Personal lubricant

Personal lubricants (colloquially termed lube) are specialized lubricants used during human sexual activity to reduce friction between body parts, or between body parts and other objects. They are used during sexual acts such as intercourse and masturbation, to reduce friction to or between the penis and vagina, anus, or other body parts, or applied to sex toys to reduce friction or ease in penetration. Surgical or medical lubricants or gels, which are similar but not usually referred to or labelled as “personal” lubricants, may be used for medical purposes such as speculum insertion or introduction of a catheter.

Water-based

Water-based personal lubricants are water-soluble and are the most widely used personal lubricants. The earliest water-based lubricants were cellulose ether or glycerinsolutions. Products available today may have various agents added for even dispersal, moisture retention, and resistance to contamination. The viscosity of these products can be altered by adjusting their water content and concentration of cellulose or other gel-forming hydrophilic ingredient. Because water-based personal lubricants absorb into the skin and evaporate, most water-based lubricants have a tendency to dry out during use, but reapplication of the lubricant or application of water or saliva is usually sufficient to reactivate them. When the lubricant eventually dries out, it may leave behind a residue derived from the other ingredients in the formulation. This may require reapplication during sex, and/or removal of the residue with water. Some newer water-based lubricants are formulated with natural skin moisturizers, such as carrageenan, and may not leave a sticky residue after evaporation. Carrageenan has also been shown to be a potent inhibitor of human papillomavirus infection. Carraguard, an aqueous gel containing carrageenan developed as a microbicide, has been shown in some preliminary studies to inhibit HIV transmission, although results have been mixed. Scientists are testing whether anti-retrovirallubricants or gels can be applied to aid in the prevention of transmission of HIV.

Typical water-based lubricants may be incompatible with sex acts that occur in water (such as in a bathtub, pool, or hot tub) as they can be dissolved or dispersed in water.
A 2011 study by the Population Council found that many commercially-available water-based sexual lubricants tested damaged human rectal cells and that some of them - those containing polyquaternium-15 - appeared to actively increase HIV replication in cell cultures and therefore could raise one’s risk of HIV transmission. Water-based ‘lubes’ have been recommended for use in safer sex because they do not weaken condoms like oil-based lubricants do. The researchers concluded: “Since it is the condom that is protecting users from HIV rather than the lube, condom users should still be encouraged to use water-based lubes because condoms are also more likely to break, and trauma to the rectal lining occur, with no lube”. They also cited silicone-based lubricants as a potential alternative, although they did not test any silicone lubes in their study. Lubricants and creams containing the spermicide nonoxynol-9 are known to be cytotoxic, as studies have shown the compound damages cells and makes users more vulnerable to HIV.
A latter study Dezzutti CS, Brown ER, Moncla B, Russo J, Cost M, et al. (2012) PLoS ONE 7(11): e48328. doi:10.1371/journal.pone.0048328 has validated the findings of the Population Council for some water based product’s hyper-osmolality causing some human’s cells damage and better biocompatibility with low osmolality water based products and silicone-based products but failed to corroborate polyquaternium 15 having a role that binds HIV to rectal cells or increase HIV replication.

Oil-based

Oil-based lubricants, for example petroleum-based lubricants (such as petroleum jelly), can increase the likelihood of breakage and slipping of latex condoms due to loss of elasticity caused by these lubricants.^[4] Oil may also create tiny holes in the latex. Oil-based lubricants may be considered desirable for people who are in relationships not requiring condom use and who wish to avoid certain additives and preservatives often found in other lubricants.

Organic or natural

In the United States, the first certified organic personal lubricant labeled with the USDA organic seal was Nude Personal Lubricant, which was created in 2004 by Applied Organics. The US Food and Drug Administration (FDA) regulates lubricant as a medical device rather than as a cosmetic. Because of strict FDA guidelines for medical devices, organic personal lubricants were no longer allowed to carry a USDA seal for Nude Personal Lubricant, and that it should be very careful about using the term organic anywhere on its label. Many of these types of lubricants also market themselves as “natural” and do not contain paraben, glycerin, DEA or animal-based ingredients. Some contain botanicals such as aloe vera or plant extracts.
ANSI and NSF have partnered with organic certifiers around the country in order to provide a definitive set of compliance guidelines for organic lubricants and other personal care products. NSF/ANSI 305 organic standards for body care are modeled off of the USDA organic standards for foods. Their certification process calls for transparency in the ingredients used and the processes utilized to turn those ingredients into finished products.
In December 2011, Aloe Cadabra, manufactured by Seven Oaks Farms in Ventura, California, became the first personal lubricant certified to the new NSF/ANSI 305 Organic Body Care Standards.

Silicone-based

Silicone-based lubricants are usually formulated with fewer than four ingredients and do not contain any water. Silicone lubricants offer a different feel from water-based personal lubricants. Silicone-based lubricants are not absorbed by skin or mucus membranes, and consequently last longer than water-based lubricants. Many different silicone lubricants are commercially available with varying quality and performance. Not all silicone-based lubricants are certified latex-safe, but silicone-based lubricants have not been shown to increase the risk of HIV transmission during anal intercourse, as some water-based lubes have.

Silicone-based lubricants are not usually recommended for use with sex toys or other products that are made from silicone because the formula may dissolve the surface making it sticky to the touch, and cause disintegration of the item over time. This damage may create a breeding ground for bacteria. In most cases a warning is listed on the product label. Silicone-based lubricant is also used in the manufacture of pre-lubricated condoms, due to its long-lasting properties and superior latex compatibility.

Specialty lubricants

Warming lubricants contain specific ingredients to cause a sensation of warmth. Breathing on these types of lubricants may increase the effect. “Cooling” or “tingling” lubricants may contain ingredients such as peppermint. Some lubricants are sold together, such as “hot and cold”, or are marketed for a specific use or effect. Flavored lubricants contain flavorings, such as fruit flavors, to enhance oral contact. “Edible” lubricants may be flavored and/or may not contain any ingredients that are not advisable to eat.

Anal-specific

Many lubricants are safe for anal sex, but there are products that are specifically marketed or designed to enhance enjoyment of anal sex. Often, this is simply a thicker gel rather than a liquid. This thicker consistency is preferable because it helps the lubricant stay in place. Some lubricants contain benzocaine, an anesthetic. However, the use of any numbing agent for anal penetration is not recommended as a lack of sensation makes accidental injury more likely. In addition, benzocaine can cause an allergic reaction in those with an allergy to PABA (4-Aminobenzoic acid). Some lubricants are conveniently packaged for ease of application. Many of these products such as Astroglide Shooters have been pulled from the market recently due to FDA Medical Device Requirements. Products containing benzocaine can numb all body parts with which they come in contact.

Other

Other products that have been used as personal lubricants include vegetable shortening, which is durable and inexpensive but damaging to latex. In a controversial scene in the movie Last Tango in Paris, the character Paul, played by Marlon Brando, uses butter during anal sex with the character Jeanne played by Maria Schneider. The jelly-like substance made from grating Dioscorea opposita, tororojiru (Japanese: とろろ汁), is often served in, or alongside, a number of other dishes. However, during the Edo period,tororojiru was also widely used as a personal lubricant for sexual activities, and it was thus considered improper for it to be eaten by a woman. This aversion also derives from the loud slurping sound one makes when eating it, which was considered to be un-ladylike.

Uses

Sexual activity

A personal lubricant can be used to increase pleasure and reduce pain during sexual intercourse or other activities and may be used for lubricating the penis, vagina, anus ordildo or other sex toy before or during activity. Lubricant may be applied to any body part desired, to the inside and/or outside of condoms, or to the hands or fingers. Personal lubricants are particularly useful for intercourse when a partner experiences dryness or excessive contraction (tightness) of the vagina or anus. Anal sex generally requires more generous application of lubricant since the anus does not have natural lubrication sufficient for most sexual activity.

Medicine

In medicine, lubricants can be used for gynecological examinations, digital rectal examinations, the insertion of catheters, and the use of enema nozzles and rectal thermometers. The class of lubricants now known as “personal” derives from surgical lubricants; K-Y Jelly was originally introduced in 1904 for this purpose.

Masturbation

While most males and females both produce varying amounts of their own lubrication, it is often desirable to add extra lubrication. There are specific lubricants which may be used in male masturbation but are not suitable for vaginal or anal use or for use with condoms. Lubricant that is safe for sexual intercourse is also safe for masturbation.
Masturbation cream is specially formulated to enhance male masturbation.

Risks

Care is recommended in choosing a personal lubricant. Some women may experience irritation from the use of certain lubricants. Some lubricants (as mentioned above under ‘Water-based’) have been found to damage cells or even increase the replication of the HIV virus. Nonoxynol-9, a spermicide contained in some lubricants, is an irritant and can cause micro-tears which may increase the rate of HIV transmission and HPV infection. Spermicidally lubricated condoms do not contain enough spermicide to increase contraceptive effectiveness, but application of separate spermicide is thought to reduce pregnancy rates significantly.

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Best Lubes for Giving a Handjob

So, you want to give a really good handjob, or maybe you just want to jack off.  Either way, your body likes things wet that’s just how we were made to feel. When choosing a good lube you need to keep two things in mind slipperiness and longevity.  Below are our top picks along with some user review of the best lubes for giving a handjob.



Added Sensation Lubes

Climax Bursts Tingling

If you are looking for something with a little more sensation and want a lube that does more than simply lubricate then Climax Bursts should be your go to.

What makes the Climax Bursts so special is the inclusion of a tingling sensation in the formula.

Unlike other lubes we have tested, Climax Bursts has a nice balance of added sensation to give an extra kick that is not overpowering.  For those looking for something a little special, this is the best lube for giving a handjob.

Silicone Lubes

Silicone lubes are some of the best, high quality lube types you can use when giving a handjob.  They are slick, long-lasting, and feel great to use.

As a drawback, though, silicone lubes can be harder to clean up and sometimes leave stains in sheet (which go away when washed) or an oily residue.

This means less time fussing around when doing the dirty (no need to re-lube half way through) but a slightly more involved clean-up.  Regardless, silicone lubes are your best choice for general use.

Swiss Navy Silicone Lube

Swiss Navy is a fantastic all purpose lube that feels amazing when giving a handjob (or just for solo play).

It is slippery, and long-lasting and does not get tacky or leave behind an oily feeling like a lot of other lubes I have tested.  In terms of feeling, when I used this for the first time it nearly sent me through the roof!

Swiss Navy really feels like the real thing.

The pump cap is also super easy to add more and a cinch to use one handed and helps so you don’t have to break up the fun.  If you are are looking for a lube that will get the job done, and finish him fast, then look no further.

Pjur Original Body Glide Lube

We have featured Pjur on some of out previous lists for the best lubes.  Simply put, whether you are masturbating, giving a hand job, or having sex Pjur is one of the best overall silicone based lubes you can buy period.

It feels amazing, with a great consistency and a super slippery feel.

And because it is nearly friction free there is virtually no heat.  It’s a feeling that is a bit difficult to describe but put simply, will make him melt into the covers.

Pjur is a bit pricier than other silicone lubes because this is in the premium category , but you get what you pay for a truly premium feeling product.

Water Based Lubes

Smooth and Slick

Smooth and Slick is named rightly so it is a slippery smooth lube with an awesome glide, and most importantly feels great.

This is currently one of the highest rated lubes on the MQ store, and what makes this lube so popular is its simple no frills design, cheap price of about $17 a bottle for 8 lunches of lube, and longevity when compared to other water lubes out there.

Again, this lube does have a tendency to dry out (like any other water based lube) after extended use but is easily fixed with some water (or even a little spit).

Because of its low price and high performance it has gained its spot as on our list of the best lubes for giving a handjob.

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J-Lube – May Be Stored

This is a good basic way to mix up J-Lube when you’re going to want to keep it around use at a later time.

Refer back to the previous recipe for immediate use; once the J-Lube mixture has been micro waved, add 1 fluid ounce of a general gynecological lubricant to the mixture and stir.This will add a preservative to the mix which will help keep it stable for a longer period of time, it will also slightly change the texture and consistency (it makes it more like cum).

Once the mixture has cooled slightly, divide it into freezer safe containers (baby sports bottles work great, and you can get Rubbermaid ones at the dollar store). Put your containers in the freezer.

About half an hour before play, microwave the mixture on defrost / low until thawed completely and a little above room temperature, or simply take out of the freezer about two hours before play (you can warm it slightly in a bath of hot water).

You won’t actually have to freeze / refrigerate this mixture; but I personally think it’s a good idea to be as safe as possible.

NOTE: I use Septi-Lube Generic from American Livestock Supply [ALS] ($8.95 / gallon, but be aware that because of the weight of a gallon the shipping will seem high.  Also, the generic is milky in color, real Septi-Lube is bright blue (like those toilet bowl cleaners).  And as an aside, you can use Septi-Lube by itself if you like the consistency, it’s a fairly inexpensive lubricant — but adding J-Lube to it will give you a much less expensive lube and it will hold up much better during long play sessions.

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The Ultimate Lube Guide – All you’ll Ever Need to Know about Getting Wet

Lube solves the dryness problem by making everything nice and slick. There are a ton of lubes on the market, though, so you need to know which ones are right for you. I have different lubes for all kinds of fun. We have a lube for toys, we have a lube for anal sex, we must have about a dozen lubes for masturbation. (Not really, but close enough.)

Most modern lubes work pretty well. Still, some are better than others. A little research will help you choose a personal lubricant that fits your body and intended use. It’s not like lube is expensive, but there’s no point in turning an awesome night into a blah night. If you want to have the best sex of your life (and isn’t that one of life’s major points?), then you’re going to need a good lube that reduces friction and helps you get off.

THERE’S MORE THAN ONE TYPE OF LUBE – KNOW THE DIFFERENCES!

Let’s start with some lube basics. There are several different kinds of lube that you can buy. The most popular are made from oil, water, or silicone. There are also some organic and natural lubricants that some people prefer, especially if they have allergies or they’re vegan.

WATER-BASED LUBE

I prefer water-based lubes. You can’t really go wrong with a good water-based lube. Whether you’re enjoying some alone time or having fun with partner, these are the go-to options.

Water-based lubes are good for any occasion. You can use them for anal sex. You can use them when jerking off. You can use them during blowjobs, although you probably want to read the ingredients before you decide whether you want to ingest lube.

For me, the best part of choosing a water-based lube is that you don’t need to worry about how it will effect condoms, toys, etc. Some lubes will damage dildos. You don’t want to ruin a nice sex toy by putting the wrong lube on it. That’s a huge waste of money.

Plus, I’ve become attached to some of our sex toys. I would feel a little sad if we had to throw one away because a frigging lube made it unreliable.

If you use condoms regularly, then water-based lubes should work well for you. Some silicone or oil lubes contain ingredients that can damage the latex used to make condoms. You may not even notice the damage, which is what makes it dangerous. You might as well not even use a condom if its full of little holes and tears.

With water-based lubes, you don’t have to worry that your condom will let any semen or other fluids through, which is a big deal if you’re not in a committed relationship or if you have an open relationship.

The only problem with water-based lubes is that they can evaporate more quickly than silicone. If you’re having an hour-long bang session, you’ll probably need to reapply lube a few times. Personally, I don’t think that’s a big deal.

To tell you the truth, I kind of like that water-based lubes force me to stop for a minute. It’s a great time to get some head or go down on your partner. Plus, it gives your dick a minute to relax so you can prolong the experience. Personally, I don’t want to come too soon. Water-based lube can, if you let it, encourage you to slow down a bit. I think that’s great.

One other thing. Water-based lubes don’t work well when you’re in water. So if you’re going to have shower or hot tub sex, this probably isn’t the best option for you unless you want to reapply every few minutes.

Still, these are the best. I choose water-based lube whenever possible.

SILICONE-BASED LUBES

Silicone-based lubes come in at a close second. They don’t evaporate like water-based lubes. They’re really, really slick. In other words, you can fuck like a pro when you use silicon-based lubes.

They’re also great for anal. I use water and silicone lubes during anal. It just depends on what kind of mood we’re in. Realistically, most people will prefer the feel of silicone lubes for anal sex because it will never evaporate or need re-applying, but of course the trade off is that it’s gonna be pretty uncomfortable after the fact (not easy to clean up).

There are, however, several challenges to using silicone-based lubes. These challenges suck (and not in a good way). My biggest complaints about silicone-based lube is that it:

• Is hard to clean up
• Can make a huge mess if it gets on your bed sheets
• Slowly breaks down latex sex toys

So, if those sound like problems to you, silicone-based lube isn’t your first choice.

I will stand by silicone, however, when it comes to shower fucking. If you’re going anywhere near water, bring some silicone-based lube with you. It won’t break down in warm water. The properties that make it hard to clean are the same ones that make it great for shower sex.

Even though we don’t use silicone-based lubes very often, we keep a bottle on hand for when we want to get frisky in the pool, hot tub, or shower (or when I’m using my Fleshlight shower mount).

OIL-BASED LUBES

I do not use oil-based lubes. There are so many things that can go wrong with them that we think it’s best to not keep them in the house. My list of complaints could go on and on. These lubes are:

• REALLY hard to clean up (think about trying to wipe petroleum jelly off your dick. Now imagine cleaning it off your sheets.)
• Not healthy for interior bits. Trust me on this, your partner friend will not be happy if you put oil-based lube in him.
• Dangerous for people worried about pregnancy and STDs. They make it easy for condoms to slip off during sex (especially anal) and they can cause little tears in the latex that people relying on condoms need to avoid for pretty obvious reasons.

If you already have some oil-based lube in the house, reserve it for jerking off. Yeah, it can get sticky and messy, but it feels pretty good. Other than that, the only people I can think of who should use oil-based lubes are those who have allergies to the ingredients in other types of lube.

Generally, I’d say spend your money on a different option.

Now that we’ve gotten through some of the lube basics, we can take a closer look at some of the best lubes.

I am adventurous and we like to try new things. I couldn’t even guess how many different brands we’ve used over the years. When it comes to coming, I have a pretty deep knowledge of what products help most.

Use my experience to help you choose a lube that will work for your sex life.

THREE OF THE BEST WATER-BASED LUBES WE’VE TRIED

There are a ton of water-based lubes on today’s market. It’s okay if you find it confusing. There are just so many different products that people have a hard time deciding which ones they should buy.

Over the years, I’ve come to rely on certain water-based lubes. When I’m buying, I automatically turn to these because they offer reliable performance. Of course, I occasionally buy something different or new, too. If I weren’t willing to take some risks, I could miss out on awesome new products that work great.

Here, I’d like to direct you to my three favorite water-based lubes. I’ve done the shopping around and research. You don’t have to waste your time and money on lubes that only give you so-so performance. If you stick to these three lubes, you will not have any complaint.

MAXIMUS

Maximus is one of my favorite lubes of all time. I’m a big fan or water-based lubes in general, but this one stands out to me because it’s so easy and effective.
Some of the things I like most about Maximus:

• It doesn’t contain any glycerin
• It’s really slippery, which is what you want from lube
• It has a thick consistency that makes it easy to apply to toys
• It outlasts every water-based lube I’ve ever used, which makes it perfect for anal

Although this is one of my favorites, I do have some mild complaints about Maximus. You should know about them before you buy. These minor problems might not mean anything to you. Then again, they could be deal breakers. Either way, here are some of the things that I dislike about Maximus:

• It contains parabens, which doesn’t matter much to me but some people are sensitive to them
• It’s just a little on the pricey side, especially for buyers in Canada and the U.S. since it’s imported from England
• It can leave a bitter taste in your mouth. People disagree about this, though. I think it tastes really sweet and she likes using it during blowjobs. When I kiss her after the blowjob, though, I think it tastes terribly bitter.

SLIQUID H2O

Sliquid H2O is a water-based lube made for discerning people who care about what they put in their bodies. It’s a completely vegan, natural lube. If you avoid animal products, then you can use this lube without feeling guilty.
Other things that I like about Sliquid H20 include:

• The way it mixes well with her body’s natural lubrication
• The natural ingredients that don’t include any lab-made chemicals
• It doesn’t have a taste or smell
• It’s really easy to clean up when you’re done

The only problem I have with Sliquid H20 is that it doesn’t actually last all that long (all natural is good but typically don’t last as long as those lubes with at least some specialized ingredients), and it doesn’t work very well for anal penetration. It’s fine for small butt plugs and glass dildos, but it’s not the best option for full anal penetration. It’s a good product, but it isn’t slick enough or long-lasting enough for all that.

ASTROGLIDE

I often find that big companies that make lube pour more money into marketing than product development. I was hesitant to try Astroglide. In my experience, things that are really popular aren’t usually the things that should be really popular.

Astroglide works, though, and it’s easy to find even if you don’t live in a big city. If you need to buy lube immediately, you can find this at most drug stores and big box retailers. It’s probably the best option that they have on the shelf.

Realistically, the average person isn’t going to see a big difference between Astroglide and the water-based lubes that I prefer. It’s inexpensive and it works fine.

That said, I think convenience is the best thing about Astroglide.

The average person may not feel the difference, but that’s because the average person has only used lubes available at nearby drug stores. When you read reviews of this product online, you can really tell who knows what they’re talking about.
People who have used lubes like Maximus complain that Astroglide doesn’t last long enough or that it isn’t slick enough for anal. People who have only used K-Y Jelly, however, think that Astroglide is the shit. Compared to K-Y, I agree. Astroglide is pretty damn good.

If you are an average person looking for a lube that will get the job done, you’ll like Astroglide.

If you want a heightened sexual experience, I suggest trying other water-based lubes like Maximus and Sliquid H2O.

MORE WATER-BASED LUBES

It seems like companies keep making new water-based lubes designed to meet specific sexual needs. I’m happy to see this revolution taking place. Right now, I use Maximus almost exclusively when I’m masturbating.

Maximus is the only water-based lube that we use for anal. Your experiences may vary according to your body and your partner’s body. For my money, I would stick to one of these two options.

If you need lube immediately, run to the store and grab some Astroglide. It’s probably the best water-based lube that you can buy at your local drug store.

THE THREE SILICONE-BASED LUBES WE LIKE MOST

I’m a water-based lube kind of guy, but some people prefer silicone-based lubes. I get it. Silicone is extremely slippery and it lasts a long time. If you’re going for marathon sex, silicone-based lube will not let you down. In my experience, silicone-based lubes are also best for anal penetration. Of course, that depends on the brand you buy.

I find that silicone-based lubes are more likely to contain unwanted chemicals than their water-based versions. After all, the lube is going into her body. It’s usually just going on the outside of mine.

I don’t want to give the impression that silicone-based lubes are bad. They aren’t. Most people who use them find the experience very pleasurable. They’re also some of the best options for anal sex and having sex in water. It’s just that some people have other preferences, and that’s completely fine. You’re the only one who gets to decide what goes in or on your body.
If you want to give silicone-based lubes a try, I suggest these three products. They have never let me down.

ÜBERLUBE

Überlube markets itself as a luxury lubricant. That’s a spot on analysis. This lube lasts forever no matter what you do with it.
Going anal tonight? Überlube will keep pace so that you don’t have to deal with reapplications. Sticking to the regular routine? Überlube is a tried and true product that will let you get off without any chaffing. Going solo? Überlube will slick you up quickly and stay with you until you finish.

Überlube, unlike a lot of silicone-based lubes that I’ve tried, is really easy to clean up. I don’t recommend getting it on your sheets. It could still stain if you don’t clean it up immediately. It doesn’t, however, make a big mess like a lot of lubes. Yes, it’s kind of a pain to get out of cotton sheets, but everything is. When it comes to wiping it off your body, it doesn’t resist at all.

The bottom line is that you won’t feel like you need to take a shower immediately after sex. You can just wipe off Überlube and go to sleep. Or get ready for the next round. I guess it depends on how early you need to get up the next morning.

As a high-end product, you can expect to spend more money on Überlube than most silicone-based lubes. We have a travel set of Überlube that came with two refills. If I remember right, it was about $30. I think that’s a little pricey for the product, but not outrageously so. If Überlube works for you, go ahead and spend a little extra cash on it. It will add significantly to your sex life.

GUN OIL

A lot of people find the Gun Oil’s packaging a little off-putting. It’s clearly designed for gay and bi guys to use during anal sex. But that’s all just marketing. The actual product itself is great for all kinds of sex. I suggest getting over the package and focusing on the what the product can do for your love life. I think you’ll enjoy it.

Some of the reasons I like gun oil include:

• It’s unscented
• It’s hypoallergenic, which is good for people with sensitive skin
• The silicone really does last a long time, so you don’t have to stop mid-hump to reapply
• It doesn’t contain any glycerin
• It doesn’t hurt latex toys or condoms
• It includes a bunch of botanical ingredients that sooth the skin, which is important for recovery
• It doesn’t contain any parabens

That’s a pretty long list of positive reasons to buy Gun Oil.

I can’t think of any reasons that you should avoid Gun Oil. I guess some people might have reactions to the botanical ingredients. You should probably rub some on your skin to make sure you aren’t allergic to any of them. Other than that, this is a top-notch product that’s perfect for masturbation, toys and anal.

PINK

Pink is another silicone-based lube marketed as high-end. Like Überlube, it has several qualities that make the label appropriate.
I think most people buy Pink because it:

• Has moisturizers like aloe and vitamin E
• The silicone stays slippery for long sex and water sex
• It definitely feel smoother than cheaper brands

Personally, I like Pink because it makes people feel comfortable. In this respect, it’s the opposite of Gun Oil. I think it’s a little silly to get hung up on packaging, but I don’t think it’s silly to buy a product because it gets you laid more.

Pink has pleasant, feminine packaging. If you’ve led a pretty vanilla sex life up until now, but you want to introduce toys or anal play, I think Pink could make your partner a little more comfortable with your desires.

Pink is a little harder to clean up than Überlube. I’m not sure why that it is, but that has been my experience. It’s not a big deal to me, but I usually feel like taking a shower after using it. If nothing else, I’ll use a wet cloth instead of just a tissue when cleaning up. That minor inconvenience is worth the fun that you’ll have.

MORE ON SILICONE-BASED LUBES

Silicone-based lubes are popular in drug stores, but you won’t find many of the high-end options there.

If you’re going to add some adventure to your sex life, it makes sense to invest in a really good lube that will make the experience more pleasurable. Find an option that works for you and your partner, and have a blast!

I’ve met people who wished they had bought better lube. I’ve never heard anyone complain that a lube was too good.

GOING ANAL? YOU’RE GONNA NEED THE RIGHT LUBE

A lot of people avoid anal sex because they’ve had bad experiences in the past. If you tried anal as a teenager, you were probably too dumb to do it right. Now you have this idea that butt stuff is painful or gross.

As fun as anal play is, there are some questions you have to deal with before you start. You can’t just shove your dick in someone’s butt. That part of the body doesn’t really work that way. Butts aren’t self-lubricating. If you’re going to brown town, you’re going to need lube. And you’re going to need plenty of it.

I really don’t want to think about what people used before they could buy slick lubes specially formulated for anal penetration.

BEST WATER-BASED LUBES FOR ANAL

In general, water-based lubes are not the best option for anal penetration. Your average water-based lube may work for small toys, but they are not necessarily going to make full penetration comfortable for everyone. Even if you find a lube that makes helps you get your dick in there, chances are that it will wear off quickly either through evaporation or body absorption.

That means you will have to reapply, which, let’s be honest here, is not the type of thing that usually makes anal more exciting. Although, as I said above, it can be decent to get the opportunity to slow down for a minute. Plus, I guess some people will just always prefer water of silicone.

If you are going to try a water-based lube during anal intercourse, I think Maximus is the way to go.

I’ve used it and enjoyed it on the both the giving and receiving ends. I want Maximus to lubricate that toy. I wouldn’t trust any other water-based lube to do the job. Maybe I’m particular, but that’s my experience.

BEST SILICONE-BASED LUBES FOR ANAL

Silicone-based lubes are a whole other story. Any number of silicone lubes can make anal play exceptionally more fun and enjoyable. The human body doesn’t absorb silicone like it does water, so you don’t have to worry about reapply lube during anal sex unless you’re going for some kind of record.

That said, some silicone-based lubes are better than others when it comes to anal penetration. If you’ve had a bad experience with anal sex, I’ll guarantee it was because you didn’t lube properly. Don’t ruin anal play for yourself. Get a good lube that’s made for anal sex. And use a ton of it.

The silicone-lubes also work well for anal. Some people like to keep their lubes separate, though. I guess it makes them feel that anal is more of a special occasion. If you prefer using a different lube for anal sex, I’d recommend one of the following options.

PJUR BACK DOOR

Pjur Back Door is considered one of the best brands for anal sex. Come on, it’s right there in the name. It has a thick consistency that makes it easy to apply and ensures that it doesn’t run thin so you have to stop before you climax.

Back Door also contains an ingredient that’s supposed to be an anal relaxant. I’ve never actually used Back Door on my ass.
Pjur also includes a small amount of nutmeg in Back Door. Nutmeg is supposed to ease discomfort. Using numbing agents is usually a bad idea when having anal sex. If things get numb, it’s easier to get hurt without even knowing it until you regain full sensitivity.
The key to preventing pain during anal is taking it slow and keeping things lubed up. The nutmeg doesn’t seem to hurt anything, but I can’t imagine that it helps that much.

Those considerations aside, I still think that Back Door is the best option for most people who want to have anal sex. It’s nice and thick; it lasts forever; and it’s pretty easy to clean. That’s basically what you want from an anal lube.

ANAL GLIDE

Again, it’s true purpose is right there in the name. This time, it’s even more explicit!
I’d buy this for the name alone, but I wouldn’t use it unless it really worked. Glide is very similar to Pjur Back Door. They both include anal relaxants and silicone, and they both offer a fun experience that lasts a long time.

Anal Glide has a thinner consistency than Back Door. That can make it a little harder to apply. It might also reduce your bang time, but only by a little. I’ve never noticed a significant difference in how long Glide and Back Door last.

The thing that makes Glide potentially more useful than Back Door is that it has a pump dispenser that you can use with one hand. That may sound like a minor benefit, but it’s a pretty big deal when you’re in the middle of sex or even when you’re trying to have some good alone time.

Anal Glide is a little easier to clean up than Back Door, too. That’s probably because it has a thinner consistency. Neither lube will give you any problems. This one’s just a tiny bit easier.

MORE ON SILICONE-BASED LUBES FOR ANAL

I hate repeating myself, but I think it’s important for people to know that lube is the key to enjoyable anal sex.

If you choose the wrong lube, there’s a good chance that someone will feel uncomfortable. Don’t let that happen. No matter what lube you choose, communicate with your partner during anal sex. Communicating means more than yelling about how good it feels.

Check in with your partner to make sure she or he is having a good time and not experiencing any discomfort that will make anal less likely in the future.

SPECIALTY LUBES FOR SPECIAL EVENINGS

A special evening calls for a special lube. Lubes are primarily about reducing friction, but that doesn’t mean you can’t have some extra fun with them. Specialty lubes include flavored, numbing, warming, and organic products. These have become increasingly popular over the years. I recommend browsing the available options with your partner. I bet one of them will arouse your interest.

FLAVORED LUBES

Flavored lubes are fun for any oral activity. If you want a deeper blowjob, flavored lubes can make it an easier, more enjoyable experience for both people involved.

These lubes come in all kinds of flavors.

NUMBING LUBES

Numbing lubes are for when you want to go all night. Men who have trouble with premature ejaculation can also use it to prolong sex and make sure that their partners get off before they do.

I don’t really use numbing lubes, but I can see how they come in handy for some people. If you choose to use a numbing lube, you should follow some precautions.

First, make sure that you only put the lube on your dick. Second, make sure you put a condom on after applying the lube.

The point of numbing lube is to slow the guy down. If you put it on your dick and then have sex, it’s going to get transferred to your partner. That’s bad news for several reasons. Most obviously, it will dull your partner’s enjoyment. Most importantly, it can dull your partner’s sensitivity, which makes it all too easy for regular sex to unintentionally turn into rough sex.
I would avoid numbing lube for anal play. There’s too much risk that a numb ass will get hurt.

WARMING LUBES

Some people enjoy warming lubes on special occasions. If you’ve ever had cold lube slathered on your sensitive bits, then you can easily understand why warming lubes have become popular.

Warming lubes, however, can contain ingredients that cause me some concern. Nearly all of them contain glycerol. That’s a fancy name for a kind of alcohol that has a thick consistency. When exposed to your body, it will warm up. That’s a pleasant experience as long as you’re fine with using lube that contains a lot of glycerol.

Some companies put capsaicin in their warming lubes. I don’t recommend these. Capsaicin is the chemical that makes peppers taste so hot. If you or your partner are sensitive to peppers, then you could have a negative experience with these lubes.

My advice is to check the ingredients before buying any warming lubes. If you feel uncomfortable with something in the lube, don’t buy it. If you’re perfectly fine with it, buy and have fun.

ORGANIC LUBES

Organic lubes don’t contain any lab-made chemicals. If you have an allergy to the chemicals typically used in water-based and silicone-based lubes, then organic lubes can make your night special without unwanted side effects.

Remember that “organic” doesn’t always mean “safe” or “healthy.” Organic lubes usually contain oils that will break down condoms and latex toys. If you need to wear a condom, check the label to make sure your lube is compatible.

Most companies that make organic lube know that they’re selling to a niche market, so they spend a lot of time developing healthy formulas that contain natural moisturizers like aloe. I think that’s a great way to improve the overall quality of sex products.
If you’re the type of person who only eats organic foods, then you should look into organic lubes, too.

Specialty lubes are a fun way to enjoy the evening. Since some of them are made for specific activities, you should always read the labels. Really, that level of precaution should be obvious. It’s not a great idea to put something in your body unless you know what it is.

SPERMICIDAL LUBES PROBABLY DON’T DO WHAT YOU THINK THEY SHOULD

The thing about spermicidal lubricants is that they don’t protect very well from pregnancy.

They only stop something like 15% of pregnancies.

When it comes to preventing pregnancy, you can just forget about relying on these lubes, although they could offer a little extra protection if you’re using a condom.

Realistically, I think you’re better off just using a condom and trying a silicone or water-based lube.

We’re not particularly worried about getting pregnant, so we don’t use spermicidal lubricants. Of course, that doesn’t necessarily mean you should avoid them. They do the same job as other lubes (you know, they make it easier to put one thing into another thing) and they may give you a little peace of mind. If that’s what you want, by all means try out some spermicidal lubes. It’s not like they’re going to hurt anything. I mean, it’s not like your dick is going to fall off or something.

I worry a bit that some people may put themselves in danger because they don’t understand how these products work. Keep in mind that they are not good at stopping pregnancy and they most definitely do not protect you or your partner from STDs.

If you think that sounds stupid, then you may want to reconsider. Apparently the scientists who created spermicide originally thought that it would kill common STDs. They figured that, hey, it kills sperm, so maybe it will kill viruses, too. They were only partially right about the killing sperm part (I’ll say it again – do not rely on spermicidal lube as a contraceptive), but they were dead wrong about viruses. It turns out that spermicide does absolutely nothing to stop them.

Of course, these protections don’t matter to everyone. If you’re in a committed relationship and you aren’t worried about pregnancy, I don’t see a reason that you shouldn’t use spermicidal lubes. I’ve used them with my wife and on my own. They get the job done. Just don’t expect them to do more than they can. You’ll  be disappointed when you get a burning sensation or your boyfriend comes to you with a plastic stick she peed on.

There, I’ve said my bit about spermicidal lubes. Now you know my position on the matter. If you already have a bottle in your bedside drawer, keep using it. If you don’t already have some, you can choose better products.

WHERE TO BUY LUBE

Just a couple decades ago, you had to go to a sex shop to find a good lube. Those days are over, and I couldn’t be happier. Today, you can find lube in practically any drug store. Hell, you can find decent lubes at the grocery store. No, I’m not talking about coconut oil. I’m talking about real, honest lubes designed for sexual pleasure.

You won’t find a lot of variety at your local drug store, but I’m glad the option exists now. Of course, some people will feel a bit timid buying lube at their neighborhood store. Hopefully the store you shop at has self-checkout lanes so you can avoid some embarrassment.
Like I said, I’m really happy that people can buy personal lubricants at local stores now without having to visit sex shops. I, however, don’t buy lubes at the store. I don’t feel self-conscious about buying them. I just prefer a wider selection (and a cheaper rate) that those stores don’t offer.

I think it’s a bad idea to use “any old lube” that you find at the store. The lube that you use should match your preferences and sexual activities. The lube that works great for you right now might not even be the one that you buy next year. All kinds of things can change your opinion and preference. If you’re becoming a little more adventurous, then you might need a thicker lube that’s made for anal play. If you get a new sex partner, then you may need to find a new lube that matches his or her preferences, too.
When buying lube online, follow the same guidelines that you use when purchasing other products.

• Compare prices to make sure you don’t spend more money than necessary, and be sure to include shipping costs during your comparison.
• Only buy from online retailers that you trust.
• Read a few reviews to make sure you’re getting a reliable product from a store that won’t try to rip you off.

Personal lubricants have entered mainstream culture. It’s an exciting time to explore your sexual fantasies without putting yourself or your partners in any danger. I’m obviously a big fan of lubes. I think it’s important for all sexually active people to know their options so they can choose a lube that makes sex more enjoyable.
With so many lubes and so many places to buy them, you can easily add some spice to your sex life.

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The Big Lube Guide

This page is all about something you don’t see me talking about much here – Lube. Just because I don’t review it and don’t use it much, doesn’t mean it’s not super important for most people. I happen to (usually) produce enough natural lubricant on my own and so it’s not something I use very often. I also don’t use sex toys anally, so there’s that. Anal activities **require** lube, and lots of it. For many people irregardless of arousal, they need lube – whether it’s just how their body is, or it’s a side effect of a medication they’re on, or it’s part of their health issues OR the sex toy they’re using is particularly textured. It’s normal to use lube!  But not all lube is created equal. In fact, I’m sorry to tell you that most readily-available commercial lubes SUCK.  Plus, the best lube for anal sex may not be the best lube for masturbation. Chances are pretty good that if you’re using a quality sex toy made from body-safe materials and you are experiencing irritation and burning anyways, the irritation and burning is coming from your lube. Whether it’s bad for you, bad all around, or it went bad. Yes, lube does expire! And most of us aren’t about to make yam lube, either, so I’ve gotta help you find the best commercial lubes out there that won’t poison your genitals.

Explain it Like I’m 5 – What’s Osmolality?

We’ve got three situations – the best is if the lube is iso-osmotic – meaning your cells and the lube sit there next to each other, happy, making each other better. They’re content. If the osmolality is low, i.e. hypo-osmotic, then the lube is like my Italian best friend’s mom – eat, eat! It’s feeding the cells too much water, and at some point they will burst. When does this matter the most? If you’re trying to conceive. Hypo-osmotic lubes would kill the lil swimmers. The most common situation is when the osmolality is high, i.e. hyper-osmotic. It’s the vampire situation – the lube comes in all charming at first and things seem okay. The lube feels really slippery, which is great! But it’s slippery because it’s drinking the moisture from your cells. When they have no more to give, they are dead and dry. The outer layer of cells will slough off and leave your mucus lining very vulnerable, like standing in a snowstorm without winter gear. STI transmission can increase and at-risk people are at greater risk for infections – this is the same group of people who need to use more lube than the average person. Diabetics, those with a compromised immune system, those undergoing treatment for cancer, etc. If your partner has Herpes, you’re doing everything you can to avoid transmission – consider the lube, as well. Stick to iso-osmotic lubes.

• Molality is defined as the amount of substance (measured in mol) of solute, divided by the mass (in kg) of solvent, (not the mass of the solution). In other words, it’s the measurement of the mass of the stuff that’s dissolved in a liquid.
• Osmolality is a variation of molality that only takes into account solutes that contribute to a solution’s osmotic pressure, and Osmotic Pressure in this instance is the measure of the tendency of a solution to take in water by osmosis.

Unfortunately we’re largely left to guess when it comes to osmolality because only a small handful of lubes have been tested. In addition to those listed in this chart I found a few extra (including Probe brand which seems to be pretty close to iso-osmotic) and I also contacted the makers of System Jo lube who say that the Agape version is at 350 and the new version of H2O (which will be released in October) will have an osmolality of 200 (current is 800).  We can make educated guesses on the osmolality by knowing a few things: that certain ingredients cause the osmolality to increase. So by avoiding those ingredients we can have a better shot at a lube that plays nice with our body. Of course, you can also avoid this by using coconut oil or silicone-based lubes. We don’t know how osmolality affects hybrid lubes (which are water-based with a little silicone added) because no one has ever tested them. Do they suddenly get to skip the rulebook because of the small amount of silicone? Maybe? But to stay safe, pick hybrids with very few ingredients.

INGREDIENTS! READ YOUR LABELS!

Sometimes there are so many scientific words in the ingredients list that we don’t even know what they are. Are they safe? Will they burn, are they a known irritant?

There are a lot of problematic ingredients and this goes way beyond parabens. In fact, it’s been suggested that parabens might not be the Big Bad Monster – studies about the effects of parabens have been done by feeding mass doses of it to mice…naturally, they’re going to experience bad side effects! You may never use enough lube to rack up enough parabens to cause cancer but some people are allergic to parabens. Of course, paraben is also a xenoestrogen, but a weak one. Xenoestrogens can have a feminizing effect on masculine bodies and masculinizing effects on feminine bodies. The other top two ingredients to avoid are glycerin(e) and propylene glycol. Both of these greatly increase the osmolality of the lube (making it a lube to avoid) and both can cause sensitivities (and for some, yeast infections). Other lube ingredients are listed below and any of them can cause irritation in addition to: increased STI transmission; killing off of the good bacteria; increase of bad bacteria; allergic reactions.

AVOID: Glycerin(e), Propylene Glycol, Nonoxynol 9, Chlorhexedine Gluconate, Petroleum Oils, Polyquaternium-15, Benzocaine, Sugars & Sugar Alcohols, Ureas

Why you should avoid Benzocaine. It numbs you, which is not really a good thing. I am unsure if the numbing creams for premature ejaculation but benzocaine is an irritant. Benzocaine used for those experiencing painful sex or those wanting to make anal play less scary is just a bad idea because pain is your body’s way of saying HEY STOP. You can end up with injuries, microtears to the delicate tissue, and major problems.

A note for Celiacs or those with extreme gluten-sensitivity: Avoid “Oat Beta Glucan” which is found in Sutil. I contacted the company about that ingredient (because not all oat is contaminated with gluten, but some super sensitive people react to oats no matter what) and they have confirmed that there is gluten present in that lube. When I was trying it out I also licked it and it made me ill for a day, so it’s enough gluten that if gluten makes you sick even in tiny quantities, avoid this lube. Avoid Vitamin E (tocopherals) unless the company can assure you they are not derived from a gluten-containing grain. These can also be derived from soy, for those with soy allergies. Sliquid’s Organics line uses Vitamin E and this is what they have to say about it:

Our Natural Tocopherols are extracted from wheat germ, sunflower, and safflower oils. One thing to keep in mind (and you can find this info on glutenfreedietitian[.]com and other sites) is that refined oils are exempt from allergen labeling by the Food Allergen Labeling and Consumer Protection Act, and the European Food Safety Authority, because the refining process renders them virtually free (undetectable) of allergenic proteins. Consuming refined wheat germ oil is still not recommended for anyone with a gluten allergy, however, there is still another refining step where the Vitamin E (tocopherol) is extracted from the refined oil.

Add to that, the amount of Natural Tocopherols in any one bottle of Sliquid Organics is less than 5%. For a highly sensitive person, or someone who just wants to be extra careful, we would suggest the Naturals line from Sliquid. In fact, for anyone with any food allergy, we recommend Sliquid Naturals, just to be safe.

Note: if your lube is paraben-free it can go bad much more quickly. There are preservatives that are natural but they don’t seem to do quite as good a job as paraben preservatives. Keep an eye on the color of your lube and the odor. If it’s off, toss it. Try to avoid pump bottles (air = bacteria) or sticking your finger in the lube bottle.

RESEARCH YOUR INGREDIENTS

Lately I’ve been looking into various lubes when someone has mentioned that they caused burning/irritation, and I’m finding even more weird and suspect ingredients. I usually just Google the individual ingredients and read over the first few results. Some sites will make something sound worse than it is, some will whitewash it. Some will confuse you. I mean why would you put an abrasive agent that’s normally found in toothpaste, in a lube?  But there it was, in a System Jo arousal gel (and shamefully, System Jo doesn’t publish ingredients so thank goodness for reviews).

UNDERSTAND SENSITIZERS

If in your research you find that an ingredient is referred to as a “sensitizer” it means that the likelihood a person will react to these ingredients depends on how much they’ve used them – sensitivity it cumulative and increases with use. This means you can find yourself not reacting at first, but reacting after your 2nd or 3rd bottle or even 4th or 5th use of the first bottle. UREAS are one example of sensitizers, and you’ll find these in a lot of cosmetic ingredients (so they’re a common irritant to sensitive-skinned people).

What about the FDA? What about lubes that make medical claims?

A bunch of experts were polled on their thoughts about the FDA and lube. Most said “oh, absolutely, we welcome the FDA, the FDA knows best!”. But as Sarah Mueller pointed out – the FDA doesn’t always know best. They approved Nonoxynol 9, after all, and it’s been shown to INCREASE STI transmission! The FDA testing process doesn’t actually test how a lube will affect human genitals! They test it on rabbits – their eyeballs. In fact it really does seem like the FDA cares about two things: that you pay your fee (which can range from $20,000 to $300,000) and that you either do animal testing or go to much length to prove you do NOT need animal testing. So what if you wanted only lubes that are FDA-approved? Well let’s consider that the awful KY Yours-And-Mine duo (hideous ingredients) is FDA approved. Surgilube is FDA-approved.

Another troubling fact: If your lube is FDA-approved then you DO NOT have to list your ingredients. Anywhere. This spells trouble for those that are high risk or have allergies. Just consider Surgilube – they say it’s proprietary so they won’t tell you even if you ask because of allergies. Just because it’s FDA-approved doesn’t mean it’ll be iso-osmotic, a good pH or free from common irritants. The FDA-approval process for lubes needs a major overhaul before I think it’s something Good For The Public.

STI Prevention Claims

Something I’m seeing a sharp increase in is lubes containing carrageenan, and the lube companies making claims about STI prevention. There have been some studies on this and they’ve had positive results, but a lot more research needs to be done. I would, for now, be wary of these claims. Just because a lube with this ingredient, for this claim, is FDA-approved does not mean it can prevent the spread of an STI. They’re not stamping a seal of approval or efficacy. One such FDA-approved lube is called Divine 9 / Carraguard, from Carrashield Laboratories. They make some grand, yet vague, claims on their website that might lead you to believe that they’ve proven that their lube can prevent the spread of certain STIs but you have to really hunt and read for the truth:

The excellent results in the NCI laboratory studies have led to the launch of three large scale human clinical trials using Divine 9. These are the only three human clinical trials in the world on HPV prevention using a topical gel and Divine 9 is featured in all three. While no conclusive evidence exists yet that Divine 9 with CarraShield will block HPV in humans, the results of the NCI tests were compelling enough to justify multi-million dollar investments in these three Phase 2 human trials. CarraShield Labs will provide updates as the data collection continues. At this time CarraShield Labs makes no medical claims about Divine 9 and provides this information strictly for educational purposes.

So they’ve gotten it classified as a medical device and gone for FDA-approval to give the idea of something grand and medicinal, but the tests aren’t conclusive and there haven’t been enough tests, or tests on humans. The human tests aren’t concluded, I believe.

Basically, anytime you see a lube making any claim that it can help prevent the spread of any STI, don’t believe them. The large-scale clinical trials and conclusive results are not here yet. When they happen it will be major news.

LUBE RECOMMENDATIONS

First I want to say that osmolality and pH and ingredients don’t play a role in pure plant oils like coconut oil, or silicone lubes. We don’t know what role they play in hybrid lubes (which can be really awesome – there’s not really enough silicone in a hybrid lube to fuck up most silicone sex toys, but it’s enough to give that slippery, long-lasting appeal). Check the ingredients on the hybrids and avoid the bad stuff if you’re sensitive. Unfortunately, even some of these good lubes can irritate very sensitive people sometimes. While the amount of citric acid in lubes like Sliquid is small, sometimes it’s enough to irritate someone.

I understand that most people don’t want to buy their lubes online but unless your local drugstore carries Good Clean Love (some do) or Sliquid (rare) the brands I’d recommend are going to be found online. This isn’t the most accessible, I know, but for many people it’s necessary. If you care about what’s going in your body and strive for non-porous body-safe sex toys, consider overhauling your lube kit, too. I would recommend the following lubes based on ingredients, pH and known/assumed osmolality:

Water-based Lubes:

All Sliquid brand (and their Organics line) are good on the osmolality, pH and ingredients lines. Organics line can have aloe which can present issues for some and all Sliquid has a small amount of citric acid as a preservative. Only the most sensitive would be bothered by it. Try:

• • Sassy for a thicker anal lube and H20 for a thinner lube – Both of these are free of aloe
• • Sea also has aloe; it contains carrageenan which MAY help prevent the spread of HPV, plus other oceanics-ingredients to help with inflammation and dryness
• • Sliquid Pack to try out various types
• • While I prefer that you shop for lube at sex toy stores, Amazon does carry Sliquid if you just need to purchase lube and not sex toys.
• • Lovehoney US and Lovehoney UK carry some Sliquid lubes, but not all.
• • Smitten Kitten carries a few of the Sliquid Organics lubes
• • The Organics Line¹ has some organic ingredients and all of them contain Vitamin E and Aloe, amongst other natural stuffs.

Good Clean Love ² is a good brand, also, for pH and ingredients. Definitely check out the Almost Naked variety. I’ve got a review here! Love the stuff!

• • SheVibe seems to carry the whole line
• • Smitten Kitten carries two GCL products
• • Amazon also carries Good Clean Love

Smitten Kitten, a progressive queer-friendly shop based in Minnesota, carries brands that many other sex toy stores don’t.

• • Hathor Aphrodesia  – they have Sutil which sells like hotcakes; it is much longer-lasting than most water-based lubes on the market³. The regular H.A. has some interesting ingredients like Horny Goat Weed which can contribute to bad taste. Note: Sutil contains Oat Beta Glucan, which is a gluten ingredient. Company has confirmed there is gluten in the lube.
• • WaterSlide which could be really great for those sensitive to most ingredients – it’s a thin, slippery lube with nearly no taste.
• • Aloe Cadabra which rates well on taste, too.
• • Southern Butter’s Bliss On is rated well by SK. There is some alcohol in it, but so far no one has reported irritation.
• • Smitten Kitten’s curated sample packs. Each pack contains 5-6 lube samples from different brands, all of them true, body-safe lubes. They’ll also send you their Lube Info pamphlet.

SheVibe carries:

• • Probe is good on both osmolality and pH and is formulated to feel more like natural lubrication
• • Coconu has a water-based lube that looks good
• • Blossom Organics looks decent, but contains Vitamin E and I can’t get an answer on the source so those with soy allergies and gluten limitations should steer clear

Goodvibes has their own  Please brand. The Liquid and Gel are the water-based.

I found another option through Amazon. Astroglide makes a Naturals lube that is shockingly free of any crap ingredients. I don’t know where it falls on the osmolality scale; sensitive folks should pay attention to the ingredients⁴ for anything they might find irritating.
YES brand is under FDA scrutiny and a sort of “lockdown” for import into the US while they wait on becoming FDA-certified. But I’d heard so much good stuff about this brand that I had to locate it. You can find it on Amazon and according to YES, it should be genuine YES brand lube. How they’re doing it, I don’t know; the seller must be partnered with a European seller. You can find YES brand at Lovehoney US and Lovehoney UK, because all Lovehoney US orders come from the UK.

Hybrid Lubes

These are awesome because they combine the toy-safety of water-based with just a littttttle silicone (how much varies between brands). Now since silicone doesn’t affect osmolality or pH, and there haven’t been studies on hybrids, we don’t know how hybrids fare on osmolality or pH. So for that reason I still say to avoid osmolality-raising ingredients and irritants. I used to enjoy Wet’s Syngery lube but it has ingredients I can’t recommend. Spunk lube seems to have some popularity but it contains every ingredient I tell you to avoid! Plus there are multiple silicones in it and they’re high up on the list, which means it may not play as nice with silicone toys. These three are the only ones I can find that meet my requirements for safe ingredients.

• Sliquid Silk – Found at: SheVibe,  Early to Bed, Tantus, and Amazon
• Sliquid Organics Silk – Found at: SheVibe, Early to Bed, and Amazon
• GoodVibes Please Cream comes highly recommended. It does contain some alcohol in the middle of the ingredients list, and citric acid at the end, so there’s a chance for irritation.

Plant-Based Oil Lubes

Naturally there’s good ole plain coconut oil – please be sure you get the right kind though! It has to be unrefined, virgin coconut oil – don’t get the liquid/fractionated. Read this guide for all the ins and outs of using coconut oil.  I feel that pure coconut oil is perhaps the best starting point for ass stretching out into the plant-based oil lube world, as we know that coconut oil is low-comedogenic and anti-microbial (can help with infections). There’s also Sliquid’s oil blend to consider or YES brand oil blend available at Amazon or Lovehoney US / UK. Also look at The Butters, soon to be in a retail store near you, I hope. I don’t recommend Coconu because of their sham marketing which says that silcone is practically toxic. They also hide the fact that their lube will destroy many sex toys materials and get you quickly on the road to this mess.

Please note that oil lubes are not good with most condoms/protection – only nitrile and polyurethane condoms. Also to note that oil lubes should never be used on porous material sex toys like most male masturbators, TPR, PVC, etc. It’s safe with pure silicone, metal, some wood, glass, hard plastic and ceramic.

LUBES AND CONDOMS

I’m working on having this section fleshed out a little better. It seems that most condoms are using a silicone-based lube. What if you don’t want that? What if you can’t tell what type of lube they are using? My best bet right now is to tell you to find nonlubricated condoms and pair them with your own lube that you know isn’t irritating to you. SheVibe carries Atlas brand; Smitten Kitten carries Trojan Enz.

Even though I go over this elsewhere, I’ll say it here: If you choose to use plant-oil based lubes (coconut oil, etc) then you must use polyurethane condoms. You can also use the nitrile-based FC2.

FLAVORED LUBES

Flavored lubes (or conversely, totally taste-neutral lubes) that are completely safe, pH good, osmolality good, etc etc are going to be hard to come by. I hear mixed things on the Sliquid Swirls to be honest. It seems to be very much YMMV because what one person thinks is as tasty as a Jolly Rancher, the next is ready to puke. This is a section I will be working on, both sides of the coin.

FISTING POWDERS

J Lube and X Lube are just a few fisting powders I’ve heard about. Basically it’s a powder, you add water and mix it up. The result is a thick gel which is economical and plentiful. J Lube was made for birthing livestock; it contains a lot of sugar. X Lube claims not to use sugars, but I’m not really sure about their ingredient which is listed as PEO. Wikipedia says PEO and PEG are the same thing – polyethylene glycol….a petrochemical we’re to avoid.  I’m waiting on more information before passing a judgment.

FINAL TIPS

If you see a gynecologist, try taking along your own lube because chances are pretty good that they’re using either KY or Surgilube. The doctors aren’t trained to know this stuff. If you have ever experienced dryness, irritation during sex, etc after a check-up then this is why. And when you do bring your own lube tell them why! Point them to badvibes.org to educate them on the dangers of the crappy lubes they’re using.

Irritation with some chemicals can build over time; you can be fine for awhile with the lube you have or an ingredient in your favorite lube and then one day…you’re bothered by it. It happens.

LUBES TO AVOID

KY is a hated brand. It contains an ingredient commonly found in mouthwash. That’s right, an antiseptic. This is irritating AND not necessary! Astroglide, yikes. Polyquaternium-15 promotes viral activity and is found in four different Astroglide varieties.  ID Glide has never been a favorite of mine, the ingredients are crap and the osmolality is high. Pjur makes great silicone lubes, but their water-based leaves a lot to be desired. Same with Wet brand.

Don’t buy lubes (or anything else that is a topical for your genitals) that don’t publish their ingredients. In my research I’ve been looking for brands/varieties to recommend and have had to leave them off the list because I can’t find the ingredients. System Jo, Spunk lube, XR Brand’s Tom of Finland lubes or Passion lubes (basically anything by XR brands), and many more. Some reviewers published the Spunk lube ingredients but there seems to be a little variation.  I can’t see why any company would avoid publishing the lube ingredients, but it raises a red flag for me.

Resources and other great lube articles:

* Graphics, charts, and research courtesy of BadVibes.org / The Smitten Kitten
* Interview with Sarah Mueller with even more tidbits about her lube research
* Lorax of Sex breaks down the types of lube
* Sexational! explains osmolality 
* Lube osmolality study 

1. Organics Natural Ingredients Purified Water, Plant Cellulose (from Cotton), Aloe Barbadensis*, Natural Tocopherols (Vitamin E), Cyamopsis (Guar Conditioners), Extracts of Hibiscus*, Flax*, Green Tea* & Sunflower Seed*, Citric Acid (Citrus Fruits), Phenoxyethanol (Rose Ether)
2. Ingredients: Organic Aloe Barbadensis Leaf Juice, Xanthan Gum, Agar, Potassium Sorbate, Sodium Benzoate, Citric Acid, Natural Flavors
3. Sutil is formulated with regenerating hyaluronic acid for dry and sensitive skin, including the genital area. Hyaluronan has the ability to bind large amounts of water to provide increased lubrication, enabling optimal regeneration of the skin.
4. Ingredients: Purified Water, Xylitol, Aloe Barbadensis Leaf Juice, Potassium ascorbyltocopheryl phosphate (Vitamins C & E), Pectin, Chamomilla Recutita (Matricaria) Flower Extract, Hydroxyethylcellulose, Phenoxyethanol. 

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Best Anal Lube: Silicone, Water and Numbing Guide for Bottoms!

What is the best lube for anal? Are some lube choices better for bottoming activities than others? And how important is lube to the anal sex experience?

The answer to these questions are more complicated than you think. That’s because not all lubes are the same. Some are designed to slip and slide. Others are created to extend play. And still others are charged with numbing.

BEST ANAL LUBE: 3 TYPES

Generally speaking, there are three primary types of lube. These include: silicone, water and oil. While each one may seem self-explanatory, it’s important to know the differences before making a purchase.

And that’s where the confusion comes in for so many. The truth is, picking the right lube can be downright confusing. This is particularly true if you are new to anal or if you are a first time bottom.

That’s why I decided to do conduct an extensive review of the most popular lubes on the market and share these findings here.
And so regardless if you are top, bottom or vers, my goal is to help you make the best anal lube choices possible. That’s why I put this guide together – to help you as a lube consumer.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

• A working definition of lubricant
• The three primary types of anal lube
• Why it’s important to use the right anal lube
• Why silicone lube may be your best choice
• The pros and cons of water based lube
• The basics of oil based lubes used for anal
• Basic 101 on numbing lubes and alternatives
• Where to buy lubes used for anal play
• Butt play cleaning resources
• First time anal tips

Before continuing, I’d like to share with you a little about me. After all, you have a right to know who is writing this review. I’m a 35-year old gay man who identifies as versatile. In my time, I’ve hooked up with just about every type of guy you can imagine. I’m talking about men who have small peens to guys that are ridiculously large.

Just thought I’d throw that info out there so that you know who wrote all of this up.
OK, back to the info on best anal lubes …

Many of the products I’ve reviewed aren’t carried by your local drug store. But you will find them in specialty shops and adult bookstores. The problem is that many of us don’t live near these types of establishments.

To remedy the situation, I’ve provided links to each lube so you can order online. This will allow you to buy the best anal lube for your personal needs, all from the privacy of your home.

Let’s jump right in!

ANAL LUBE: WHAT IS IT?

On the surface, anal lube seems pretty straight forward, right? After all, isn’t all the same. The answer is: no. That’s because many lubes are specifically designed for specific activities.

For our purposes, I’m going to define anal lube as the following:

Anal Lube: A lubricant designed for butt play, including anal penetration, insertion and stimulation.

ANAL LUBE TYPES

In the world of lubricants, there are three primary types that are used for stimulation and pleasure. These include:

• Silicone lubes
• Water based lubes
• Oil based lubes

Let’s walk through each of these to help enhance your understanding.

Silicone Lube

This type of lube is made from alternative chains of silicone, which happens to be a naturally occurring element. “Silicones” come in many different forms, including rubber, oil and resin. When reconstituted at high pressure, this element can be transformed into liquid form.

Water Based Lube

These types of lubes are made from mostly h20, as the name implies. To bind the water together into a slippery substance, glycerin is added.

Just to get channel your inner geek, glycerin is a polyol compound that is sweet to taste and non-toxic. Water based lubes are considered humectants; a 25-cent term used to describe topicals that keep skin moist.

You often see glycerins in male skin care products to prevent wrinkles.

Oil Based Lubes

When someone reaches for an oil based lubricant, they typically want something heavy duty. When you hear the term “oil lube, think of Vaseline, vegetable oils, Crisco and cold creams.

Most often, oil based lubes are used from larger than life activities that hands, fists and some activities connected to the world of BDSM play.

WHY IT’S IMPORTANT TO USE RIGHT LUBE

In simple terms, using the right lube for anal is key critical if you want to have a pleasurable experience. If your goal is insertion, the criterion should be as follows:

• Consistency
• Slipperiness
• Longevity

Under this point, I want to point out that when it comes to lube, never base your decision on which product is the cheapest.

We’ll get into this more as we continue along the way but for now, bear in mind there are a number of manufacturers out there who produce low quality crap, yet market under the label of “high quality.

BEST LUBE FOR ANAL: TOP PICK

Based on personal experience and extensive research, it is my strong belief that silicone based lubes are the absolute best for anal play.
Here is why:

• They generally last the longest
• They’re very condom safe
• Most allow for minimal friction and heat

As a bottom, I’ve tried a number of different lubes. Hands down, the most comfortable and enjoyable product that I’ve used is Pjur Analyze Me Silicone Lubricant.

Let me explain why.

The folks at Pjur (a German based company) have perfected the magical trio I mentioned earlier of consistency, slipperiness and longevity. See video below for more insight.

Because my play sessions tend to be longer in nature and with men that are extremely large, I need a lubricant that can go the distance. Pjur meets those needs big time.

The other reason I like Pjur product is because it contains an anal relaxer. No, it’s not a numbing agent. But the naturally occurring jojoba (made from a plant) helps to relax my outer sphincter so that I can ride like a pro!

If you are new to bottoming or are going to be hooking up with a top that is of beer can proportions, this is an excellent product to inject into a lube launcher and then right up your anus.

Unlike other silicone lubes that tend to clump up and not last very long, Pjur is the opposite. A small amount goes a long way. What’s more, this silicone lube can also be used with toys.

GOOD LUBE FOR ANAL CHOICE

Because I know people like variety, I’m listing another silicone based lubricant here for your consideration. This is my second favorite lube and one that also ranks high on a number of Internet reviews.

If you want a good lube for butt play that doesn’t contain a relaxing agent, the Gun Oil Silicone lubricant is a good choice. It has excellent consistency, is condom safe and doesn’t create uncomfortable friction.

You can often find this particular type of lube at large retailers. This brand comes in different sizes. You can also buy Gun Oil with a pump, which helps to avoid spillage.

WATER BASED LUBES AND ANAL

Many people ask which is better when it comes to anal play; water or silicone? Personally speaking, I have to say that silicone is way better. But still, there are some who like water.

The reasons vary from person to person. One of the main reasons relates to taste. Yep, that’s right. If you are engaging in both oral and anal play, a water based lube may be a good choice.

That’s because many of these come in a variety of flavors. For example, cherry flavored lube is popular among the lick and leave crowd.

But even if you aren’t looking for that, h20 type lubes are good for basic anal fun. If you want something that isn’t sticky and will last a good long time, Wet Original Formula is a great choice.

Unlike other water lubes that don’t last long, Wet’s product helps you to go the distance! I’m saying this because I’ve used a number of h20 type lubricants over the years and most all of them suck.

Plus. with “Wet”, you can use a little on your partner’s manhood to get things started and if there’s a little oral action, the taste of the product won’t get in the way of the fun.

Water based lubes are condom safe. They can also be used with toys.

You can buy Wet at almost all drug stores and even in some supermarkets. I’d recommend you stay away from Astroglide or any of the KY Products. They are sticky, clumpy and just aren’t conducive to enjoyable anal play.

Finally, you can use water based lubes like Wet for toys

BEST NUMBING LUBE FOR ANAL

For those who are sensitive to penetration and find difficulty with guy riding, you may want to reach for a numbing lube.
You may be wondering what a numbing lube is? Well, it’s about what you might think. The product itself contains a chemical numbing agent, like benzocaine.

Has your dentist ever used a Q-Tip coated with gel to numb your gums? If so, it probably contained benzocaine or lidocaine. Both are considered mild anesthetic agents.

Before I give you my recommendation, it’s important to state that numbing agents work both ways. In other words, not only do they reduce feeling for the bottom, they also can numb the top if he’s not wearing a condom.

That’s why the Pjur lube I mentioned earlier is a good alternative. While it doesn’t numb per se, it does relax your hole. Sorry if that sounds like word-smithing but it’s the only way I can explain it.

In any event, if you are want a good numbing agent for anal play, I encourage you to reach for Passion Lube Maximum Strength.

The reason I like this one is because it is water based. It also contains 5% lidocaine (similar to benzocaine). It has a very good consistency and helps to make insertion a bit easier.

OIL BASED ANAL LUBES

Last on my list of best lubes for anal are oil types. It’s important to state flat out that from all of the different kinds of lubricants, oil is my least favorite.

There are a number of reasons for this, including the fact that oil types are not water soluble and therefore problematic when cleaning up.

A second issue with the “oil” types is that they are known to break down latex. This means that condoms and certain types of toys may be vulnerable to erosion.

Third, most oil based lubes have an unpleasant odor. There are a few on the market who have figured out a way getting rid of the smell but generally speaking, most of them stink.

Now some will tell you that an oil lubricant offers a longer ride and better sensation. I’ve only used them a handful of times and honestly, I don’t agree.

If you really are feeling adventurous and want to use this kind of lube for anal play, the folks at Boy Butter make highly rated product.

ANAL LUBE MYTHS

Over the years, I’ve heard a number of myths linked to anal lube and butt play. Below are some of the biggies. Do any of these sound familiar? FYI: All of these are false.

• Silicone lubes dry up in your butt
• Crisco isn’t considered an oil based lube
• You shouldn’t use water based lubes with rubbers
• The anus creates its own lube
• Vegetable oil has silicone in it

WHERE CAN I BUY ANAL LUBE?

You can buy general lubricants almost anywhere. But high quality silicone lubes aren’t always carried in stores. It doesn’t hurt to check the “personal needs” area of your local Walgreens or CVS to see what they’ve got.

From my experience, I can tell you that most chain retailers carry pure crap that I would never use for anal. What am I talking about?
Well, low quality junk like KY Jelly and ID Brand. Man I hate those!

ANY ADVICE ON DOUCHING FOR MEN?

It makes sense that if you are looking around for information on the best anal lubes for men, you might be curious about how to properly douche and clean yourself out.

According to our own research, tops are very picky about this topic.

If you are interested in learning more about the right way to clean yourself out and avoid pains and stains, click on the graphic below to read our ultimate guide.

ANY FIRST TIME ANAL TIPS?

Many guys who search for the best anal lube also happen to be first timers. If that rings true for you.

BEST LUBE FOR ANAL FINAL THOUGHTS

Selecting the right type of lubricant for your butt playing needs is a critical if you want to minimize discomfort and maximize the fun.
I encourage you to always play safe. This means considering PREP if you are sexually active. It also means using a high quality condom to prevent potential STI’s.

Thanks for stopping by my guide to best lubes for anal. Have fun and enjoy!

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Anal Sex and Lubrication

Q. “I’ve always been all about preaching the joys of lubricant in anal sex. However… I have a partner I see maybe once a month, depending on if my work schedule takes me to his area. He’s fabulous. We aren’t romantic – I think we have different ideas about how to raise families or I’d venture giving that a try based on how easy our friendship and sexual connections are. But yes, it’s very good.



Lately, we’ve been really big on the anal sex. But it’s been a lot different than it has been with other partners. For one thing, it’s been amazing. For another, I seem to be naturally moist enough that it’s not painful? We do a lot of foreplay, and I’m generally on top receiving. I’m Just not sure what to think about not really having a need for lube. This all seems quite, IDK, odd to me to not need it. What is going on with my body???”

A.  Sweetness, first, may I personally say congratulations on finding this set up! It seems to bring a whole lotta sexual pleasure and confidence to you, and I will also assume for your partner. It’s those types of sexual relationships where we can really bring in all the things we have learned (mostly from not-so-great experiences) and create a give and take that works for both partners. Kudos, love.
Now, what’s going on with that booty of yours? Well, I blame the amazing relationship. If you are relishing in the moment – relaxing, enjoying, not having to worry about getting pregnant or if you “look good” in a certain position or one of the hundred other thoughts our minds can go during sex, your body is going to follow suit, and be equally relaxed, in this case, relaxed enough to be having anal sex. This is a resume worthy skill. Anal sex is one of those tough spots where even when we are gung ho about having it, the idea of the discomfort or pain, or even the multiple anxieties around the thought of the experience can create, oh, how shall we put this delicately? A clench so tight, one could turn a piece of coal into a diamond. Yes, the sphincter muscles are something fierce and are not to be trifled with lightly.  And you, my love? Girl, your butt just seems to be enjoying this ride, whether through relaxation and pleasure, or through the possibility that your vaginal “wetness” from being turned on, is riding down to your butt area, pooling, and making a semi-lube for when your partner enters. Sounds delightful.

Now, let’s talk about lubes.

Oh you thought you were gonna get away with that, huh? Not in my house, bb. Look, I’m not trying to knock a good thing going on, but I am going to expound on the benefits of lube, only because: first, this specific situation of easy anal probably won’t last. Yes, I hate to crash the party, but while it works now, once there is a bit more sexual regularity in your lives, the anal might not be as easy for whatever reason, be it familiarity, habit. or how your sexual response is at that moment. Second: when you have anal sex, sans lube, you run the very real risk of tearing either your anal cavity or your rectum, or both. This is a doozy, because not only will it keep you from having anal sex till the boo boo heals, you run the risk of anal fissures, which will definitely keep you from having anal for a while. Plus, all anal injuries aside, anal sex is one of the most vulnerable sex positions because there are no direct barriers to the inside of you (much like your cervix is sort of the door to Narnia in your vagina), but also unlike the vagina, it is not technically self-cleaning, even though it is where waste goes out. Furthermore, because it is such delicate tissue, if your partner and you aren’t wearing condoms (which you should be), a very likely small tear in your anal cavity, even on the best of days, holds the potential to transmit STIs, bacterial infection, and HIV. As one of my favorite sexual column-in-laws, Go Ask Alice, likes to say:

Friction, the enemy of pleasure and safety during sex, is produced during anal sex, much as it is during vaginal sex. However, friction may be more of an issue during anal sex because the lining of the anus is more delicate and produces less natural lubricant than the vagina… Anal sex may make a person more susceptible to bacterial infection around the anus and rectum. This is because the lining of the rectum is not as heavy as the lining of the vagina, so it is more susceptible to tears. If the anus or rectum does get torn, it does not heal as quickly. Because feces that pass through the rectum contain bacteria, any tear in the lining is at risk of getting infected. Lining tears may lead to other problems such as an anal abscess, which can make transmission of STIs and HIV more likely. This is why unprotected anal sex is often considered riskier than unprotected oral or vaginal sex.

So the third and final point? Number 3, lube just makes things more fun. Seriously. Have you ever been on a water slide? It’s like that. Especially if you are going from one of those dinky playground slides that are hot from being in the sun and you have to scooch your butt down. Not fun, huh?

Which reminds me of this conversation with a friend very recently, and she was telling me the sad story of her pretty silicone vibe that had basically, well, melted. We will call my friend Pickles, to protect the innocent. Or Cheesecake. She is definitely more of a Cheesecake, but Pickles just seems to flow more in this sentence structure, so pick your own damn name. Anyway, my lovely friend  was mourning the loss of this particular vibe, which had turned into the texture of a melted Twizzlers in July. After we had mourned the piece, I asked, “What lube were you using,” to which she replied, “silicone”. Oy vey.

I’m all about the lube, but you have to make sure you are using the right one for your circumstance, especially if you are using toys, especially if it is going inside you, especially for all the reasons you can come up with. Think of it like baking a cake with salt, instead of sugar. Sure, they look the same, but the future of the situation will turn out to be less than desired. I’ll paraphrase the  major list I wrote back a few months ago, which you can find here, that explains not only what lubes are good for the front and back, but also what you can use with a certain type of lube, and vice versa, what type of sex toy goes with a certain lube. I won’t go off on a whole spiel on lubes and bore everyone here, but what happened to Pickles is a long, sad story that is more common than first thought. See, silicone is all made of tiny, tiny, tiny, glass balls, which is great for slippage, except that silicone’s nature is to bond to silicone. This is what makes it expand and turn gummy, which is what happened to Pickles’ toy. As for other lubes, 0il-based lube is tricky because it should really only be used for external masturbation or strictly anal play only and with non-jelly, non-plastic, non-silicone toys (so basically stainless steel). Oil-based lubes can also eat through latex. Water-based is like, awesome sauce, but can suck for butt toys, because your butt absorbs it quicker since it isn’t self-lubricating in general. It also works with condoms and doesn’t eat through them, which makes it ideal for penis in rectum activities. Water-based also offers more “organic,” “vegan,” or “natural” options if, say, you have a glycerin allergy or if you want your lube animal product-free. Personally speaking, if you are going down anal sex lane, I like recommendingBoy Butter, because that is exactly what it is intended for, plus I mean, it’s called Boy Butter. The options range from all the aforementioned lubes, which is great, depending on how your relationship goes and what you decide to experiment with in the future as far as toys or condom-less anal. Also, have you seen their ad photos?

Last but not least, a fact you may already know very well, never take anything that has been in the butt and put it in the vagina. You are asking for a world of pain and no one wants a world of pain. If you do want to switch from anal to vaginal, wash, wash, wash. Wash yourself like it is going out of style. E. coli is not to be messed with. While it may require a touch more cleanup, it will save you, and your urethra a whole lotta trouble. Trust me, sweet pea.

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