If you are looking to try anal but aren’t sure where to start then butt plugs are a great option. But how to use a butt plug?
Butt plugs are ideal for first timers or people looking to move into bigger more adventurous sizes. They allow you to practice on your own, and move at a comfortable pace.
This makes butt plugs a great tool for people who want to try anal fun but are a bit tight down there, and need a little practice to stretch out. Well, let’s get started.
What is a Butt Plug?
Butt plugs are typically used as a beginner friendly anal toy to help ease your way into anal play.
Most often, butt plugs are used for training and stretching out your anal sphincter muscle. This allows you to get used to the new feeling or new sizes.
Butt plugs can be used for short sessions, or even be left in for longer periods (of an hour or two). This is to help train your anal muscles to loosen up.
Butt plugs also come in a variety of materials, including metal, PVC, Glass and Silicone each providing a different feel and flexibility.
For most people starting out learning how to use a butt plug, I recommend using flexible materials like PVC or Silicone. This is because of their bendability, making them more comfortable to use.
These anal plugs are also commonly sold in sets, or anal trainer kits. These allow you to choose a manageable starting size and work your way up.
For anyone who is experimenting with anal for the first time, but plugs are a fantastic place to start.
Learning how to butt plug is pretty straight forward. But, before we get down and dirty you want to be sure to get prepped and ready!
How to Use a Butt Plug
Purchase a medical grade butt plug.
When choosing the right butt plug, you want to make sure it is made from body-safe materials.
In addition, you will also want to choose a butt plug that is the right size and comfortable to use.
For this guide we will be using the 4-size silicone beginner set because of its certified boy safe materials, and tapered sizes that let you practice at your own pace.
You can find links to all of the mentioned supplies at the end of this guide.
Get clean Use the Bathroom and Flush with an Anal Enema.
To start, simply use the bathroom naturally and clean out your pipes. Afterward, take a shower and clean the entrance and about an inch inside with a finger.
To make this easier, you can push outwards slowly (like you are going to the bathroom) and wash up the skin inside.
Don’t use too much soap because it can cause irritation, but make sure you clean up well first.
If you are still worried about hygiene you can always use an enema to really flush things out (more details at the end of this guide).
Choose an Anal Lubricant
When learning how to use a butt plug, or delving into anything anal, using a good anal lube is a must!
This is because your anal tissue is extra sensitive, and although this means it can make anal feel amazing. It also means that you can hurt yourself if you aren’t extra careful starting out.
Added to the fact that your body does not have a natural anal lubricant. So, you must, must, must use a lube if you are planning to use that anal plug!
As far as lubes that play well with toys, I recommend using a water based lube because they won’t degrade the toy’s material and are the easiest to clean up.
Apply Lube to butt plug, and inject some lube inside.
The single biggest tip I have for how to use a butt plug for the first time is use lots and lots of lube!
You want your toy to go in as smooth as possible, and when it’s time for the little guy to come out, you also want it to slide out without a hitch.
Position the tip of your butt plug at the entrance of your bum.
You want to use one finger to insert slowly into your bum, and then position the tip of your plug on the entrance.
You can do this by laying on your back, or sitting down on-top of it directly.
Push out gently with your anal muscles.
The best way to describe this would be like you are gonna poop. This will help you to expand and relax your muscles and allow the toy to move in easily.
Another tip I have is to apply pressure with a finger to the area under your butthole and between your legs.
This is what is sometimes called the taint or grundle. As you push on the point you will notice your anal muscles start to ease up.
Insert the plug slowly.
Remember to take your time and don’t be afraid to use more lube if you need it.
Butt plugs are tapered so that as you move in, the wider it becomes and therefore the more challenging it can be (but who doesn’t like a good challenge ;-).
Your goal for each plug and to insert it all the way past the thickest point, after which it will pop into place (and this feeling is very satisfying once you get to this point).
You may get it on your first try, or you might have to take a few tries, but with patience and practice it should slide into place!
You may not be able to get the whole plug in the first time and that’s OK!
Think of this as a training session where every time you are are teaching yourself how to use a butt plug. Each time you are able to go just a little bit bigger, and eventually graduate up to the next size.
8. Keep the plug in for a few minutes
you can leave the butt plug in place for anywhere from a few minutes to an hour or more. The longer you leave it in place, the better you anal muscles will adjust and relax.
9. Work your way up to larger sizes
The great part of having a butt plug set is that it will let you move up to a larger, more realistic size as you get comfortable. For some this progression can be done in the same day, others may want to s[ace it out over a number of days and sessions. But with practice you should be able to use the larger sizes with no problem.
Before you know, that biggest plug in your anal trainer kit will pop in like a breeze.
10. Clean your anal plug after use
After every session, you want to make sure to wash your toy thoroughly with soap and hot water.
Cleaning your toy regularly is a must and will help to fight off any nasty smells, or bacteria build up which can be harmful to your health.
In order to extend the life of your toy, especially if you opt for a more expensive set, simply using a toy cleaner will take care of most of these issues.
In terms of the extra safety and longevity that you will get from your butt plugs, it is money well spent.
When choosing the right butt plug, you want to consider size. By far the most popular anal trainer kit on the site is 4 Set Kit because it gives you 4 separate sizes specifically made for beginners.
At under one inch for the smallest and paces you nicely up to the largest size at over 2 inches.
Additionally, these plugs are made form high-quality, medical grade silicone meaning they are safe, long-lasting, and comfortable to use.
From mild to wild, there are plenty of different types of furniture in this article. We take a look at Liberators – beginner friendly and unique pieces of BDSM furniture that allow you to experiment with different positions while offering areas for tethers and ties if you are looking to experiment with bondage, too.
We will examine sex swings and slings, which can be great fun for beginners and advanced users alike, offering new positions and the ability to achieve deeper penetration with or without bondage. We also look at dungeon beds that feature plenty of rings for hanging swings, slings, chains, tethers, and more. Dungeon furniture is reviewed for advanced users, including a variety of different cages and oral sex seats.
Last, we will take a look at sex machines- automated sex devices that provide plenty of play for beginners to advanced users and that are ideal for both solo players and couples/groups alike.
Wedge/Ramp Combo One of the best bondage furniture pieces for beginners, this combination wedge and ramp lets you try virtually any position you can imagine. Designed for all sorts of play and equipped with numerous handles for the included cuffs and tethers, you and your partner will find all sorts of exciting ways to play with this toy.
Leather Sling – Web Style This trapezoidal sling is made of three inch leather strips and definitely has an intimidating, dungeon look to it. It is a great focal point for any sex room and puts away easily for discretion. Great for bondage beds or sling stands and a perfect toy for those more comfortable with BDSM.
Door Jam Sex Sling Looking for the ultimate in portability and erotica when it comes to bondage furniture? The Door Jam Sex Sling may be just what you are looking for. Designed to fit over almost any door and suited to hold up to 235 pounds, this sling makes it simple to experiment with new positions safely and easily. The seat is ideally positioned to angle the hips for easy G-spot stimulation as well as to allow for deeper penetration. Great for beginners seeking BDSM fun as well as for couples seeking a portable way to have great sex anywhere there is a door!
Pig Sling with Stirrups Vegan made, the Pig Sling is a fantastic way to try all of those positions that a traditional bed simply won’t allow. Stirrups allow for deeper penetration, while sturdy construction ensures that you are able to play as rough as you want without worrying about safety. Great for those already experienced in BDSM, this is one sling that definitely encourages rough, messy, and hot position play.
Sling/Stirrup Combo Want to try new positions without a literal pain in the neck? This sling is definitely one worth considering. With a supporting neck strap, this sling ensures comfort, while the ankle and thigh cuffs keep the legs up in the air to help allow for deeper penetration. Find yourself in a tantalizingly compromising and comfortable position with this hands-free sling and you may never go back to traditional sex again!
Deluxe Portable Leather Thigh Sling This leather sling is ideal for beginners and for those unable to utilize suspension and full slings. With a padded neck brace and thigh loops, this sling puts the legs in ideal position for deep, G-spot stimulating sex. There are also attached D-rings on the neck pad for couples looking to add wrist restraint to the mix.
Leather Sling This sturdy leather sex sling is definitely great for seasoned BDSM’ers as well as beginners. The sling is designed to be suspended from a sling stand by ropes or chains and can be used with or without restraints. For those seeking new positions, the sling is ready to use as soon as it is installed, while those seeking more restrained play will find no shortage of D-rings for attaching chains, tethers, cuffs, and more.
Steel Bondage Frame This bondage frame has three solidly welded hooks for attaching bondage swings and other equipment. It is ideal for a number of BDSM activities, including position play and slings, suspension, and humiliation and flogging play. Better still, it can be easily set up and disassembled, making it great for use in the privacy of your own home or for taking to events and parties. This piece can be used for beginners or for those who are well-versed in BDSM, as it can be used with many different slings and attachments depending on your level of play and comfort.
4-Point Sling Stand With this sling stand, you can easily attach virtually any of the bondage furniture in this category without having to worry about creating ceiling suspension. Made from heavy duty metal and designed to fold down quickly, this piece is very sturdy and versatile. It is great for beginners and swing/sling enthusiasts alike and works with virtually all four point swings and slings. A definite must-have for anyone looking to explore or go deeper into swing play without buying a dungeon bed or installing ceiling suspension points.
Sportsheets Bondage Bedsheet Want sheets for easy bondage that can be removed quickly when guests are coming over? Then this is the perfect set for you! Designed to fit a king or queen sized mattress using a drawstring for tightening, the Sportsheets Bondage Bedsheet is outfitted with four different cuffs that attach to built-in anchor pads that allow for a number of exciting and tantalizing positions designed for any couple. This set is best for couples into light bondage and those who are newer to BDSM, and the anchor pads can be easily removed by pulling them up, ensuring that newcomers don’t feel quite so intimidated.
Fitted Leather Sheets These easily removable sheets give an air of sex appeal to any dungeon or sex room. This leather fitted sheet is designed to fit snugly on any mattress and can be ordered for any size from double to king. Flat seams and elastic at each end ensure a great fit, while the sexy leather will certainly give your next encounter a much more erotic feel. Great for those seeking sexual ambiance and for newcomers who are just getting into the BDSM lifestyle.
The Loading Dock Bed This bed is designed for those looking for serious BDSM play. With a frame made of steel tubing, the bed is sturdy enough for any play you can come up with, while offering a look of simple elegance when chains and other accoutrements are removed. There are restraint hoops on both the rails and the corners, making this bed perfect for experimenting with positions using tethers, ties, chains, and anything else you can come up with!
The Folsom Bed The Folsom Bed is designed with a rustic look and can quickly turn from bed to dungeon in a matter of minutes. Like other beds on this list, the Folsom includes restraint hoops on both the corners and the rails as well as a reinforced frame. Ideally suited for anything from a sling to your favorite chains, the Folsom is a great dungeon bed for experienced users and can be used for any position and any type of sex.
The Dore Alley Bed With restraint hoops on both the bed rails and in every corner, this stylish and visually appealing bed quickly converts into a dungeon for all types of play. The bed assembles easily and is sturdy enough for any chains and other accoutrements that you may wish to attach for more exciting BDSM play.
Sex and Metal Birdcage Sexy hanging birdcage can be great for humiliation and torture play. It includes a vinyl seat for the comfort of your partner, while offering overhead wrist restraints to ensure that he or she stays in just the position you demand. There are also a total of 31 different clamps to hold steel stakes that will humiliate and punish your captive as much or as little as you like. For those really looking for torture play, there is also the option of buying forked tip stakes for added pain and teasing. Definitely not for beginners, this is one cage designed purely for master’s pleasure.
Puppy Cage Are you into puppy play? Has your beloved puppy been naughty and found him or herself in need of punishment? Steel puppy crate offers just what you are looking for. Ideal for humiliation play and for putting your pet on display for your friends, this cage is great for those new to puppy and humiliation play as well as for those who are well experienced in the field.
Stockroom Stockade Definitely recommended only for hardcore users, this is a full body restraint system. Featuring a leg spreader, a set of stockades, fiddles, impalers, and more, this device is meant for those who know what they are doing. The device includes a sex rod for restraint or penetration use and can hold a dildo up to 2″ in diameter. With removable sections and numerous accessories, this is certainly the ultimate restraint device!
Jail Cell Stand Up Cage Are you looking for the ultimate way to display your captive in the bedroom or at a party or special event? The Jail Cell Stand Up Cage is the perfect dungeon equipment for keeping your captive exactly where you want them. With 3 locks, escape is definitely not an option, making this piece perfect for humiliation play as well as for teaching a naughty slave exactly what happens when they misbehave.
The Joyrider Combo Chair This unique sex chair is great for toilet play or for oral and rimming play. Designed to seat one, with another partner underneath, the seat is mounted on springs to allow for bouncing and riding during play. Definitely for use by those who are more seasoned in S&M, this chair can add new elements to an already exciting sex life and can be a perfect tool for oral sex or humiliation play.
Latex Vac-Bed This device is only for experienced users and is not recommended for beginner play. The Latex Vac Bed is designed to attach to your household vacuum cleaner, which will suck all of the air from the bed for the most intense and sensational bondage experience possible.
The bed, when the air is removed, is fully restrictive and includes only a breathing hole and a hole for the vacuum cleaner. Intended for those seeking the ultimate in restriction and bondage.
The Oral Sex Seat Invite your sub to a raunchy meal with the Oral Sex Seat. Designed with a toilet seat, this inventive device is perfectly suited to scat and urine play as well as for traditional oral and rimming play. The seat is designed to allow the sitter to relax comfortably while the sub performs oral sex or receives a naughty surprise. Definitely not for beginners or the faint of heart.
F* Saw This hand held machine is great for those looking for a hard pounding. The stroke of this machine is 7/8 of an inch, with speeds up to 2500 strokes per minute. There is a vac-u-lock attachment that can hold a variety of dildos and it is well suited to either anal or vaginal sex. This machine includes a 7 ¼ inch dildo and is definitely designed for advanced users.
The Slave Driver Sex Machine Designed for training your slave, this machine is perfect for doggy-style sex and discipline. Stroke depth can be easily adjusted to be as shallow or as deep as desired, up to six inches, and the machine can be adjusted without the need for tools. With stockades included, you can be sure that your sub will stay in place while you give him or her the Sex they deserve. Best of all, this machine is easily disassembled, making it easy to take to parties or to put away for storage. Designed for experienced users.
The Pleasure Box Sex Machine This machine is great for solo or partner play and is designed to be quiet as well as gentle on your furniture or floors. Designed with adjusting stroke depth up to 6 inches as well as a Vac-U-Loc dildo attachment, this toy is suited for hours of anal or vaginal play. Both the dong and the optional stand are sold separately, but this machine is well worth both. Well suited for first time Sex machine users as well as experienced users.
Dual Motion Handheld Sex Machine This machine hooks up to your favorite cordless drill for hours of endless sexual pleasure. The machine easily connects to any Vac-U-Loc dildo or to a Fleshlight male masturbator and is both quiet and safe. It both rotates and thrusts for twice the pleasure and can easily be used for solo or partner play. A good fit for beginners and vets alike, this machine is easily one of the most versatile Sex machines available.
The Stealth Sex Machine This sex machine is small and versatile and requires no tools. Like most other sex machines, it is compatible with Vac-U-Loc dildos and can be used for anal or vaginal penetration. Speed varies up to 160 strokes per minute, making it a good fit for beginners and the stroke adjusts from 1 to 5 inches. A great machine for beginners as well as those seeking something a bit smaller, this machine is definitely a great way to reach the perfect orgasm!
Dick Dexterous Sex Machine If you are looking for a sex machine that can achieve angles that virtually no other machine can reach, then Dick Dexterous is right up your alley. This machine is very easily adjusted and offers numerous heights and angles. It works with Vac-U-Loc dongs and can break down easily for convenient transport to parties, events, and more! A great machine for moderately advanced users and able to achieve up to 130 strokes per minute.
Red Devil Double Penetrating Sex Machine Definitely not for first-time users, the Red Devil Double Penetration sex machine offers simultaneous anal and vaginal penetration or even double penetration within the same hole. With a simple adjustment, it can be used for only single penetration and the stroke reach is up to six inches. The strokes go up to 130 per minute for rougher sex, making this Red Devil a definite addition to many wish lists!
The waterproof Buzz Base has the same legendary suction power as all of our FT Sticky Bombs . Pop it down on the toilet and mount. Ride it on the hood of your car. Once it’s STUCK, you never hafta worry about it sliding out…and you can focus on takin’ the WHOLE pulsin’ vibin’ damn thing! goninballsdeep.tumblr.com/post/152752122352/the-fort-troff-real-deal-buzz-63-xl
The Anal Master from Meo is truly a unique product. It’s a plug and an anal pacifier in one. Easy and comfortable insertion but a completely restrained feeling without discomfort.
Meo Anal Master was sponsored by Meo.de for an honest review. This does not affect my views. Affiliate links used.
Made entirely out of stainless steel and anodized aluminum, this heavy-duty (500g) plug has wings that expand when the key is turned. Perfect to lock it into place. And once it’s inserted and expanded, only the bravest of anal connoisseurs will be able to get it out without using the key to collapse it.
The Anal Master is delivered in this handy storage case, along with two condoms, a padlock, keys and instructions. The plug is secured by a rubber band in the top compartment of the case, while the accessories are located in the mesh pocket in the bottom compartment. The plug itself is carefully wrapped in bubble wrap for shipping. One thing that was not as clear as I’d like is – what to do with the attached rubber band. The instructions state to keep the rubber collar securely in place, and I assume that it refers to the rubber ring keeping the wings together. I went with removing the band and keep the ring in place (like in the picture below).
It is recommended to use a condom over the plug to keep things nice and comfortable and to reduce cleaning. Other than that, it is pretty straight forward to insert. It is a little blunt and by no means small in its closed position, so inserting it can take some time.
Once all 11cm is inserted it feels comfortable and not really stretching anything that much, which is nice. The cold sensation of the metal is really pleasurable. It can also be heated for a different sensation. The weight of the plug makes it want to slide out by itself, but turn the key a few rounds and that is not going to happen. It widens considerably from 40mm to a diameter of 85mm, which means it is easy to tailor just how full to feel and how hard it is going to be to remove it without consent. Having it inserted feels surprisingly simple, other than the fact that it wont come out. I was expecting more of a stuffed and stretching sensation, but that’s not really the case. It’s probably a good thing as it allows for prolonged use and can be incorporated into different scenarios.
The plug also includes a sturdy locking pin that attach to the padlock in order to completely immobilize the receiver. Please keep the extra padlock key in a safe place, just in case. Note that it does not come with an extra key to expand/collapse the plug. You only have one shot before the locksmith is the only option. The plug itself is very sturdy and well-built. It is comfortable to use, but does its job as a chastity device very well. The neck of the plug with the hinge mechanisms are a bit rough, but I never experienced that as an issue during use. Also the base rests comfortably between the cheeks, but the key hole extends quite a bit making sitting down with the plug uncomfortable.
It is fairly easy to remove the plug with the key, although it does take some time to collapse it completely. I was worried about pinching when doing so, but the wings do not shut firmly together. They are held in place by that rubber band, which means they just gently close together. This plug is clearly a product for people who know what they’re doing. This means I should stay far away, but you know – broadening the horizons and what not. Still it is simple to use, comfortable and not nearly as scary as I first thought.
I did come over something slightly troubling though. The plug works by having a screw rod (that is attached to the base and key) that screws into the metal ball in the tip. This pulls the ball closer to the base and forcing the wings open. If the plug is fully expanded and the wings get a little pressure around them while at the same time the key is turned (very firmly) a bit further – the screw gets such a tight fit and it can get stuck. Resulting in the ball and the screw/key to twist together without releasing. Applying the same pressure on the wings to keep the ball still for a moment while turning the key does the trick, but can you imagine the scare?!
I would like to see a stopper that prevented this from happening, but as long as you don’t twist it too hard in the last bit it seems to be just fine. Please treat it with proper respect.
Overall it is a great quality product in amazing materials that are hygienic and easy to keep clean. It is solid and has a very nice weight to it. Probably one of the best anal chastity devices out there. And judging by the other reviews, it is a big hit.
The Anal Master is available for €300 at Meo.de with quick and discreet shipping from Germany.
Believe it or not, some straight men like having their butts played with. In fact, more than a few of them are into anal penetration. But that doesn’t mean they are gay.
Stay with me here because what you’ll learn may surprise you.
In recent years, a topic has been bubbling up within the heterosexual community about the practice of pegging. Are you familiar with this term? If not, I’ll quickly explain below.
Pegging involves a dynamic where a man who identifies as straight likes being anally penetrated with a strap on. Typically, their female partners act as the “top”.
Because of long standing forms of homophobia within the wider culture, many assume that if a man likes anything near his anus, like a finger or toy, he “must” be gay.
It’s simply not true.
For the very reasons gay bottom men enjoy being topped, some straight men like getting “pegged”. This makes sense when you consider that a gay man’s butt is anatomically the same as a straight man’s.
The key difference is that gay men are just more open about these kinds of topics. Make sense?
Here are 3 things to keep in mind:
1. The male “G” spot is in the prostate
The prostate gland is surrounded by a bundle of nerves. When properly stimulated, they can cause extreme arousal. They aren’t “gay nerves” either. Instead, it’s male anatomy – purse and simple.
2. Some straight guys are curious about “backdoor”
Within gaydom, we simply call it topping or bottoming. But in straight-world, it’s called going “backdoor”. That’s code for anal penetration. And you know what? Some straight men are curious about what their girlfriends feel and are willing to switch positions.
But here’s the thing. They’ll never say they got f*cked. Instead, they simply say they sampled “backdoor”. See how that works? In this way, it’s very similar to the recent phenomenon called “Dude Sex”.
Anal trainer kit
Honestly, I never thought I would be able to do anal. Thinking about it now, I can remember a time when just thinking about bending over for a man was painful.
Sure, it was mostly mental but I’m just giving you an idea of how far I’ve come.
You see at one time, back when I was in my early 20’s, I considered myself a top. In fact, it was kind of my identity. I suppose part of the reason I gravitated towards the top bunk was because every single time I tried to ride a guy, it never worked out.
Yep, the pain just killed it for me. Plus, it was difficult for me to move past those initial strange sensations. Can you relate?
But two years ago, everything changed when I met Rex at my 30th birthday party. A buddy of mine brought him along as his “plus one” and introduced us. To make a long story short, we ended up hitting it off and began dating.
And did I mention that Rex happens to be massively hung?
Yup – he sure is!
I’m talking about a guy who is easily over 10-inches; almost identical in size to this guy. Oh man, and not does he pack major meat, he also has a scruffy face and furry chest to boot.
As you can probably tell, I really liked the guy. If it weren’t for the fact that his company transferred him to another country, we might still be together.
But I digress.
Anyway, we were compatible in almost every way. For example, he liked making out, doing oral and getting topped when the mood struck. Plus, he dug cuddling and mutual massage!
But the one thing that stepped on our fun was my total inability to bottom. That may sound crazy but it’s true. As I mentioned earlier, I had tried sitting on men (much smaller) in the past and it was always the same result – no dice.
Thankfully, Rex decided to take me under his wing and train me. No, I’m not talking about BDSM stuff. Instead, he taught me to bottom by starting me off small and eventually working my way up.
You may be wondering how he did it? Well, I’ll tell you. He ordered me an anal trainer kit! Silly as that may sound, that’s exactly what happened.
It was so funny how it happened. He wrapped it up as a Christmas gift with a bow on top. I found it inside of my holiday stocking with a note that read:
At first I thought it was a joke. I mean who wouldn’t right? After all, I thought of myself as a “man”. And everyone knows that men don’t sit on silicone.
Well let me tell you – it wasn’t a joke. On New Year’s Eve, he told me to pack a bag and head over to his place. “Don’t forget to bring the gift I got you – we’re using it,” he said.
And so that’s what I did, even though I thought he was talking smack.
It didn’t take long before I figured out he wasn’t kidding around – at all. Here are the steps he took to convert me from a top to a bottom.
1. Lube launcher
The first thing he did after making sure I was cleaned out good was take a lube launcher filled with a silicone product to get me good a slick.
I’m pretty sure he used Pjur’s brand. That’s what we always had around when we played.
And I want to emphasize here that the cleaning process he made me go through was rigorous. I won’t take up a lot of time on this except to direct you to this anal douche guide for men if you want to learn more.
2. Finger first
Rex then took his finger and began to work my hole. Now I have to say he was gentle and didn’t act like an aggressive jerk when he did it.
We talked the whole time and he always asked me how I felt while he did his thing.
3. Small toy first
Once I was ready, he very, very gently inserted the 4-inch toy first. That happens to be the smallest one of the three toy kit.
I remember being in the missionary style when Rex did it, which he assured was optimal for training.
4. Medium sized
It would take several more sleepovers before we were able to move towards something bigger – meaning the medium sized toy. That one is around 4.5 inches.
Now let me tell you that just being able to do the small one was a BIG deal for me. So you can imagine how I felt when I mastered the medium size.
5. Large size
Once we had hit the one-month mark, we finally decided to upgrade to the largest in the kit – the 5.5 toy. I had wanted to go for it earlier but he insisted that I be patient.
“Don’t turn into a greedy bottom man” I remember him saying with a smirk.
Well, with a lot of time, effort and patience, I finally did get the largest size inside. I didn’t think I could do it but with his help, I did!
6. Stayed with large
Much to my surprise, Rex suggested that I try to keep the toy, which was really a butt plug, inside of me a few hours a day.
The thinking was that it would help me to stay stretched out so that I could eventually upgrade to his meat.
In my case, I found that by ordering a different plug, it helped because of the base. But it really wasn’t necessary when I look back. The point is that by staying with large and having it inside of me for part of the day, it didstretch me out!
7. Finally sat on him
It would take nearly two months before my anal trainer time to conclude. But the end result was that I was able to sit on the real deal.
And I have to say that Rex was amazing every step of the way. After all, he didn’t have to take on this role and put all that time into me.
When that magical night did arrive, I was able to mount him with major confidence. I won’t go into details here but I will say that I splooged like crazy!
Anal Trainer Aftermath
After that first time with Rex, something changed in me where I couldn’t get enough. Not sure that I can describe it but it’s akin to someone turning on a light switch.
Where I once used to look forward to topping him, I found that all I wanted to do was be a piggish bottom and ride him out. And Rex was all too happy to oblige.
That’s because my ex’s true north was really top. Like I said, he would let me pound him but if given a preference, he preferred “driving the truck” so to speak.
Sadly, we had to break up because of his job. He got transferred to London – a place that I love but couldn’t move to for a host of reasons.
We still talk. And believe me, if he hadn’t have married another guy, I’d still be open to something down the road. But Rex gave me a gift that will always be with me.
You see, I no longer think of myself as a top. And truth be told, I’m not interested in being versatile. That’s because I’ve discovered I was really meant to be a bottom – and a power bottom at that!
And the best part? A guy’s size no longer scares me!
So if you are new to bottoming or of the thought of anal intimidates you, I hope you give serious thought to the training kit I mentioned above.
It helps to have the right mindset. Learn all you can about bottoming, including the importance of diet. In the end, it will pay off big time!
