#04 On knees, sucking a man sitting on chair (or couch)

As with other kneeling positions, it offers a lot of flexibility to adapt to the height of the man you are sucking. This is my second most frequent position, mainly because the men I blow like it. Knee comfort, as with other kneeling positions can be enhanced with cushioning. This position does not work well for extremely fat men. I mean no disrespect, and have enjoyed blowing a number of fat men (after all, they need to cum also). When blowing a very fat man, the position needs to allow easy access to his cock, which can tend to pull under layers of fat. Leaner men, and men with long cocks can be very effectively blown in this position. This position makes it easy for the man being sucked to be comfortable while watching porn. As a cocksucker, I have come to realize that for some men, my mouth is simply a cum dump. Many men really enjoy watching a cocksucker in action, but when blowing a man, watching porn can help in the arousal process. In such situations I just tell the man I’m blowing to imagine that he is being blown by one of the persons in the porn flick.

#05 On knees, sucking a man lying on bed, knees over edge of bed (legs may be spread)

This offers the same flexibility as other on knees positions, and is very comfortable for the man being blown. They may not be able to watch porn, but can close their eyes and indulge their favorite fantasy. This position works especially well when blowing very fat men, because the belly tends to “flow to the sides” allowing easier access to the cock. Fat men often appear to have smaller cocks because some of their length is hidden beneath the fat. I have always enjoyed blowing fat men, and they seem to be especially appreciative, and perhaps don’t get very many.

#06 Man being sucked lying on back or bed, sucker lying face down between his legs

This offers the ability to easily blow men of any size, and can be comfortable for long duration blowjobs. It works well for fat men, though position #5 is better for extremely fat men, because it provides better access to his cock.

#07 Man being sucked lying on bed, sucker lying face down perpendicular

This is similar to position #6, but requires either a large bed, or can be done with multiple mattresses on floor. The multiple mattress situation sometimes happens in sex party situations. This position allows for plenty of adjustment, which is handy for long duration blowjobs.

#08 Man being sucked lying on bed, sucker lying face down with legs facing upward

This is similar to positions #6 and #7. This position lends itself well the man being sucked touching the sucker. It is important to understand that some of the men we suck are “bi-curious” and may take the blowjob experience as an opportunity to touch you. I never discourage that because if it arouses him it makes the blowjob better for both of us. Some men secretly want to suck a cock themselves, and this position can easily morph into a very effective “69” position. I never seek reciprocation, but if a man really wants to suck me, I won’t deny him. I don’t cum from being sucked, but do enjoy the feeling. Furthermore, if having my cock in his mouth helps him to cum, I’ll do my best to accommodate him! This position offers a lot of flexibility to change position, and is very comfortable on a bed. If not on a bed, you may have to make some adjustments to enhance comfort.

#09 Man being sucked lying on bed, sucker on hands and knees in any orientation

As with position #8, it allows easy access to the cocksucker’s “parts”, though it is not as good for “69”. If access to your parts is the primary consideration, it is superior to position #8, because the cocksuckers cock and balls hang down, and with the knees slightly apart, the ass can be easily accessed. I became a real fan of this position when I blew men who enjoyed fingering my ass, which I grew to really enjoy.

#10 Cocksucker lying on back on bed, man being blown kneeling over face (from top)

This is a comfortable position for the cocksucker, and works especially well when there are multiple men to suck. The man being sucked kneels above the cocksucker’s head, with knees on either side of the cocksucker’s head. The man being sucked then “dips” his cock into the cocksuckers mouth and can exercise quite a bit of control. For those who like to give facials, this is a good position, allowing him to pull out and spray his load as he pleases. It is also an especially when the recipient of the blowjob wants his balls sucked. In this position the both balls can often be completely dropped into the suckers mouth. This is popularly referred to as t-bagging. Its not for everyone, but for men who love it, it can be very arousing. One of my regulars would often approach climax, but have difficulty getting there. When he would drop his balls into my mouth for a few minutes, he would pull his balls out and immediately insert his discharging cock! Giving your man what arouses him the most can be key to your both experiencing the very best blowjob.

#11 Cocksucker lying on back on bed, man being blown kneeling over face (from side)

This is similar to position #10, but with the man being blown coming in from either side. I don’t find it as comfortable, but it does work well in a group situation, where each man can come in from the opposite side, and the cocksucker only needs to turn his head to service the next cock.

#12a Cocksucker lying on back on bed, man being blown kneeling over the suckers face

In this position the man being sucked kneels, lightly sitting on the sucker’s chest, knees at arm pits of sucker. This position clearly puts the man being sucked clearly in charge. Like it or not, the sucker must continue until the man being sucked gets off him. This position works best for longer cocks. Men with small cocks may not be able to reach the sucker’s mouth. This is closely related to position #12b, described next.

#12b Man does pushup over cocksuckers mouth

Same as #12a, but man being sucked leans forward, supporting himself by his hands, as if doing push-ups over the cocksucker’s mouth. This simple adaptation of position #11a is a good work-around for men with smaller cocks, provided that there is enough room above the cocksucker’s head for the man being sucked to support himself. If the man being sucked likes the “push up” approach, this position can work well. If not, the very similar position #12c may work better.

#12c Knees over cocksuckers shouldes

Same as #12a, except knees of the man being sucked are over the cocksucker’s shoulders. In this position, the man being sucked can insert his cock completely into the sucker’s mouth. This is wonderful for men with small cocks, and sometimes preferred by men with large cocks. With a large cock in this position, it can be really tough on the cocksucker. If you cannot deep throat, don’t do this position with a large cock man unless you are prepared to get gagged for as long as the man on top wishes! Having said that, this is a position I really do love, but only encourage men with small to medium sized cocks to mount me in that manner. It is also a great position for t-bagging. There is another issue with this position. The sucker is very much at the mercy of the man he is sucking. Some men like to be rimmed (have their ass hole licked, and often penetrated by the sucker’s tongue). If rimming is not something you want to do, don’t do this position with someone who might be inclined to force you to do it!

#12d Kness under cocksuckers arms

Similar to the other #12 positions, and #10, with man being sucked facing feet of cocksucker with knees under cocksucker’s arms. This positions the man being sucked immediately over the face of the cocksucker, typically with the balls immediately over the sucker’s mouth. In order to blow the man on top, he often needs to lean forward, almost in 69 position. It is a very good position for t-bagging. It is also a favorite of men who enjoy forcible rimming. In this position the man on top can position his ass hole right on the sucker’s mouth, and hold it there as long as he desires. If you are on the bottom of that position YOU WILL lick his ass until he decides to release you.

It would seem that the four #12 positions are very risky and should be avoided. On the contrary, I really like all of these positions, but it is critical to really know the man you are blowing! In all of these positions you are giving up control, so make sure you give up control to a man you really trust! I have blown many men I did not know well, and typically use the kneeling positions for them, but when I know and trust a man, any of the #12 positions have been great!

#13 69 position

— one person lying on back, other person lying face down on top of first person, cocks in each others mouths. Most of the men I blow would never think of taking a cock in their mouths, and I like it that way, but sometimes I meet a man who also likes to suck, and I’m glad to let him enjoy the joys of cock-sucking as well. The man on the top will often have his knees on either side of the bottom man. The top man’s ass is very accessible for stimulation. If you use this position, make sure you are able to finish the job, should you cum first.

#14 Cocksucker lying on bed on back, with head over side of bed.

In this position the cocksucker’s head is tilted back, opening the throat. The man being blown comes slips into the mouth and enters. This is a good position for blowing men with big cocks, even if you cannot deep throat. I am told that this position is also very good for deep-throating, as the entry is a straight path and the throat is more open.

#15 Cocksucker sitting on armchair, man being sucked kneeling on chairs arms

This position can work well if the furniture size is right, typically with wide arms that are easy to kneel upon. It is often best for the cocksucker to slide down in the chair a bit to adjust to the position of the cock.
#16 Cocksucker sitting in chair, man being sucked approaching from side.
This position can work well for “spur of the moment” blowjobs, often in a group setting, where the cocksucker is presented a cock, and expected to suck. Like position #11, it lends itself well to approaches from either side.

#17 Man being sucked sitting in car seat, cocksucker sitting in other seat or kneeling on floor

This is the classic “car suck” position, and varies according to the type of car. Car sucks can be very cramped in small vehicles, and nearly impossible for vehicles with large consoles. You may have to do a little experimenting to find what works best. In general, car sucks are best with guys who cum quickly.

#18 Both standing, man being sucked standing on ladder or other elevating device

This positions is similar to the #1 kneeling position, except both are standing. As such it lends itself well to long duration sucks, since your knees won’t get tired. One of my regulars has a flatbed trailer parked in his back yard. When the mood strikes him he stands on the trailer while I blow him, standing on the ground. A variation of this has the man being blown in an elevated seated position, as you might imagine blowing a lifeguard.

#19 Cocksucker sitting on chair or couch, man being sucked standing in front

This position can be very comfortable for the sucker, since it avoids the sore knees that the #1 kneeling position can cause. It can work well if the height of the man being sucked works well for the seated cocksucker. There is not as much ability to adjust for height, so you might find yourself trying this position and then dropping to your knees to find the right sucking height.

#20 Man being sucked on all fours, cocksucker kneeling behind, sucking from behind

This position works well when the cocksucker is paying a lot of attention to the man’s ass, such as dildoing, or rimming along with cock-sucking. Some men’s cock don’t point that far back when hard, so this may not work for some. Furthermore, since the cock will be upside down in the suckers mouth (similar to 69 style), it may not be as easy to give good tongue action to the bottom of the cock.

#21 Man being sucked on des or box, cocksucker on knees

This position is very similar to #04 Sitting in Chair, but is usually a bit higher.
#22 Cocksucker sitting on floor against wall, man being sucked standing
This position works well if the height of the cock is right. Usually very comfortable, but with limited ability to adjust for height.

#23 Cockcucker squatting, man being sucked standing in front

This position is most often used when unable to kneel. It works well for men who cum quickly, as the legs quickly fatigue in this position.

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How To Give A Blowjob That Will Blow His Mind

When Mick Jagger sings “…you make a dead man come,” we all know to what he is referring. Is there a man alive who wouldn’t sell his soul for a killer blowjob? Even if you feel you give damn good fellatio already, you may find something in this article that may further blow your man’s mind. If you are a novice, read the article and choose two or three suggestions you would like to try. Not everything here will appeal to you or your lover. But everyone’s sexuality changes and evolves with time, so there is room for growth and learning in your encounters even with a longtime partner.

Show enthusiasm. The best fellatio involves a giver who is totally into it, aroused, even a little worshipful. You may find it extremely erotic to pleasure your partner in this way. You may enjoy the stimulation to your lips, tongue, mouth, and hands as you perform a blowjob. Perhaps you get off on the feeling of power you have over your lover as you control his pleasure, or you may get a sexual charge out of feeling dominated by your lover as you serve him. Maybe you enjoy the sense of giving involved in this extremely intimate act. Whatever your scene, you absolutely, positively must be into giving this man a blowjob, otherwise no one will enjoy it.
Set the scene. Although a quickie blowjob in an elevator certainly should have its place in your sexual repertoire, most men will enjoy a blowjob to the fullest in a more relaxed setting. The best oral sex begins long before you take off his clothes. Wear something you know he finds sexy on you. Help him to relax and loosen up, perhaps with a bath or a glass of wine together. Keep the lighting soft, light a few candles. Choose music that is not distracting, but rather blends quietly into the background. Turn the TV off …unless you want to add porn to the mix. If you do, you may find “compilation videos” or hard-core segments less distracting than porn laden with plot and dialogue.

Lay him on his back on a large bed with clean, crisp sheets. Slowly undress him. By taking your time, you build his anticipation and arousal to a tantalizing level. Make sure he has no distractions whatsoever. Turn off the phones, lock the door. Make sure everything you need is within easy reach: condoms, lube, sex toys, something to drink, something refreshing to eat (perhaps a bowl of fresh strawberries, chilled grapes, or orange slices). Let him focus entirely on his pleasure. If he touches you, it should be for his own enjoyment and not to pleasure you. Make it clear that he is in for a real treat.

Explore his whole body. Start slowly. Touch, lick, and kiss your partner, not just the areas that turn him on but the ones that turn you on as well: the nape of his neck, his earlobes, his chest, his nipples, his round buttocks, feet and sensitive toes, thighs. Be vocal about the areas you adore, either by moaning with pleasure or simply telling him how hot you find his hard biceps, for instance. Talk dirty to him if you enjoy doing so. The idea is to let him know how much you relish contact with him. Keep exploring as you gradually work your way to his genitals. Try licking and sucking his fingers so he gets a preview of what is in store for his cock. Take your time and savor his entire body.

Use your whole body. The best blowjobs involve much more than just your mouth, and focus on much more than just his penis. Use everything available to you to pleasure him. (Also, by using your whole body you show your own arousal and enthusiasm.) Use your mouth, lips, tongue, face, hair, hands, fingers and nails, chest, whatever occurs to you. Rub your genitals against his cock, his leg, or his hand in order to increase your own arousal during the blowjob. Let your body move naturally along with the movement of your mouth and hands. Allow it to be a sensual dance. He’s likely to enjoy the show.

Be Creative. There is no script. So allow yourself to be swept away by the moment and do what feels good to you and your partner. Explore different ways of pleasuring your partner. Every man is different, and every encounter is different: the same man might love a gentle touch one night, but want more aggressive play another night. Don’t be afraid to try new things. But always pay close attention to the response of your lover. If you try something new and he squirms and moans with pleasure, keep at it. If not, move on to something else.

Do you have a lover who tends to be quiet and still? How can you tell if he likes what you’re doing? Notice his testicles. When he is aroused, his testicles will rise within the scrotum, so rather than two balls hanging in a loose sac, the balls will be high against the base of the penis and the scrotum stretched tightly across them. Also, his cock will be very stiff and the head will swell even further and become rock hard. Pay attention to these signs that you are pleasing him.

Try different moods. Be playful, intense, slow and sensual, or fast and frantic—or all these things in turns during a great blowjob. Relax and follow your instincts, and take your cues from your partner.

Condoms. While oral sex can be a fulfilling form of contraception, it is not without risk of disease. Unless you are monogamous and have both recently tested negative for HIV and other STDs, plan to use a condom. Be sure to put it on his penis after he is hard and before you have oral, anal, or genital contact with his penis. Choose from an almost endless variety of condoms – colored, ribbed, flavored, whatever you like. Put a small amount of a petroleum-free lube (it won’t degrade the condom) on the inside tip of the condom before putting it on your partner. Learn to put one on with just your teeth, tongue, lips, and mouth (you can practice on a dildo.) Put the condom on in this manner as he watches, making plenty of eye contact with him as you do so. Drizzle lots of lube on the outside of the condom and rub it on with your hands.

Start slowly. When you first encounter his cock, move slowly. Get acquainted with it. If it’s flaccid, place it in your mouth and explore it with your tongue. Delight in the sensation of it getting large and stiff within your mouth. With your hands, mouth, and tongue, explore every inch of it. Run your tongue along the shaft, note the texture, each vein and bulge. Run your tongue along his testicles, explore the difference in texture there, place a testicle in your mouth and suck. Observe his response. Some men adore having their balls licked and sucked.

Move back up the shaft slowly, working your way to the head. Remember to make eye contact with your lover. You may both find it powerfully erotic to gaze into each other’s eyes as you perform this intimate act. Use your tongue to explore the ridge where the head meets the shaft. Pay particular attention to the frenulum, which is the loose patch of skin on the underside of the penis where the head meets the shaft. Most men find this an intensely sensitive area. Run your tongue along it, first gently, then a little harder. Kiss it, suck at it. Gauge his response.

Move on to the head. Wet it with your mouth. Feel the smooth, hard surface against your lips, kiss it, lick it, tease it ever so gently with your teeth (if you are using a condom, be careful not to puncture it). Explore the hole in the center of the head with your tongue.

This hole is called the meatus, and it’s where urine and semen come out of the penis. Some men enjoy stimulation to this area. Now slowly take the hard, sensitive head entirely in your mouth while using your tongue to stimulate the frenulum. If your partner is seated or lying down, and you are between his legs facing him, your tongue can easily stimulate the frenulum on the underside of the penis as you move the head in and out of your mouth. Pull the head out of your mouth and flick your tongue rapidly against the frenulum. Some men really get off on this sensation.

Begin to build and increase the action. Play around with different moves and see to what he responds, what his mood is for that session. When you find something he enjoys, stay with it for a few minutes or longer, then vary it. If he really loved something you did, you can return to it later. But never do the exact same thing for an extended period, as the effect of even the most wonderful sensations diminish with time.

• Be slick. At this point, you may want to apply lube to his nice erect cock, even if you are not using a condom. This process in itself can be quite entertaining. Drip the lube slowly along his head and shaft, and then use your hands to cover his penis with it. Be sure to choose a lube that is tasteless and odorless, or one whose taste and smell you like. We like the silicone lube pjur Eros Bodyglide. It is odorless, has no taste whatsoever, never gets sticky, and is highly concentrated so a little lasts a long time. Enjoy the feel of his slick rod in your hands and mouth.
  
• Be resourceful. Try not to have your head simply bobbing up and down on the shaft. This action may produce results, but we’re talking about more advanced skills here. You aren’t merely simulating intercourse. Your mouth and hands have a great many more ways to pleasure his cock than has a pussy or anus. So go ahead and stroke away, but vary it.
  
• Stick out your tongue and say “ah.” Leave your tongue out of your mouth and use it to pleasure his frenulum as you stroke. Also by sticking your tongue out, you can take the shaft deeper into your mouth. Although the shaft has far fewer nerve endings than the head and the frenulum, many men adore the sensation of being taken fully into their lover’s mouth and even their throat (We’ll deal with deep throating in a separate article.) When you are stroking him with your mouth, don’t forget to use your tongue and lips to increase the sensation. Try sticking your tongue out so you lick his shaft as you stroke with your mouth, or use your lips and tongue to stimulate the frenulum as you pump away. If you moan with pleasure while his cock is in your mouth, he feels the delightful vibration of the sound in his penis. Long before “Hummer” was the name of a gas-guzzling jeep, it was known as a stimulating type of blowjob. Test his music knowledge and his ability to focus by playing “Name That Tune” while you hum your way into his heart. (This may give new meaning to the term “having a tune stuck in your head.”)
  
• Try some moves. Draw your lips into a tight circle, so there is almost a popping sound when the head moves in and out. Be extremely careful not to accidentally use your teeth once the action builds, as it can easily cause injury. You may carefully experiment with nibbling on the shaft, as some men find that erotic, but any use of teeth should be approached with very gradual and deliberate experimentation. Try sucking on his penis, creating a vacuum-like tightness and pressure. Don’t be afraid to suck hard, as many men enjoy that strong sensation. Suck on the head, or take the whole cock in your mouth and maintain the suction the entire time you slide it in and out of your mouth. Or take the opposite approach and take the penis loosely deep into your mouth, then move your head side-to-side in a figure eight so his penis is moving around inside your mouth. You can try long, hard strokes along the entire shaft with just your tongue or with your mouth, or quick light strokes with your mouth just on the head. There are an almost infinite number of ways to pleasure a cock. Be open-minded and playful, and you may continually find new ways to please your lover even after many years together. (And believe me, if you become great at giving him head he’ll still be coming back for more after many years.)
  
• Good vibrations. Add vibrators to the mix for more variety of stimulation. Vibrators with interchangeable heads like the Eroscillator or Synergy Pleasure System can be used on virtually any of his erogenous zones, while your mouth and hands work elsewhere. The hands-free Oden 2 can be laid across his testicles while you pleasure his cock with your mouth and use your hands on his anus or nipples. Hold a Pocket Rocket against his frenulum as you suck on the head of his cock and tug on his scrotum. You can turn your mouth into a hot, wet penis-vibrator by holding (or by having him hold) a vibrator under your jaw. Or consider the Tongue Joy, which is literally a strap-on for your tongue. If your tongue is pierced, you MUST try this amazing micro-vibe with its stainless steel barbell accessory. The possibilities are limited only by your imagination.

• Give me a hand. Never let your hands lie still and go unused while you give a blowjob! I cannot stress this point enough. Use them to stroke his shaft below where your mouth is, or you can hold his cock firmly at the base while you suck, even using your hand to firmly draw his cock into your mouth further. Your hands are also indispensable when it comes to testicular and anal stimulation.

• Have a ball. Don’t neglect his balls – another point I cannot stress enough! Testicular stimulation is highly erotic for most men. Try using your hands to pleasure his balls, or stroke his cock with your hand and use your mouth and tongue to lick and suck his balls. Most men enjoy having their testicles cupped or played with. Experiment with gently scratching his balls with your fingernails. It is natural for a man’s balls to rise when he is aroused, and most men enjoy it when you gather their balls in your hand and pull them firmly down, drawing them away from the base of the cock. (Be careful never to press on the balls themselves.) You can use your fingers to form a circle around the base of the scrotum to hold the balls down in the sac. Also try tugging hard on the bottom of the scrotum, pulling it down away from his cock. Proceed slowly and carefully, trying gentle pressure before increasing it if he seems to enjoy it. As in all sensitive erogenous zones, there may be a fine line between pleasure and pain, and each man has his own threshold that may shift over time, so be attentive to his responses. 

• Knock at his back door. A great many men enjoy anal stimulation. While your mouth is busy with his cock, gently touch the sensitive anus with the tip of your finger. If he does not discourage you, insert a lubed finger in his anus. If he responds positively, push your finger further into his rectum until you feel the prostate, which is the size and shape of a chestnut. Massage it with your finger. Use your other hand to press against his perineum, the area between the base of the penis and his anus. Between your two hands, one inside and one outside, you will be able to stimulate his prostate quite well. Many men are driven absolutely wild by this approach. If he enjoys rectal stimulation, you could take his cock in your mouth while facing him, then wrap your arms around his hips and use both hands to stimulate his rectum and anus. Hug him towards you each time you take his cock deep into your mouth and finger his anus at the same time. For many men, this is sheer bliss. Try stroking his cock with a male masturbator as you lick and suck his balls and finger his ass. If you really want to drive him crazy, have him insert an Aneros prostate stimulator or a vibrating butt plug while you suck his cock, then use your hands to stimulate his balls, nipples, and other areas. Talk about multi-tasking! 

• Give me a break! If you’ve been at it a while and your mouth is getting sore, give your mouth a brief rest. Pull back and admire this gorgeous raging hard-on you created. Let your hot breath fall on his slick shaft. Stroke it lightly with your hands. Rub it against your cheek, kiss it lightly, hug it to your chest. If you have long hair let it fall over his penis. Stimulate him with vibes and other toys as you rest your mouth and hands. Enjoy this brief interlude before the action resumes.

The crescendo. By now probably you both have worked up a head of serious sexual steam. You have two choices: You can continue to build the tempo and action until he cums. Or, you can bring him down a bit, then begin to build again. Although your lover may object at first to his runaway freight train of sexual energy being slowed down, in the end he will thank you for prolonging his delight.

If you feel he is approaching climax (i.e., he’s writhing on the bed, clutching the sheets, moaning like crazy, proposing marriage – a sure sign you’re doing it right), then you might want to slow the action until he backs away from the imminent orgasm. Then slowly begin to build again. Many great dance and musical performances make use of this strategy, slowly building to near crescendo then backing off and starting slowly and quietly again. Try making use of it in your great performance in bed. Near-orgasm is a wonderful place to be! Try to keep him in that state for as long as possible, without frustrating him.

Some men cannot tolerate slowing down once they are near orgasm. However, often a more patient, experienced lover will adore this sort of dance. The process of building to near-orgasm, then having the action slow, with you whispering “not yet” into his ear in a husky voice as you slowly build the tempo again, may drive him wild. Be especially aware of your partner’s responses during this process. Sometimes a man is past the point-of-no-return, and you must help him come if he seems unable to slow down. Also, even the most patient of lovers will eventually want to enjoy the grand finale. So try to pick up on signs that he is ready to cum.

The moment of truth. Assume the position. Any position that allows you to reach his cock with your mouth is game. But when you’re ready for the finale, if you’re not already in the ultimate position of sexual worship, kneel between his legs. When you sense he is ready to cum, quicken the pace. You should be pumping fast and furiously with your mouth, or your hand if you can’t move fast enough with your mouth. Timing is everything; at this point, DO NOT slow the pace no matter how sore or tired your mouth or hands become. Keep the rhythm going and don’t stop. Make sure you pace yourself during the blowjob so that you can finish with a sprint. Virtually all men enjoy rapid-fire pumping at the end, but some men like it light and others like a firmer hand. Experiment with pressure and speed.

Don’t forget his balls! Many men find testicular stimulation critical as they near orgasm. Some even enjoy having their scrotum tugged hard as they approach climax. Others are driven over the edge by anal, rectal, and/or prostate stimulation. You’ve spent a lot of time learning what he likes, now is the time to give it ALL to him at once!

As he nears orgasm, you will notice changes. His breathing may become quick and shallow, the sounds he has been making may change abruptly, he may arch his back and tense his muscles; he may throw his head back and clutch at you or the sheets. His balls rise so much they become difficult to move with your hand, his shaft will be rock hard, and the head of his cock will become so huge and engorged it feels as if it will burst. Do not stop pumping, and do not slow down! Keep pumping as long as he will let you. For many men the orgasm will be more intense and prolonged if you continue to stimulate them throughout the climax. At some point following orgasm, his cock may become so acutely sensitive that he will only enjoy the gentlest touch, if any. Pay attention to this sudden change.
Swallowing. Most men enjoy it when you swallow their cum. Men who have strong feelings for their lovers in particular may report feelings of intimacy and acceptance when their lovers swallow. One man deeply in love admitted to feeling a “soul injection” when his partner swallows. Although many partners are happy to oblige, some people find it difficult to do. Remember that it is a very small volume of liquid, about a teaspoon or so. The taste of semen is fairly mild, but can vary tremendously from man to man, and even for the same man at different times. If you have difficulty swallowing, you may try holding your breath and swallowing quickly. Some people find deep throating at the moment of ejaculation helpful, as he shoots his load so deep in your mouth that it bypasses the taste buds. If you absolutely cannot bring yourself to swallow under any circumstances, you can try to discreetly spit the semen into a tissue or towel. Or better yet, pull his cock out of your mouth at the last moment and have him ejaculate on your face or body, then make a little erotic show out of spreading his cum onto your body with your hands. Of course, if you are using a condom and you keep it on while he comes, you don’t have to worry about any of this!

Afterward, some men enjoy it if you “milk” their cock by squeezing at the base and then sliding your hand up the shaft toward the head, getting out every last drop of cum and lapping it up. Other men are so sensitive after coming that they cannot stand to be touched. Most enjoy at least having their balls cupped by your hand.

What if he doesn’t come? Not every blowjob will result in ejaculation, and that’s not necessarily a bad thing. Sometimes a blowjob will be part of many sexual activities you enjoy together in a given session. Not all men find it easy to ejaculate, although they may enjoy oral stimulation tremendously. If a man ejaculated recently, he may be unable to come again for a while. As a man ages, ejaculation typically becomes a less frequent occurrence and produces a lower volume of semen, although an older man may have at least as much sexual activity and enjoyment as a younger man. Fatigue, depression, distraction, and certain medications may interfere with a man’s ability to come. Remember, the idea is to enjoy yourselves; there doesn’t have to be a goal or end-point.

Do your homework. If you are serious about learning to give a great blowjob, there are plenty of resources out there. Many books deal exclusively with how to give blowjobs. Prefer to see the action live? Try a how-to video, or rent porn that focuses exclusively on men receiving blowjobs. Not everything may appeal to you and your partner, but you are likely to discover something new to enhance your experience.

It seems obvious, but remember to talk to your partner and ask him what he has enjoyed about your encounters, or what he might like to try. Encourage him to talk to you and guide you while you are giving him a blowjob. Ask him to let you watch him masturbate – you will likely learn something from watching how he gets himself off and you both may enjoy the performance.

However, don’t be afraid to try things that are new to both of you. You may discover something that your partner has never experienced that drives him wild. Try giving a blowjob blindfolded and with your hands tied behind your back, so that you have to focus completely on using your mouth in the most creative way possible. Or blindfold him and tie him spread-eagle then torture him with pleasure, keeping him just at the brink of orgasm. Dress as a nurse and give him a sponge bath and rectal exam, or play a naughty schoolboy and have your “teacher” spank you and make you get on your knees and pleasure him. Experiment with different positions, or scenarios where you role-play, complete with costumes. Vary your approach. And of course practice, practice, practice. Your eagerness to please is likely to appeal to him.

A note to the recipients of all this blowjob attention: If you want your lover to give you lots of head (and what man doesn’t!), then make the area as appealing as possible. Make sure you are freshly bathed, and seriously consider shaving your shaft and balls. You are likely to feel sensitized if these areas are clean-shaven, and your lover will appreciate not having to contend with stray hairs as he pleasures you. Finally, your lover is likely to be generous in bed if you, too, are generous in bed. So don’t forget to reciprocate!

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Oral Sex

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Fellatio

Fellatio comes from the Latin word fellair meaning “to suck” and has been practiced widely for centuries. It is a common sexual practice amongst homosexual men as well as heterosexual couples. Fellatio also has various slang terms and terminologies; ‘cock-sucking’, ‘playing the skin flute’ ‘giving head’, ‘going down on’ and ‘blowjob’. A blowjob can be misleading to some simply because there is no blowing involved in it at all; it is actually the contrary.



Some people think that fellatio is simply putting your partner’s penis in your mouth, bobbing your head up and down and sucking away until your partner ejaculates. There’s a lot more to it than that. First of all, you have to be completely in the mood to completely indulge in this glorious experience. The more you’re into it, the more your partner will be into the moment as well. This will show your partner that you really enjoy stimulating his most private area.

STARTING OFF

The way I like to start off is by drinking a substantial quantity of refreshing water. This sequentially creates a fair amount of saliva which is essential for giving head. I also like to lubricate my lips ensuring that they are soft and smooth. Lip gloss usually glistens my mouth quite nicely; Chapstick™ would suffice as well. I want my lips to feel soft and soothing when my partner’s cock is in my mouth.

Since I’m thinking about it let’s talk about the “basic penis.” I regard oral sex as the highest form of expression of love that can be exchanged between two people. Hopefully this information will help you to break down any barriers which you might have that would prevent you from expressing your love in this way.

First things first. LOOK at the cock. I do not mean a cursory glance not a hurried, surreptitious examination. Take enough time that you convince your companion that some kind of treat is in store for him provided he will allow you to do with him, and particularly with his cock, exactly what you want.

Place him flat on his back on your bed, in a well lighted room. Take his cock in your hand and LOOK at it. He probably will not have the will power to stay soft, but then again you are worshipping his very essence. Few men can stay soft under these circumstances, when it is apparent that the person LOOKING at his cock is worshipping. I am an avid cock worshipper.

When you first start to touch him, his cock will become hard and be in a state where your examination will be meaningful.

The cock must be hard if you are to be able to note the important parts-those parts sensitive to stimulation by your lips and tongue.

The first thing you will note is whether or not he is circumcised. Circumcision is not universally practiced: there are advantages and disadvantages to penises in both conditions from the standpoint of providing oral caresses that bring the highest kind of delight to your man.

Next take a close look at the shaft of the penis itself. There is a bulbous part of the organ near the outer end, slightly larger in diameter than the shaft, which is often called the head. Technically this is the glans penis (comes from the Latin glans which means acorn. Look at it closely; does kind of look like an acorn doesn’t it?)

The outside perimeter of the glans penis is the corona. This joins the head to the shaft. This is the most sensitive spot on the penis. It is toward this ridge that you will direct most of your attention when you are giving head. Follow this ridge around to the underside of the penis. I like to call it the ‘underbelly’. I am particularly fond of the underbelly!

You will notice a point of juncture where the two ends of this irregular circle come together. If your partner is not circumcised, this will also be the point where the foreskin is attached. This tiny area is easily the most sensitive spot on his entire body, and it is possible to bring your partner to climax simply by gently tapping the tip of your tongue directly on it. Spend time caressing the glans and those areas immediately surrounding it.

Beneath the glans is the shaft of the penis. The shaft does not have many nerve endings and does not, therefore, provide a man with any high degree of stimulation when caressed either manually or with your tongue to the exclusion of the glans penis itself. It always amazes me to note the number of confirmed cocksuckers who believe that sucking up and down on the shaft will get the guy off. That’s not it folks! If it works it is because the back of your throat is playing tricks on his glans penis. Your throat is giving head to his head!

Beneath the shaft are the testicles (balls, jewels, call them what you like, but let’s not ignore their significance). The testicles are extremely sensitive to pain and are not usually considered subject to erotic stimulation to any particular degree. Not true! You can add a high degree of pleasure for him by paying the right kind of attention to the balls!

Now let’s go back to the shaft of the matter. The opening in the tip of the glans penis is the meatus. Here is where the cum spurts. (I could have said semen is ejaculated but I did not want to sound too technical.)

In order for you to observe your man’s reactions and get the most information possible about his responses try the following:

While his erect penis points toward the ceiling, cup his balls in one hand and gently, using only your tongue, lick softly, but carefully along the entire underside of his erect organ. As you suck along the underbelly you will learn those areas that give him the greatest pleasure when your tongue is touching them. Unless he is made of stone, your partner will provide you with vivid clues as to which areas are most pleasurable.

POSITIONING

Where should you be when you are sucking his cock? Between his legs, on top of him, in a sixty nine position? Where? Because of the structure of his penis, as well as the structure of your mouth, lips, tongue, and teeth, you can provide the highest degree of sensation to yourself and your partner by kneeling between his legs and approaching his cock from the bottom rather than from the side or the top. Don’t believe me? Try the various positions (I describe later different techniques to be used with each position). See what works best for you and your partner.

You want to be in an area where you are most comfortable. Your partner can be lying down on the bed or at the foot of the bed or sitting in a chair with you kneeling comfortably in position. I prefer my man to be sitting on the foot of the bed with his legs spread out and my arms resting on his thighs. This position allows me to have complete access to his cock.

Place his stiff cock inside your mouth but do not tighten your lips around the shaft. With your head begin a circular motion. The cock will slide to different places in your mouth as you continue the circle motion. Watch your teeth on this one. A kneeling position will suffice but it is also effective when your partner is on his back and your head is directly over his cock. The circle should be executed in both clockwise and counterclockwise motions in a slow purposeful manner. When the technique is performed correctly it means many hours of unadulterated pleasure.

With your man sitting in an elevated position and you on your knees in front of him lift his hard cock to reveal his balls. With your tongue find the underside of his balls. Now, while resting his balls on your wet tongue, lick in an upward motion to the very tip of his cock. It is permissible to use your hands in this technique. It is better to do this technique several times in succession-like licking a lollipop or ice cream cone. And the lollipop lick is the one technique which few men can tolerate for long periods of time without cumming.

Now let’s discuss a technique that is probably the most common cocksucking technique in the world. Take his cock in your mouth but not deeply. We will get to deep throating later on. It’s great, not over-rated, but if you want to be an expert at deep throating start with the right techniques and work your way down, so to speak.

Take his cock in your mouth by sliding your moistened tongue lovingly over the head until your lips close around the shaft at the point just behind the corona. Don’t just open your mouth and close it around his cock. Slide it in. He will enjoy it much more. Encase the shaft of his penis with your hand. Remember the shaft is relatively insensitive to any kind of stimulation. By enclosing his penis with your hand you give him the sensation of having his penis encased.

Now you have several options. Try twisting your head from side to side making sure your moist lips stay in contact with the coronal ridge. While doing this gently move your hand up and down the shaft. When he climaxes he may want to push your head further down the shaft of his penis. He wants to envelop you with his cock. As you are learning his climax you will miss the fine points if you deep throat at this time. Instead gently suck around the corona as he climaxes so that you can intensify his pleasure and increase the force of his orgasm.

There is one further refinement to this basic technique which will heighten his orgasm. If you place your thumb at the very base of the penis in such a way as to block the tube through which the cum spurts, the semen cannot escape even though he is spasming and going through the reflex action of ejaculating semen.

If at the same time you suck vigorously on the head of his cock you can delay his cum for several long moments. When you finally allow the cum to spurt it will last much longer and be just as intense as a result. Even though you delay the cum for only a few short moments you will be surprised by the intensity of his cum.

These techniques are the basis of cocksucking. Do not go beyond them until you have become an expert, not only in the techniques themselves, but also in the reading and interpreting of your partner’s responses to such a point that you know exactly how he is getting off on what you are doing. When you have reached this point, you are ready for the more subtle, more advanced techniques.

Don’t be so slavish that you miss out on the fun of self discovery. Find out what works for you and for your partner and make your cocksucking as individual as your signature.

One of the first things you encountered when you first started to suck cock was a gag reflex. Most men seem to want to force their cocks down your throat as far as they can get it. Particularly at the moment when they cum!

Consider for a moment that the average length of your oral cavity is three to three and a half inches while the average Caucasian cock length is five to five and a half inches. The laws of nature would seem to dictate that getting all that cock into your mouth is an impossibility.

It can be done. It is possible to master the necessary technique. I don’t want to be boring, but if you understand your anatomy you will begin to understand the requirements that allow you to take his hard cock into your mouth and down your throat. The biggest obstacle to taking all of his cock down your throat is the fact that there is a bend of almost ninety degrees behind your tongue leading down into your throat. So the first thing to do is get the cock past that angle. Get past the angle of the dangle so to speak!

In order to practice this, get in a position where you can turn your head in such a way that your mouth and throat lie almost in a straight line. The best position to accomplish this is to lie on a bed so that your head is near the edge with your body sprawled across the bed so that your head is tipped sharply back. This position will put your mouth and throat nearly in a line and will allow your partner to approach you in such a way that insertion of his cock can be made so deeply that his pubic hair presses against your lips.

You must practice mastering the physical reaction that must be alleviated before the art of deep penetration can be fully enjoyed. The natural tendency of the body to gag when a foreign object such as a deeply thrusting cock being forced down your throat. You can overcome this tendency by completely relaxing your throat at moment the insertion is made. It is equally important that you maintain this relaxation during the entire deep throating.

Let him put his cock down your throat and hold it still while you find the most comfortable way to proceed. Because of your position you will not be able to move or to offer him any greater stimulation than simply keeping your mouth tightly closed around his throbbing cock. If you are able try to stimulate his underbelly with your tongue, do it!

You will only be able to relax and take his cock in this way if you completely thrust your partner. Your partner is in full control. He must initiate and maintain all the motion. This is the only exercise in which you relinquish your control of the situation to your partner. He will relish this for the simple fact that for the first time he can insert his cock as deeply down your throat as he wants to. Now your partner begins an in and out movement that is just like fucking. He should start slowly, especially if this is a completely new experience for the two of you. After all if he hurts you he cuts himself off from one of the great pleasures in life. His only other requirement during this exercise is to keep the motion in the same direction throughout this oral exercise as there is simply no leeway for him to vary the motion from side to side.

Don’t let your partner get carried away at the moment he starts to cum. At that spectacular moment he will be able for the first time to thrust his cock all the way inside your oral cavity and that is the most important lesson of this exercise! His only other requirement during the exercise is to keep the motion in the same against your lips as he cums.

It is possible that not everyone will learn the “deep throat” technique but this inability does not make you any less a cocksucker. You must allow your throat to relax completely while your partner is thrusting his cock this deeply down your throat. To do this long enough for your partner to completely get it off is very difficult and may require practice beyond this day. It may be that you will be able to take your partner completely down your throat, but you will not be able to maintain proper relaxation of your throat to until he shoots his load. Hopefully your partner will understand that this is not a rejection of him or of what he is offering you and it is my sincere desire that you not stop here and think that you will never master the “deep throat” technique.

Continue to practice this technique because your practice will allow you to take his cock deeper into your throat each time and for longer periods of time. Ultimately you will succeed. If you have the desire you will get this one down pat!
Now let’s turn to another portion of your partner’s anatomy which should not be ignored-the family jewels. Here are two objects which can enhance your partner’s feelings more than any other. Many people do not think of the balls as primary sexual objects. Many men are extremely sensitive and there must be a certain amount of trust built up between the two of you before he will willingly let you have undisputed use of these two pearls of delight!

Begin by gently licking his balls with your tongue. As your partner becomes more trusting you may begin to play with his nipples with your fingers gradually increasing or decreasing the intensity as you gauge how he is responding. You may want to gently caress his cock with your hand while you are bathing his balls with your tongue.

Remember that the balls are extremely sensitive to pain and he will lose his trust in you if you do not respect any limits he places on them just as you have the right to place limits on the back of your throat until you are completely ready to receive him.

It is possible once you have built up this trust to take both his balls in your mouth. He will be more receptive to this if you thoroughly wet them with your tongue prior to taking them into your mouth. Unless your partner is into the new fad of complete body shaving he will have tiny hairs on his testicles. By giving the balls a complete tongue bath prior to taking them into your mouth, you will have pressed these hairs down along the surface of the sac and will not inadvertently cause pain by pulling on them.

This may seem a small lesson but you will discover an entirely new world of sensations for your partner when you take the time to get to know his testicles!

There are times when you will want to get him off in a hurry! But because I want you to become an expert at all aspects of oral lovemaking I deliberately waited until now to introduce this technique. He will love it all the more if he realizes that this is not the only trick you have down your mouth!

It is a very simple technique and if you understand your partner’s basic cock anatomy you will grasp this one easily. Place your lips around the head of your partner’s cock and twirl your lips wetly and gently around the coronal ridge at the back of the head of his penis. This does not require any great cocksucking skill and it works simply because this is the area that is most sensitive on your partner’s cock.

It is not necessary to be a skillful cocksucker. All that is necessary is for you to find the most sensitive area around the coronal area. By sucking on this area of his cock continuously you will produce a quick powerful cum. It is not necessary to bob your head up and down on his cock to get him off. One other use of this technique is to get him hard again after he cums and you will soon find him rip roaring to go again.

ADDITIONAL TECHNIQUES

• The Butterfly Flutter

The best position for this very sensuous cocksucking movement is kneeling over your partner. If he is on his back kneel between his legs. Or kneel in front of your partner while he stands. I like this position because the cock feels thicker in your mouth and throat and you have complete freedom to play with his balls while performing this maneuver.

With your lips firmly wrapped around your man’s big swollen cock head and shaft you gently flick the tip of the cock with your tongue. Open your lips around the cock at a depth so that you can touch the tip of the cock with the tip of your tongue. Now with your lips around the cock shaft make an up and down movement with your tongue. Flutter your tongue up and down the tip of the cock.

I recommend you try it. It will drive your partner back into your mouth at any hour you want him there. After several minutes of this continue with the basic vacuum suck.

• The Traveling Figure Eight

After you have become comfortable with the basic vacuum suck and you have become accustomed to his cock deep in your mouth and throat try this action. It is guaranteed to take his breath away. With your lips firmly wrapped around the cock shaft try very slowly to reach the base of the shaft or as close to it as you are comfortable. Your nose should be buried in or at least touching the pubic hairs at the base of the cock.

With your nose, trace a figure eight as if the figure eight were lying on its side. Your figure eight motion should be three to four inches long. Slowly travel up the shaft of the cock to the head, doing the figure eight motion. Keep doing this motion and let your lips firmly travel up and down the cock shaft. Do this for as long as you are comfortable with it. Believe me your man is floating in orbit as his wildest dreams of the ultimate blow job are coming true.

By this time you are becoming more and more confident with your partner. His cock feels great as it fills your mouth and throat. The cock is becoming harder and warmer as your warm moist mouth and throat create friction by going up and down that big beautiful cock. It is time to cool his tool just a little with this technique.

• The Circle

Place his stiff cock inside your mouth but do not tighten your lips around the shaft. With your head begin a circle motion. The cock will slide to different places in your mouth as you continue the circle motion. Watch your teeth on this one.

A kneeling position will suffice but it is also effective when your partner is on his back and your head is directly over his cock. The circle should be executed in both clockwise and counterclockwise motions in a slow purposeful manner.

• The Lollipop Lick

With your man sitting in an elevated position and you on your knees in front lift his hard cock to reveal his balls. With your tongue find the underside of his balls. Now, while resting his balls on your wet tongue, lick in an upward motion to the very tip of his cock. It is permissible to use your hands in this technique. It is better to do this technique several times in succession-like licking a lollipop or ice cream cone.

I take full credit for this one myself! I needed a technique that would feel good in my mouth and would feel good for my partner. Here’s what I came up with:

Go down on the cock shaft as far as you are comfortable. All the while your lips should be firmly wrapped around the shaft. Open your mouth as wide as you can and suck in as much air as your lungs will hold. While sucking in air let your open mouth travel up to the cock head. Your up stroke motion should end at the head of his cock just as your lungs fill with air. Now with your mouth still open let the air in your lungs out slowly through your mouth as your opened mouth travels back down the cock shaft. This technique cools the cock on the up stoke and warms the cock with your hot breath on the down stroke. Do these movements as long as you like then return to the basic vacuum suck method.

Congratulations!

You are doing just fine and he loves it! Keep it up as long as you are comfortable with it. For his added pleasure and to give you something to play with reach up and fondle his balls. This will give him something else to concentrate on so he doesn’t pop his cock yet. If you feel he is about to cum stop what you are doing and let him cool off for a few minutes. After all you are having fun and you want to enjoy his cock as much as you can until you get tired of it. Then let him pop his cock! But not yet. He likes it too much and he wants it to last as long as you can keep it going.

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