Is it true that excessive masturbation can cause you to have less pleasure from sex?

Finding it hard to cum from penetrative sex and E.D. problems etc ?

No, it isn’t.

What is true is that certain masturbation techniques can numb the penis to a point that the stimulation provided by penetrative sex will appear insufficient. This is particularly true for circumcised men used to masturbate using an aggressive choke the chicken grip (a tight grip around the cock head) to compensate for their penis relative insensitivity. While this is the most common cause, other unusual masturbation habits such as hitting or squeezing hard to obtain an ejaculation do change the brain’s expectations as to what is needed to achieve orgasm. To a point where the brain eventually asks for this kind of treatment to trigger the orgasmic response.

The good news is that this learned response can be reversed. First, of course, by avoiding from then on the problematic mannerism. Then by adopting new masturbation methods that will allow penetrative sex to be enjoyable again. Masturbation sleeves are particularly good for this reeducation, since they offer strong penile stimulation all the while requiring the penetrative back and forth move to work their magic. Hence, the distressed man can relearn the typical stimulation pattern of penetrative sex while still achieving orgasm. After a few weeks or months (depending on the seriousness of the problem), a high percentage will report a much more enjoyable sexual experience if not complete recovery.

You will notice that the treatment involves masturbation… a further proof that masturbation — as a habit in itself — is not problematic at all.

As for erectile dysfunction… Of course, we only consider psychogenic erectile dysfunction in this case. And here too, masturbation in itself is not the cause. If a man has a hard time having an erection with someone but not when masturbating, this man definitely needs some psychological consultation (psychologist, sexologist) to explore why he is experiencing this mental block in intimate situations. There is either a fear or a painful memory at play. His ability to masturbate only serves as a proof that his problem is not physical but psychological.

Masturbation in and by itself cannot cause someone to have less pleasure from sex. All the contrary : by allowing an individual to explore his sensuality and discover his sensitivities, masturbation actually enhances the quality of future sexual encounters. However, some bad masturbation habits can be detrimental, and these bad habits should of course be avoided.

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Upward Squeeze Masturbation Method

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Boxer Shorts Rub Masturbation

DIFFICULTY = Easy
LUBRICATION = No

In this technique, rub the penis with your knuckle through the fabric of a comfortable pair of boxer shorts or other underwear.

You can also get a better grip on the testicles with the other hand by using this method. As a variation, try

it with a thicker fabric such as denim or jeans. This can prolong the intensity before orgasm.
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Briefs Rubbing

Put your penis through one leg opening of a pair of unworn jockey shorts. Grasp your penis masturbate. The feel of the shorts brushing against your balls as you stroke will enhance your session. I like to kneel when I do this because you get better contact with the material.

Tight Swimming Trunks

When clearing out a cuboard the other day, I came across a pair of old my old swimming trunks. Having done it in briefs and with a penis ring (both of which felt really good) I decided to do the two techniques together. I cut a slit in the front of the trunks and put them on. It was amazing! The tightness of the trunks on my balls gave an excellent sensation when I orgasmed.

I regularly use a variation of the boxer shorts technique [pictured above]. I adore wearing silk directoire knickers and the feel of this wonderfully soft material alone stimulates an erection. I can wear just a shirt and my knickers whilst alone at home and am able to maintain an erection lying down, sitting in a chair or standing up. I try to delay ejaculating for as long as I can but nature eventually takes over and I savour the sheer ecstacy of an orgasm. I keep my knickers on and enjoy the wet feeling on my tummy.

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Interlocking Grip Masturbation Method

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What happends if Im masturbaring but I don't shoot my load?

The posterior urethra is the assembly room where the various glands contributing to the semen’s content empty themselves and get mixed together as arousal increases, thereby creating the whitish semi-gelatinous liquid known as semen. When the body readies itself for ejaculation, the bulbocavernosus muscles contract, increasing the pressure in this chamber (you can feel this if you keep your fingers on the perineum as you masturbate). When the chamber is sufficiently pressurized, the sphincter between this posterior urethra and the penile urethra opens, while the bulbocavernosus muscles contract rhythmically : you are ejaculating !



As you noticed, as the point of no-return is reached but before the ejaculation itself begins, pressing firmly on the perineum immediately behind the scrotal sac will pinch the base of the penile urethra, manually squeezing the sphincter and preventing its opening. This, in turns blocks the expulsion of semen. Pressure should be maintained for as long as you experience orgasmic contractions, at least, if not a little longer to allow the pressure inside the posterior urethra to subside.

I understand you know all this since this is what you are doing already, but this intro was to put others to speed if they needed to be. So, now on to your questions :

a) Is there any damage to my cock or health problem doing this ?

Semen in itself is non toxic : what hasn’t been expelled during ejaculation will be recycled and reused or washed out with urine. Metabolically, there are no health problem to be developed from not ejaculating. In other words, you won’t get diabetes, hypertension, cholesterol or liver problems because of this.

This perineal push technique is not anatomically healthy however : it should be considered as a last resort method when you feel you’ve lost control while edging. It should not be your main method to prevent ejaculation : instead, you should learn to better identify your point of no-return and stop masturbating (or at least slow down) to allow your arousal to wane a little.

Aside from the fact that you may experience some pain in the testicles and around the anus, damage may be caused with frequent use of this technique over time to the ejaculation-related parts of body including the ejaculatory ducts and vas deferens as a result of over pressurization. Using this method repeatedly will also lead to retrograde ejaculations as the urethral sphincter muscle will weaken over time as a result of being exposed to higher pressure than what it was designed for. As for your penis, since it is after the sphincter, it cannot be affected by this. Let me insist on the fact that using this method once in a while will never be a problem. The problem is using it too often.

Retrograde ejaculation may not appear to be a huge problem initially : why should you bother if your semen goes into your bladder ? As I said earlier, semen is non toxic, so your bladder won’t suffer from this. What’s annoying with retrograde ejaculation is that when time comes for you to ejaculate for real, your cumshot will be much smaller as a proportion of your payload will be simultaneously ejaculated into your bladder. This may lead to fertility problem… as well as impact on the quality of the show !

Note however, that all this is true only when you press the base of your penis behind your balls to stop the shooting. I you instead choose to simply stop to masturbate altogether and not ejaculate at all, then there will be no over pressurization (as this happens because you willfully prevent the opening of the sphincter). If you simply stop masturbating, then whatever semen was prepared will simply sit there, in the posterior urethra. And as I said earlier, semen is non toxic and non dangerous in itself, so nothing bad is to be expected… except maybe that you may feel cranky and frustrated !

b) Where does the cum go if I don’t shoot ?

You probably got it by now : semen is non toxic ! What hasn’t been expelled by ejaculation will be recycled and reused or washed out with urine.

You will notice, the first time you pee after you’ve ejaculated (or not), that your urine is foamier. If you haven’t ejaculated at all, it may also be a bit cloudy also : that’s the unused semen being washed out. The foaminess of urine is caused by the high protein content… in this case from the semen.

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The Lingam Massage

BACKGROUND INFO:

The Sanskrit word for the male sexual organ is Lingam (pronounced LING-AHM, [LING rhymes with sing]) and is loosely translated as “Wand of Light.” It’s meaning is different in intention from the typical Western view of the penis (i.e., Cock, Prick, Dong, Dick, etc., words that may come from a limited perspective, depending on the intent of their usage). In Tantra/Sacred Sexuality, the Lingam is respectfully viewed and honored, a “Wand of Light” that channels creative energy and pleasure.



The purpose of the Lingam Massage is to create a space the receiver to relax, and receive expanded pleasure from his Lingam. His partner (the giver) experiences the joy of facilitating and witnessing the man surrendering to his softer, gentler side. The Lingam Massage can be used as a form of safer sex (when latex gloves are used) and is an excellent process to build trust and intimacy. It is often used to help men heal from negative sexual conditioning and trauma.

Orgasm is not the goal of the Lingam massage although it is often a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal is to massage the Lingam, also including testicles, perineum and Sacred Spot (the equivalent to the female G-spot), and allow the man to surrender to a form of pleasure he may not be used to. From this perspective both receiver and giver relax into the massage.

Men need to learn to RELAX and RECEIVE. Traditional sexual conditioning has the man in a doing and goal oriented mode. The Lingam Massage allows the man to experience his softer, more receptive side and experience pleasure from a non-traditional perspective.

PREPARATION:

Take a relaxing bath or shower. Take your time and breathe deeply. Conscious, relaxed breathing will take you out of your mental process and will get you more into your feelings. Relax your belly and let go of the tension that most of us hold there.

Go to the bathroom before beginning the massage. The best results occur when the bowels and bladder are empty.

Let go of your thoughts and connect with your partner through hugging, holding, eye gazing (looking into each other’s eyes for an extended time), bringing both of you to a place of relaxation and trust.

PROCEDURE:

Have the receiver lie on his back with pillows under his head so he can look up at his partner (giver). Place a pillow, covered with a towel, under his hips. His legs are to be spread apart with the knees slightly bent (pillows or cushions under the knees will also help) and his genitals clearly exposed for the massage.

The giver sits cross-legged between the receivers’ legs.

Before contacting the body, begin with deep, relaxed breathing. Gently massage the legs, abdomen, thighs, chest, nipples, etc., to get the receiver to relax. Remind the receiver to breathe deeply and to sink deeper into relaxation.

Pour a small quantity of a high-quality oil (or water-based lubricant when using latex gloves) on the shaft of the Lingam and testicles. Begin gently massaging the testicles, taking care to not cause pain in this sensitive area. Massage the scrotum gently, causing it to relax. Massage the area above the Lingam, on the pubic bone. Massage the Perineum, the area between the testicles and anus. Take your time. You are giving a massage to an often neglected area of the body.

Massage the shaft of the Lingam. Vary the speed and pressure. Gently squeeze the Lingam at the base with your right hand, pull UP and slide off and then alternate with your left hand. Take your time doing this, right, left, right, left, etc. Then, change the direction by starting the squeeze at the head of the Lingam/penis and then sliding DOWN and off. Again, alternate with right and left hands.

Massage the head of the Lingam as if you are using an orange juicer. Massage all around the head and shaft. In Tantra there are many nerve endings on the Lingam that correspond to other parts of the body. It is said many ailments can be cured by receiving a good Lingam Massage.

NOTE: The Lingam may or may not go soft as you perform this technique. Do not worry if it doesn’t get hard again. You will probably find that it will get hard, then go soft, get hard again, etc., which is a highly desirable Tantric experience, like riding a wave, bobbing up and down. Hardness and Softness are two ends of the pleasure spectrum.

If it appears that the receiver is going to ejaculate, back off, allowing the Lingam to soften a little before resuming the massage. Do this several times, coming close to ejaculation, and then backing off. Remember, the goal is not orgasm in and of itself. Men can learn the art of ejaculatory mastery and control by coming close to ejaculation and then backing off on the stimulation. Deep breathing is key here and will soften the urge to ejaculate. Eventually ejaculatory mastery will allow you to make love as long as you want and you can become multi-orgasmic without losing a drop of semen.
Orgasm and ejaculation are two different responses that you can learn to separate. The result is a very expanded sex life.

Find and massage the male Sacred Spot. There are two ways to do this.

One is by finding the spot midway between the testicles and anus. There is a small indentation about the size of a pea or maybe larger. Be gentle and push inward. He will feel the pressure deep inside and it may be intensely painful at first. Eventually, as this area is worked on and softened, he will be able to expand his orgasms and master ejaculatory control. You can massage his Lingam with your right hand and massage his Sacred Spot with your left hand. Try pushing in on this spot when he nears ejaculation. It is aptly named the Million Dollar Point in Taoism.

The other way to access the Sacred Spot is through the anus. Many men, especially heterosexual men, are uncomfortable at first as a result of negative sexual conditioning. Be careful here and use lubrication. The key is to go slow and be very gentle. Make sure he is breathing as you slip a finger from your left hand into the anus about an inch or so. Then crook the finger back in a “come here” gesture. You will feel the prostate gland. Vary the pressure and speed of massage. He may want stimulation of the Lingam as you massage the Sacred Spot. Back off on the Lingam as he approaches orgasm and increase the pressure on the Sacred Spot.

Sometimes the man may have strong emotions come up during access to the Sacred Spot. He may cry and remember a traumatic event from his past. You, the giver, are in a place of trust and intimacy. Allow him to feel his emotions and be very loving, not trying to console or fix him, just let him feel whatever he needs to. Encourage him to scream, cry, moan, sob, if it feels appropriate. Be the best friend and healer he could have in that moment.

ENDING THE MASSAGE

If he chooses to let go and ejaculate, encourage him to breathe deeply during the orgasm. It will blow his mind, especially if he has come close and held back at least SIX times before ejaculating. Holding back six times charges up the sexual battery with tremendous energy. It is then his choice as to where he wants to send this energy – out with their ejaculate (the prevailing paradigm) or inward for other uses (men who master ejaculation are able to channel this energy into other areas of their being).

When he feels complete with the massage gently remove your hands and allow him to lie there quietly. You may want to snuggle up together or you can leave the room and let him drift off into a meditative state. Allow him to fully experience his childlike innocence and magnificent male beauty.

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Masturbation Techniques

Since long times, masturbation has been considered something shameful and derogatory to human culture. Though men and women have been masturbating through all ages – the cave painting of Khajuraho in India and ancient artworks of Japan are prime examples – the issue has never been discussed in the open. This has led to a kind of taboo building around the subject of masturbation. But, let us face the fact. Almost all the men of the world masturbate. Since they cannot do that in the open, they do so in the privacy of their own bedrooms and bathrooms. As masturbation was a very individual act until lately, almost each man has developed his own techniques in order to masturbate and achieve pleasure.



A boy begins masturbating almost as soon as he steps into his puberty. This is the time when the development of his penis and his testicles intrigues him, and he discovers the never-before kind of pleasure he receives by touching his genitals. Soon begins a voyage of discovery, when the boy starts to touch his penis in different ways and compare the feelings produced by each touch. At this age the revelation of ‘the other sex’ also dawns on him through peers or porn. He comes to realize what can arouse him and what he can do to satiate that arousal. This is where masturbation begins.

The first masturbation may take place in the bathroom where the boy has learnt to fondle and receive pleasure from his organs. When the seminal discharge takes place, initially it may be a cause of fear, but later on it becomes the greatest pleasure he might have discovered. Accept it or not, masturbation helps the boy to build a very constructive and important relationship with his penis. Thus begin the early masturbatory techniques.

As the age advances, boys learn more and more techniques of masturbation, but basically stick to just onekind of technique. However different men can use different techniques. Some of the very popular masturbation techniques that men use for masturbating their genitals are described below.

Fisting is one of the most popular ways. In this the male holds the erect penis within a single fist and rocks the fist back and forth. The extent to which pressure is applied depends from person to person, and so also does the kind of fist-hold that is used. Some men prefer to keep the palm up, but the common position is to keep the palm down and the fingers facing the sky. This is the technique that is referred in slang as jerking, jacking off or playing with five fingered Rosie.

Thumbing is a popular way of holding the penis during masturbation. In this the penis is held in the fist just as mentioned above, but the thumb is used to apply extra pressure on the very-sensitive head of the penis known as the glans. With the fisting, thumb pressure is applied on the glans, whose hardness is felt. Though this masturbation technique is more pleasurable, it does not find more favor with men as it requires more exertion of the hand.

Some people perform some preliminary movements on the penis before getting into the actual masturbatory act. One of the ways is fluting the penis. This is done by holding the penis with both hands and then tapping it alternately with the fingers as if one is playing the flute. This is an effective method to arouse all the sensitive points on the penis, thus allowing it to become erect to its maximum limit. When this erection is achieved, further masturbation is done by either fisting or thumbing. 

Alternatively, the penis can be chortled. This is holding the penis with two fingers, forming a ring, and then applying pressure on different regions of the penis. In addition, there are several different holds that each man can devise for himself.

There is also a bit of an argument on whether circumcision benefits masturbation in any way. Both circumcised and uncircumcised penises have their relative advantages and disadvantages in masturbation. If the penis is circumcised, then the pressure is felt directly on the organ; while if the penis is uncircumcised, the pressure is felt due to the rocking of the foreskin. Depending on this, it can be said that fluting methods will be more effective in masturbation of circumcised men and jerking methods will be more effective in masturbation of uncircumcised men.

Even the way the person poses himself during masturbation has differences. Several men prefer masturbation while lying on a bed on the back and fisting the penis skywards. This posture has found great favor because of the comfort factor attached to it. Men who masturbate while watching porn are more prone to masturbate while sitting on a chair in front of the screen. Men masturbating in the bathroom would most probably do it standing. It is interesting to note that people who are habituated to masturbate while standing may not enjoy the same act in a sitting position.

Lastly, there are also unusual masturbating techniques found in some men. Some men like to arouse other parts of their bodies like nipples, anus, etc. while masturbating. They may alternate the hold on the penis with fondling these regions. One method is the squat technique where the person masturbates in a squatting position with fondling other regions of his body.

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Male Masturbation - How Do Men Masturbate

Any male reading the above title would initially think, “what a stupid subject, it doesn’t take a manual to know how to masturbate.” They would be correct in that assumption of course. But it takes time and experience to receive the full joys of self manipulation.



As an example, The average boy when first discovering this new-found past time, will jerk-off many times each day. Just the feeling of release is enough to satisfy his needs. This state goes on for many years. But as the boy grows into a man and begins to have sexual relations with other human beings, the tendency is to search for technique and quality of experience rather than just ‘getting off’.
The following are three of the most popular ways that men masturbate. Read these techniques carefully, they can be used in combinations that will give much pleasure for years to come.

It is suggested as a preparation for male masturbation, that the participant obtain external stimuli (ES). The most popular form of (ES) is written pornography. The advantage to material is that when reading about sexual situations your masturbitory experience is heightened ten-fold. They can be readily obtained on the internet, or at any adult orientated store. (you must be at least 18 years old to legally obtain these materials)

Before going into manual techniques, let me say a couple of things about preparation. Take your time. To receive full enjoyment from your experience find a time and place where you can masturbate without fear of interruption. Also have the materials easily at hand for clean-up afterwards. This may sound obvious to everyone, but I mention it, only because you need to remove any outside worry’s. To fully enjoy your coming orgasm, it is best to turn your thoughts inward, with as little external stimuli as possible.

Lay completely unclothed on your bed. Begin to read an erotic story involving sex. Do not touch yourself until you feel the first drop of pre-cum drip onto your skin. (This is important as preparation to technique One especially) At that time you are full prepared to begin your manual manipulation.

ONE: (Slip N’ Slide) (SNS)

Once your pre-cum has begun to flow, (Without manual manipulation) The male should begin to slowly spread his semen over his erect penis with thumb and fingers. Taking the penis loosely between his fingers and thumb as if writing a letter. Let the head of the penis gently rub against your the valley between thumb and fore-finger. The combination between the slickness of the distributed pre-come, and the erotic story you are reading will give the closest experience to sex as possible.
Again, in this technique it is important not to hurry. If the male performs the technique correctly, the orgasm should 'sneak’ up on him. There should be the thought in the back of the man’s mind that is something like, “Wow, I’m going to come any second, and I couldn’ t stop from doing so, no matter how hard I tried.” The male should slow his manipulation down at this time, and let the sensation build slowly. He should have a very slick erection fingers rubbing his shaft effortlessly.
NOTE: To increase the intensity of a orgasm, just when the male begins to ejaculate, he should raise his legs from the waist, while continuing to lay flat on his back. Legs should be either just a few inches off the bed, or pointing toward the ceiling. (Each male will find his preferred position) The added strain of the stomach muscles will greatly intensify the orgasmic spasms.

TWO: (Stand N’ JerK)

When a man stands while masturbating his cardiovascular system is at a heightened level. This will change the overall intense feeling of his experience. Reading erotica or visual stimuli is still recommended for this style. The best place to perform Stand N’ Jerk (SNJ) is in the participants bathroom. The advantages are obvious, privacy, mirrors, and easy clean up.

The average male should begin the technique by viewing naked pictures or reading erotic stories (Of course it’s not necessary, but it will heighten the orgasm) The same suggestions apply as to position and style of 'hand manipulation’ as described in technique ONE. As the male reaches his orgasmic state, (if he performed his masturbation as out lined) will feel a tightness in his legs, most markedly in the thighs. Just as the participant’s orgasm is almost upon him, he should stop manual manipulation, but continue to hold his erect penis. (The right moment for this is just as he feels the spasms being forced from the prostate gland.)

If the participant did every step correctly, he should, at the final moment before ejaculation, see clear seaman spurt out. The feeling at this moment should be extremely pleasurable. This is called 'Pre-Orgasm’. After several spurts of clear semen, the full orgasm should begin. At this point the 'milky’ semen will begin to spurt, bringing on another even more powerful set of orgasmic spasms. The (SNJ) technique, if performed correctly, will give the participant a 'double’ orgasm, lasting twice as long as normal manipulation would allow.

THREE: (Chinese Position)

Called “Chinese” only because in the 19th century when this position first became popular in opium dens in England, the participant’s would say, “Giving a little life to China.” This may sound rather obscure, but let me explain. The Chinese Position is basically where the man lays on his stomach while masturbating. This position takes a little imagination on the man’s part, because he must find the props to allow him to lay face down and still be able to 'jerk-off’. In the nineteenth century men who visited the opium dens had a choice, they could have a privet pallet to enjoy a little solo action, and when they came their sperm would shoot toward 'China - the other side of the world’ hence the name 'Chinese Position". They also had the option of having a Chinese woman under their specially constructed pallet, who would give them oral stimulation. (Another and more meaningful reason to call it the “Chinese Position”)

The best way to situate ones self in this position has been to use a couple of chairs, or if twin beds are available (such as in a motel room) to move them close enough together to allow the man to lay over the 'crack’. The hand should act as a vagina (held steady while the male performs humping motions)
The advantage to this position is that the male can 'hump’ and more closely imitate actual sex with a woman. Also, (after placing a towel on the floor) he can reach orgasm and release without having to worry about aim or clean up. This position gives the male a since of freedom of release

There are another 234 known techniques and positions for male masturbation

The ones outlined here are by far the most popular among men worldwide. It is a normal progression for men as they grow older to take longer to reach orgasm. The reason for this is both physiological and psychological. On the one hand as the body matures semen production slackens, also the male organ, although just as sensitive at in the teenage years, responds differently to external stimuli. And psychologically, a desensitizing effect takes place with experience. Anything, even sex can become routine.

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Masturbation for Gay Men

A Too Vigorous Masturbation Technique Can Inhibit The Pleasure You May Experience With Your Male Partner(s)

Though there is nothing wrong with any technique that brings you to orgasm, the manner of how you masturbate can sometimes inhibit or limit the pleasure that you experience with your male partner.

For many men, masturbation is a form of rapid sexual relief, and some gays use very rough techniques to make themselves orgasm. Sex with a male partner fails to provide such vigorous stimulation, either through masturbation, sucking or penetration. This can make it harder for a man to maintain his and his partners? erection to achieve fun-filled orgasms.

Masturbation offers a way of learning about different types and paces of stimulation. Taking the time to experiment with new techniques will help you discover new ways to enjoy yourself and ultimately help you to sustain your erection, delay your ejaculation and to enjoy a more intense orgasm whether you go solo, partake in group sex or intimate m2m cock fun.



TECHNIQUES: 

Exploration and variation:
When you feel aroused and are reaching for your erection, you can choose to either come quickly or take time out and pay some attention to the rest of your body. (Sometimes a quickie is all that is required.)

Try stroking your inner and upper arms, your armpits, the back of your neck and your nipples. Use the back and front of your fingers, stroke your inner thighs, starting just above your knees and moving up your scrotum, perineum and anus (male love-hole). Then finally, when you can?t stand it anymore, move to your throbbing hard cock. Experiment with your grip, making it tight or relaxed; use alternate hands or both hands together (if both hands can fit on the size of your erect cock) or reverse your grip. Vary the tempo of your stroke: speed it up or slow it down.

Forehand grip:
Wrap your fingers around the shaft of your throbbing hard cock with your thumb at the head. As your fist strokes your throbbing hard cock up and down, your thumb will stimulate its coronal ridge. Use some lubrication to avoid trauma to this sensitive area.

Alternatively try holding your throbbing hard cock as if you are holding a pen with your fingers stroking up and down the fraenulum.

Backhand grip:
This is the reverse of the forehand grip. Your thumb will now be underneath your throbbing hard cock and your fingers will be on its head. If you always masturbate with your right hand, try using a backhand grip with your left hand for a change to experience a different sensation.

Dummy hand:
Sit on your hand until it feels completely numb or chill in cold water. When you masturbate it will feel as if someone else (in your fantasy world) is doing you. A sniff of poppers also heighten the sensations during orgasm.

Twist:
Lubricate your hand well and make a fist around your rigid hard cock. Move slowly up the shaft until you reach its head. Now turn your hand over to form a backhand grip, keeping in contact with the head the whole time, and begin back down the shaft, using varying speeds for the best results.

Alternatively hold the head of your throbbing hard cock with your fingers and twist it gently, first to the left and then to the right ? as if you are opening and closing the lid of a jar.

Fist:
Anchor your throbbing hard cock with one hand and form a fist above it with the other. Push your throbbing hard cock into your static fist by using pelvic thrusts, penetrating it as far as you can to simulate the experience of [Pfffftttt] a nice willing male-[Pfffftttt]-hole. Use plenty of lubrication to avoid trauma to your hard throbbing wet cock.

Leg thrust:
Lie on your side, spread your legs and push your knees up close top your body. Leave one knee down and raise your other knee up, keeping your foot flat on the ground. Grip the head of your throbbing hard cock and hold it against your leg that is on the ground.

Now move your upright leg down towards your stationary leg and back up again. Your throbbing hard cock should slide slowly and gently in and out of your hand. The faster you move your leg the more quickly you will come to orgasm.

Rubbing:
Lie on your stomach in bed and rub your throbbing hard cock against the mattress. Place your throbbing hard cock in a fur lined glove or even a soft woollen sock. Alternatively put silk, cotton, satin or leather over the tip of your cock.

Hold your throbbing hard cock with one hand and put your other hand on top of the material. Rub the tip of your throbbing hard cock through the fabric against the palm of your hand. But take care not to cause abrasions!!!

Water:
Slowly trickle warm ? not hot ? water onto your throbbing hard cock while masturbating using the fist method. The contrast in temperature between the water and your throbbing hard cock can be very stimulating! Especially nice when performed early mornings under the shower and allow your morning piss to shoot out while wanking your throbbing hard cock.

Simultaneous stimulation of the balls, perineum and anus:
The scrotum and perineum can be massaged, rubbed and fondled while you masturbate at the same time.

Cup your balls gently in your hand and tug them. Try stroking and rubbing the area between your scrotum and your anus while you masturbate.

Lie on your side for comfortable access, lubricate your finger well and massage the area gently. If you want to stimulate your prostate gland as well, try using your thumb instead or even better ?
invest in a couple of butt plugs of varying sizes and colours!

Enjoy !!!!

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Why your man should do kegels!

Most men know about the Kegel. The exercise isn’t new. The Kegel was discovered by Dr. Arnold Kegel in the 1940s to help women tighten their vaginas after giving birth.

The Kegel was later found to be just as beneficial for men wanting to improve their sex lives. Yet, for one reason or another, most men skip out on the Kegel because it’s the only penile exercise that doesn’t directly enlarge the penis. However, they have a wide range of other benefits, some of which can cure problems or indirectlyenlarge the penis.

KEGEL EXERCISES FOR MEN — WHAT THEY CAN DO

DO YOU WANT TO FIX PREMATURE EJACULATION?

DO YOU WANT TO STOP ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION?

DO YOU WANT TO HAVE A HARD AND HEALTHY PENIS?

THEN KEGEL.

If you’re exercising your penis to improve your sex life, you’ll want to Kegel. Along with providing harder, longer-lasting erections, the Kegel has provided men with a long array of other sexual benefits.
Here’s a quick list of what Kegel exercises have done for some men:

• The Kegel builds a harder penis and longer-lasting erections
• The Kegel improves penile blood flow
• The Kegel builds a healthier prostate
• The Kegel increases the angle of erection (For example, one man declared that his penis use to point towards the floor when erect, but practicing Kegels has helped his penis point straight out.)
• The Kegel indirectly enlarges the penis (The Kegel does this by increasing the blood flow to the penis, and making it as hard – and thus as big – as possible.)
• The Kegle increases ejaculation volume
• The Kegel produces stronger orgasms and more intense ejaculations
• The Kegel increases shooting distance of ejaculation (As rumor has it, Peter North — the furthest long-distance shooter in the porn business — kegeled religiously.)
• The Kegel cures post-nucturition dribble (in which urine consistently dribbles from the penis after you go pee)
• The Kegel builds your staying-power — of urine, that is (Several men report that after they started kegeling, they no longer had to get up in the middle of the night to use the restroom as they did before.)
• The Kegel increases control of ejaculation, which leads to greater sexual stamina and even male multiple orgasms

Many doctors, sexual experts, and websites refer to the the Kegel as the “Sexercise”for all the benefits it provides. And it’s true — with all of these benefits, it’s a wonder every man isn’t waiting in line to do his daily Kegels.
So what’s the take-home message? Ditch the bottle of Viagra and start kegeling. Here are two studies that show Kegels work just as well for erectile dysfunction as erection drugs like Viagra, Cialis, and Levitra.

WHAT EXACTLY IS THE “KEGEL”?

The Kegel is different from all the other penile exercises in that it actually contracts and strengthens real skeletal muscles – your pelvic floor muscles (commonly referred to as the PC muscle or pubococcygeus muscle).

FINDING YOUR “PC” MUSCLE

As a side note, the PC muscle is actually a misnomer. When you Kegel, you’re really exercising multiple muscles – along with your PC muscle, the Kegel exercises your IC muscle and BC muscle. For the sake of simplicity, we’ll stick with the norm of calling the pelvic floor muscles by one name: the PC muscle.
Finding the PC muscle is easy. The next time you’re urinating, stop your pee mid-flow. The muscles used to stop urinating is your PC muscle.

HOW DO I KEGEL?

To kegel, contract your PC muscle when you’re not urinating. Try holding the contraction for as long as possible. You probably can’t hold it for longer than a few seconds, if that. Many men can’t hold the contraction at all. This just means you have a weak PC muscle.
But not to worry, by doing just a few Kegels here and there, you’ll be able to dramatically improve the strength of your PC muscle – and you’ll reap the rewards in the bedroom.
The best part about the Kegel is that it doesn’t require any assistance from your hands or legs. You can Kegel anywhere, anytime — whether it’s in a car, at the computer, while running, or even while you’re at work.

KEGEL EVERY OTHER DAY

Since your PC muscle is actually a skeletal muscle, like your biceps and triceps, you’ll want to give it enough rest to nourish and grow. Just like your other muscles, your PC muscle is easily over-trained.  To avoid over-training, don’t Kegel every day. Instead, only Kegel three to four days a week.

YOUR KEGEL ROUTINE

• For the first few weeks: Do 50 Kegels every other day. Each Kegel should be contracted for one to five seconds, depending on the strength of your PC muscle. The first time you Kegel, it probably won’t last much longer than a second or two. With more exercise and experience, your PC muscle will become much stronger and your Kegels will last much longer.

• Over time: Gradually incorporate more Kegels into your routine.  Work up to five to ten minutes a day, four days a week.  This should be fairly easy to do, since you can do Kegels anywhere, anytime.  Many penile exercisers do them on their morning commute to work, for example. Eventually, spice it up and try holding your Kegels for as long as possible. You can also find advanced Kegels in our advanced penis enlargement exercise section.

STOP PREMATURE EJACULATIONS & ACHIEVE MULTIPLE ORGASMS

Once your PC muscle is strong, you’ll have the ability to stop yourself from ejaculating.  To do this, you’ll need to be able to hold a tight Kegel contraction for at least 10 seconds. Once you can do that, try the following method for delaying ejaculation:

• Kegel right before you hit the “point of no return” – the point where semen starts moving through your penis and ejaculation is inevitable.
• Hold the contraction for roughly 10 seconds or more.
• After the urge to ejaculate has gone away, release the Kegel.

It’s that easy! The hard part is building up your PC muscle so it’s strong enough to withstand the pressure of ejaculating. Accordingly, learning this process may actually take you anywhere from a few weeks to months to even years.
Many men report that learning exactly when to Kegel is another hard part of the process. This part can take practice, patience, and a lot of attempts (which isn’t necessarily a bad thing), but is well worth the end result.

OTHER USEFUL KEGEL KNOWLEDGE

• Kegels and penis enlargement: Kegeling while doing Jelqs, stretches, or any penile exercise promotes more blood flow to the penis.  In turn, this often enhances the effectiveness of each exercise.  So once you get the hang of kegeling, combine Kegels with your other exercises.
• Kegels exercises aren’t just for men: Kegels can be done by both men and women. Teach your partner to do Kegels and greatly add pleasure to your sexual experience. If a woman squeezes her PC muscle (i.e, kegels) during intercourse, her vagina tightens — increasing the pleasure for everyone involved!
• The Kegel and premature ejaculation: “Uh-Oh, I am coming too quickly… What did I do?” Some men find themselves ejaculating quicker than normal when they first start kegeling. If this happens to you, be sure that you’re relaxing your PC muscle while having sex. Many penile exercisers find that once they learn how to Kegel, they’re unconsciously kegeling during sex. This quickly drains the strength of the PC muscle.

Don’t give up on kegeling if it causes temporary premature ejaculation. This beginner kegeling side effect typically passes in just a few weeks time – and you’ll be able to last even longer in the bedroom once you get over it. The stronger your PC muscle, the easier it is to stop yourself from ejaculating altogether.

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Best Lubes for Giving a Handjob

So, you want to give a really good handjob, or maybe you just want to jack off.  Either way, your body likes things wet that’s just how we were made to feel. When choosing a good lube you need to keep two things in mind slipperiness and longevity.  Below are our top picks along with some user review of the best lubes for giving a handjob.



Added Sensation Lubes

Climax Bursts Tingling

If you are looking for something with a little more sensation and want a lube that does more than simply lubricate then Climax Bursts should be your go to.

What makes the Climax Bursts so special is the inclusion of a tingling sensation in the formula.

Unlike other lubes we have tested, Climax Bursts has a nice balance of added sensation to give an extra kick that is not overpowering.  For those looking for something a little special, this is the best lube for giving a handjob.

Silicone Lubes

Silicone lubes are some of the best, high quality lube types you can use when giving a handjob.  They are slick, long-lasting, and feel great to use.

As a drawback, though, silicone lubes can be harder to clean up and sometimes leave stains in sheet (which go away when washed) or an oily residue.

This means less time fussing around when doing the dirty (no need to re-lube half way through) but a slightly more involved clean-up.  Regardless, silicone lubes are your best choice for general use.

Swiss Navy Silicone Lube

Swiss Navy is a fantastic all purpose lube that feels amazing when giving a handjob (or just for solo play).

It is slippery, and long-lasting and does not get tacky or leave behind an oily feeling like a lot of other lubes I have tested.  In terms of feeling, when I used this for the first time it nearly sent me through the roof!

Swiss Navy really feels like the real thing.

The pump cap is also super easy to add more and a cinch to use one handed and helps so you don’t have to break up the fun.  If you are are looking for a lube that will get the job done, and finish him fast, then look no further.

Pjur Original Body Glide Lube

We have featured Pjur on some of out previous lists for the best lubes.  Simply put, whether you are masturbating, giving a hand job, or having sex Pjur is one of the best overall silicone based lubes you can buy period.

It feels amazing, with a great consistency and a super slippery feel.

And because it is nearly friction free there is virtually no heat.  It’s a feeling that is a bit difficult to describe but put simply, will make him melt into the covers.

Pjur is a bit pricier than other silicone lubes because this is in the premium category , but you get what you pay for a truly premium feeling product.

Water Based Lubes

Smooth and Slick

Smooth and Slick is named rightly so it is a slippery smooth lube with an awesome glide, and most importantly feels great.

This is currently one of the highest rated lubes on the MQ store, and what makes this lube so popular is its simple no frills design, cheap price of about $17 a bottle for 8 lunches of lube, and longevity when compared to other water lubes out there.

Again, this lube does have a tendency to dry out (like any other water based lube) after extended use but is easily fixed with some water (or even a little spit).

Because of its low price and high performance it has gained its spot as on our list of the best lubes for giving a handjob.

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How to Give a Handjob Like a Pro

Hand-job, jacking off, wanking, slapping the salami, answering the bone phone it doesn’t matter what you call it giving the best job can be tough.  There are so many types of penises, shapes and sizes, and no two guys are the same.  That’s why we are here, to teach you how to give a handjob.

That’s why when you are learning how to give a handjob, you need to keep a few things in mind. Learn how to read the signs, and be flexible.  A lot of it comes down to trial and error, but once you find a sweet spot you will be giving the best handjob he has ever had.

Cut or Uncut?

When you are still learning how to give a handjob this is something you really need to pay attention to. Everyone’s dick is a bit different, and this is going to change how you give a hand job and what things to pay attention too.

The first thing you need to think about is he cut and uncut?  The difference between the two isn’t a complete game changer, but there are a few things that you need to change in your technique if you want to do things right.

Uncut Watch the Foreskin

A foreskin can both work for and against you.  I think guys who are uncut are generally easier with because having a foreskin tends to reduce friction and makes giving a hand job without lube a bit easier.

But on the other hand, every foreskin is different, and depending on how tight his skin is, especially around the head of the penis, can change his sensitivity.

What do I mean by this?  Some guys with a tighter foreskin have a much more limited range of motion so if you pull it down over the head of the penis could mean pain, not pleasure, so be extra careful to pay attention to this!

If you are unsure if something is hurting him, then simply ask!

Another thing to watch for with uncut guys is a much more sensitive penis head.  This is because the foreskin is covering the top most of the time and is not being brushed up on.  So be careful not to over stimulate here.

Change your Hand Placement

For people who are uncut things are a little different.  Because there is less loose skin around the penis, jacking off can be a bit more of a challenge.

The easiest way to fix this I find is to keep your grip closer to the base of his penis,  you can still jack him off without much of a problem, although you will generally have less range of motion.

Cut Keep a Rhythm

The most important thing to giving a good hand job is finding a steady rhythm and sticking to it. Having the right speed is important too slow and he won’t feel a thing, too fast and you’ll make his dick go numb!

Hand jobs are all about building to a climax, so if you stop or change your speed you can lose all of your progress to a finish.  So it is important to keep at it and don’t stop!

Use Both Hands

You have two hands, so put them to good use!  You can play with his balls, touch his nipples, or feel his body.  The more you use your hands, the more you stimulate his senses – and the easier your hand “job becomes.

Make sure you are using all of your tools to his advantage!

If you want to get adventurous you can even do a two-hand hand job.  I will be doing a follow-up article about different hand job techniques so be sure to check back soon.

Change Your Grip

Hand jobs go beyond just one grip or technique, and changing your grip can give an entirely different kind of experience.

The most basic and common grip is what I call the fist which is where you simply grab his dick with your thumb and pointer finger towards you, make a fist, and pump.  This is good and all, but doesn’t do a lot to mix things up.

My personal go-to grip is the handshake.  This is where you literally reach out like you are going to shake someones hand, but instead wrap your pointer finger under his balls, and your thumb and other three fingers around his dick.

I usually go with a looser grip and am careful not to squeeze too tight.

This lets you play with his balls and taint (area between the balls and butt) with your pointer finger and gives a much different sensation on his dick.

Communicate

Good communication seems so obvious, but it’s one point that most people ignore while having sex!

Are you going too fast? Too tight? Does it even feel good?

The simplest solution to all these questions is if you don’t know, then ask!

Communication also goes into reading body language and his physical reactions.  Use your eyes and ears to read the air!

If you are doing something that is making him bunch his face into a knot, then take it as a hint to try something different.

If he is moaning for more, then it is probably a good idea to keep at it!

Things To Watch Out For

Speed and Intensity

I have met guys who like it super rough like jackrabbit speed, and I have found some to be super sensitive and are over stimulated easily.

One good tip is to pay attention to how fast he goes himself if you get to see him jack off, and try to replicate that.  This could be for any sexual act he does.  People will usually do to you what they think feels good for them so pay close attention.

Sensitive Spots

The Head

Like I mentioned before every guy is different.   But I have found that there are a few sensitive spots that if played right, can work to your advantage.

The head of the penis is generally the most sensitive part, and a little stimulation can go a long way. When jacking off, try lightly brushing the underside of his penis head with you hand movement.  This is the is bottom of his penis hole.

You don’t need to use a separate hand, just incorporate the moment into your grip.  This tends to drive some guys wild, but can over do it for some, so ease into it.

The Balls

For some guys, it is all in the balls.  Moving their balls at the same pace, (or sometimes super rough) can be a big turn on.  Again, try playing with his balls, and move up the intensity gradually to see how he responds.

The more stimulation the better.

Get Things Wet

Cut or uncut, adding a lube to the mix can is how to give a handjob on a whole another level.  Think about it, is real sex dry?

No.

It is wet and slippery, and that’s what we are programmed to respond to!

Adding a lube will increase sensation 10 fold, and is enough to make most guys cum in no time.

My go-to is Climax Bursts because of its added tingling sensation and its awesome feel.

If you are looking for a general all-purpose lube that is long lasting and easy to clean up then a water based lube like this is your best bet.

These work great because they don’t produce a lot of heat and won’t stain your sheets like oil and some silicone lubes.  The down side is that they can dry out after a few minutes as the water evaporates, but a pro tip will magically come back to life with a little water (or spit).

And there you have it!  Our take on how to give a handjob.  You are now well on your way to giving the best handjob.  With a little practice, trial and error, and most importantly, communication, you’ll be making him ask for more in no time.

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Masturbator learned tips for bate-blissed edging - PRACTICE GUIDE TO THE CONTINUOUS MALE ORGASM

Several years ago I learned that by getting extremely close to the threshold of ejaculatory inevitability, then relaxing my sex organ muscles and halting all stimulation, then getting “close” again repeatedly, I would achieve a continuous plateau stage with frequent emissions orgasms without ejaculating. The resultant intensity of pleasure is possibly one half that felt in a full ejaculatory orgasm but potentially unending. Furthermore, the associated sexual organs exercise, and the learned ability to better control those organs mentally, has greatly increased the scope and depth my sexual pleasure. It is my opinion that I have learned to enhance and maintain indefinitely the physical events and associated pleasure of an absolutely imminent ejaculatory orgasm. Feelings of pleasure are augmented by intense loin vasocongestion and readiness, and sexual organ fluid fullness and pressure. The following discussion attempts to teach men how to achieve this continuous orgasm, and to explain the physiological basis of this phenomenon.

My discovery of the continuous orgasm was accidental, but recounting the event may help others separate their emissions orgasm and ejaculatory experiences. The first time I experienced the potential of this technique I was masturbating while stoned on pot. Stimulation to my penis felt somewhat dulled. I got very close to cumming but sensed that my orgasm was going to be weak; so I stopped all stimulation, knowing that I could build up to a better orgasm. When I was able to resume penile stimulation I noticed the pleasure of touching my penis was greater…so I came close to cumming again and again…and it felt better and better. Possibly five “close calls” later, my prostate had swollen and my seminal vesicles hardened and discharged but no semen flowed into my urethra.

I continued to broaden the threshold between my orgasm emissions phase and the ejaculatory reflex response. Orgasm pleasure emanated from my testes, which were swollen and drawn under the tissue aside my penis. Possibly thirty minutes into this routine my loin muscles began to ache, so I proceeded to the most intensely pleasurable orgasm and high quantity ejaculation I had ever had. Long afterward my sexual organs continued to radiate an enjoyable ache. I had given these muscles a hearty exercising! I eagerly anticipated my next masturbation session, with delay dictated by my need to reload with semen.

I rarely achieved intense orgasm feelings without eliciting a few spasmodic pumping throbs and ejaculating small amounts of seminal fluid. With practice one can learn to enjoy orgasms without ejaculation. Practice results in discoveries of higher degrees of sexual pleasure and sensations, so it is easy to exercise!

At this point I would like to discuss the physiology of the male ejaculatory orgasm. Reference books describe the event in stages involving sexual organ vasocongestion, rising to the plateau stage, then the orgasm which consists of internal sexual organ emissions and the ejaculation reflex response. Events beyond the plateau phase can be broken into many additional stages. My first orgasm pleasure sensations come from my testes, which draw up into my body. When men first sense the arrival of an orgasm, those feelings emanate from the epididymis and the spermatic cords which contract and spasm to move sperm up the ductus (vas) deferns into the ampullary gland or ampulla. The ampulla filling with sperm accentuates sexual stimulation pleasure. Continued penile stimulation soon triggers a hardening of the seminal vesicles which also discharge fluid. The sperm and seminal fluid in the ampulla then flows into the ejaculatory ducts. Sufficient pressure quickly builds in the ejaculatory ducts to trigger a hardening of the prostate, which discharges directly into the urethra. Ejaculation is inevitable once the prostate hardens. Finally, the valves at the ends of the ejaculatory ducts open and the urethral bulb is quickly filled, triggering the ejaculation reflex. Semen discharged from the penis comes in a distinct sequence of partially mixed emissions: 1. prostatic fluid (10%); 2. sperm (2%) and ampullary gland fluid (6%); 3. seminal fluid (70%) and again; 4. prostatic fluid (12%).

Note that there are valves at the ends of the ejaculatory ducts and that fluids pressure triggers the ejaculation reflex. I evidently orgasm and discharge sperm, ampullary gland, and seminal vesicle fluid into the ejaculatory ducts without triggering ejaculation or the opening those valves. I have trained myself to lock the ejaculatory duct valves closed during these emissions.

The key is WHEN YOU GET VERY CLOSE TO EJACULATORY INEVITABILITY COMPLETELY RELAX ALL SEXUAL ORGAN MUSCLES, AND CEASE STIMULATION TO THE PENIS.

The best way to portray this relaxation is to visualize the feeling you create trying to initiate urination. Urinary tract muscle relaxation locks the ejaculatory ducts valves closed, even as the seminal vesicles proceed to harden and discharge. Ampullary gland fluid, sperm and seminal fluid pressure builds behind the duct valves. Stopping stimulation to the penis and relaxation halts the emissions pressure driven progression to the hardening of the prostate and the ejaculatory reflex. Sexual organ muscle contractions, and seminal fluid movement and pressure produce the feelings of an orgasm, and give rise to greatly heightened penis stimulation pleasure. Getting “close” to the point of seminal vesicle hardening and emissions orgasm at least ten times, involving roughly fifteen minutes of pre-ejaculatory pleasure results in the state of continuous orgasm.

With experience and exercise, I have raised the pressure (and pleasure) level required to trigger the ejaculation reflex response. I sense exactly how much more pressure can build before crossing the threshold to ejaculatory inevitability. My emissions orgasms are stronger and ultimately continuous without triggering ejaculation. My seminal vesicles harden right after I have nearly cum; hence they are almost constantly hard and discharging. My prostate swells without hardening, currently to about just half as large as during a full ejaculatory orgasm. Emissions increase the amount of fluid held in the ampulla and ejaculatory ducts, with an associated increase in pleasure and passion of sexual readiness.

The presence of sperm, ampullary gland, and seminal fluid in my ejaculatory ducts is evidenced by sensations I can produce after nearly cumming. Shortly after ceasing stimulation I can contract my bulbospongiosus muscle and thereby press on my prostate and feel the fluids being pushed back up into the ampulla and seminal vesicles. This feeling of fluid movement and fullness is very pleasurable. I can stop masturbating, and hours (days) later still feel the semen in my loins eager for release. My testes also feel full and are slightly sensitive to jostling.

Notice my descriptions of the physical changes to internal sexual organs that occur during an orgasm and ejaculation. By placing a middle finger into your rectum the hardening of the seminal vesicles, ampullary gland, and prostate can be palpitated digitally. Softly massaging the prostate and ampulla when they are gorged from orgasmic filling is pleasurable. The ampullary gland is felt during an ejaculatory orgasm as a hard triangular organ, point facing downward, that lies just above the prostate.

Five additional observations:

1. It seems that enhanced and prolonged orgasms elicit increased semen production. I easily cum twice daily, and after just 48 hours of abstinence fluids build up to a sense of fullness that demands release. That sense of fullness comes from my testes and seminal vesicles;
2. I can generate a strong feeling of sexual excitement mentally at will. I am able to elicit a feeling of sexual rush at will by mentally inducing contractions in my epididymis and spermatic cord causing sperm movement up my ductus (vas) deferens. The sperm rising to fill my ampullary gland raises my level of sexual excitement. My scrotum and spermatic cords move my testes around when I generate these pleasure sensations;
3. I can maintain emissions orgasms without stimulation to my penis. Once a high degree of fluid pressure has accumulated behind the ejaculatory ducts valves, I can mentally induce contractions in my epididymis and spermatic cords thereby generate sexual stimulation. This stimulation maintains my continuous orgasm, and can trigger the ejaculatory reflex;
4. I tie a cord around my testes, just barely tight enough to prevent their retraction up into my body. The scrotum muscles contract around and put a pleasurable pressure on the testes. The orgasmic feelings emanating from my ductus (vas) deferns is greatly enhanced when my testes are held down in the scrotum. Finally, I can produce sexual pleasure similar to light penile stimulation by gently rocking my testes slightly from side to side;
5. Finally, the ability to enjoy orgasms while delaying ejaculation may enhance a sexual relationship. I am in no hurry, my partner is excited by my level of readiness and periodic dry penile throbs. I am satisfied and in no hurry, and can concentrate on giving pleasure.

PRACTICE GUIDE TO THE CONTINUOUS MALE ORGASM

Learn to maintain indefinitely the physiological events and associated pleasure of the emissions phase of an absolutely imminent ejaculatory orgasm! Practice at least half an hour, once a day, for probably two months and you will likely gain the ability to enjoy an endless orgasm! Put on your favorite porno and follow this step-by-step practice guide:

I. “STOP AND GO” MASTURBATING

When you begin to feel an orgasm approach cease all penile stimulation. Let your level of excitement drop slightly, then approach another orgasm. Repeat this “stop and go” approach to an orgasm at least ten times. Notice that stimulation to your penis feels better and better. On the tenth orgasm approach bear down hard with your bulbospongiosus (piss stopper) muscle but slow down your stroking as you reach the point of no return. The reduced stimulation to the penis permits the pleasure of sexual organ emissions drive you to the full ejaculatory orgasm. Notice the increased volume and intensity of your orgasm.

GOALS:

• Learn to resist the temptation of the orgasm; just as your penis feels really great to stroke…stop. You will discover that the avoidance of immediate pleasure will bring greater pleasure.
• Strengthen your sexual organ muscles.
• Increase your mental control over orgasms.
• Learn to measure the approach of your orgasm.
• Feel the emissions phase as separate from the ejaculatory phase of an orgasm.

II. RECTAL MONITOR

Practice the Stop and Go technique. When you are ready to orgasm lube up your middle finger and stick it up your butt! Feel around your prostate (walnut sized organ one to two inches past your anus) then put your finger all the way in, past the prostate. With your finger probing above the prostate proceed to an ejaculatory orgasm.

GOALS:

• Learn how good it feels to massage your prostate and ampullary gland.
• Feel how your internal sex organs harden during an ejaculatory orgasm. The ampullary gland is felt when hard as triangular just above the prostate. The seminal vesicles are the firm cords running down into the ampullary gland.

III. RELAXATION WHEN CLOSE:

Practice Stop and Go approaches to an orgasm, but try to get a little closer to the point of no return. When you get real close, stop stroking your penis and completely relax all sex muscles. Concentrate especially on relaxing your bulbospongiosus (piss stopper) muscle, by creating the feeling you produce when trying to start to take a piss. Let your level of excitement drop, but less so, before resuming the approach to another orgasm. Relax completely each time you are near an orgasm and stop sexual stimulation. Notice that relaxation helps to extinguish the feelings associated with an emissions orgasm.

GOALS:

• Learn to resist the lure of an ejaculatory orgasm that is now closer. You must relax just when your piss stopper muscle would naturally bear down, and stop stroking just when it feels really good.
• Learn to more quickly resume penile stimulation after stopping.
• Learn to get closer and closer to ejaculatory inevitability without passing that reflex threshold.

IV. CLOSE RELAX CLOSE RELAX SO CLOSE

Build up your level of sexual excitement first with at least five stop and go sessions, then try to get REAL CLOSE to an orgasm and RELAX all sex organ muscles. Get so close that you would have triggered an ejaculatory orgasm if you had not become fully relaxed. Your mission is continue to feel the orgasms approach for a few seconds even though you are not stimulating your penis. The lure to stroke yourself is very strong at this point but resist! With practice you will briefly enter the sex organs’ emissions phase without ejaculating. Relaxing will suppress your ejaculatory reflex response and help keep semen retained behind the ejaculatory ducts valves. Semen pressure will build in the ampullary gland. A soft finger massage of the prostate and ampullary gland once they are gorged from emissions is pleasurable.

GOALS:

• Learn to resist the lure of an orgasm you have actually begun. The temptation to continue stroking yourself is very strong at this point.
• Practice this exercise until you enter the emissions phase fully relaxed. Your seminal vesicles will harden and discharge into your ampullary gland, but no fluid should leak into your urethra.
• Observe how much better penile stimulation feels when your loins are gorged with sperm, ampullary gland, and seminal fluids.
• Learn to vary penile stimulation by site, and by intensity.
• Expand your mental control over previously autonomic responses. You are increasing the number of brain cells you devote to sex.

V. SEMINAL VESICLES HARD FIVE-TEN TIMES

Build up sexual tension with several close “stop and go’s”, then proceed to approach the threshold of the ejaculatory reflex. Be careful to cease stimulation and relax fully just as you begin to enter the emissions phase of your orgasm. Sometimes at this point your seminal vesicles will harden. Let your excitement wane, then come close to the point of no return again. Practice reaching the ejaculatory reflex threshold so that you harden your seminal vesicles at least five times. Semen will accumulate each time the seminal vesicles harden. Now contract your bulbospongiosus (piss stopper) muscle and feel semen push back up into the ampullary gland…FEELS GOOD! Notice the increased quantity of semen ejaculated when you finally cum.

GOALS:

• Build up semen pressure behind your ejaculatory ducts valves.
• Manipulate the fluid in your internal sexual organs.
• Learn to harden your seminal vesicle without causing ejaculatory contractions or leaking semen.

VI. RESIST THE ULTIMATE TEMPTATION

Gorge your internal sex organs with semen, reaching seminal vesicle hardening at least five times then stop…take out the trash or something. Be careful to protect your tender balls. Let your level of excitement drop completely, then resume the seminal vesicle hardening. Be very careful to build up your excitement slowly with a few stop and go’s before attempting a seminal vesicle hardening. Proceeding too fast can cause uncomfortable leakage of semen.
GOALS:
• Learn how much excitement is required before attempting a seminal vesicle hardening.
• Stop your masturbation session for at least two hours. You will be totally horny. Resist the lure! Try to spend one night with your sex organs gorged.
• Gain complete control of when you have an ejaculatory orgasm.

VII. SO CLOSE CONTINUOUSLY

Build up to five seminal vesicle hardenings, relax and fill your ejaculatory ducts, then contract your piss stopper muscle and push the semen up into your ampullary gland. Get as close to your ejaculatory orgasm as you can without crossing the reflex response threshold. Now practice close-relax-harden-contract, and again close-relax-harden-contract repeatedly, in rapid succession. Ultimately, you will enter a state of nearly continuous orgasm emission phases. Your swollen testes and throbbing spermatic cords will orgasm. Orgasm emission pleasures from your ampullary gland are amplified by the accumulating fluid and especially fluid pressure in your ejaculatory ducts. The rapid succession of emissions orgasms becomes a continuous orgasm without ejaculation.

GOALS:

• Learn to harden your seminal vesicles at will.
• Learn to harden your seminal vesicles in rapid succession.
• Practice staying very close to an ejaculatory orgasm, almost continuously feeling a hardening of your seminal vesicles.
• Hold your orgasm at the continuous emissions phase endlessly.
• Learn to maintain your emissions orgasm mentally; by concentrating on producing emissions, enough semen pressure can be generated to perpetuate those emissions…without penile stimulation!

You can achieve a state of orgasmic bliss that induces a feeling of continuous orgasm, which can extend for MINUTES with what I call “BEYOND EDGING.” It is a two-hand masturbation technique which is a nearly “motionless” technique, requiring very little stroking of the cock up until the finishing off stage of a masturbation session.

With your non-dominant hand, place your thumb on the base of the shaft, and with your “fuck finger,” press on your perineum (that area between your balls and your asshole). Hold your cock gently with your dominant hand. At this point, you tighten your PC muscles and try to make yourself shoot off, similar to how you try to make yourself cum when your cock is in a pussy. NO STROKING !!! Watching porn helps stimulate your sexual arousal levels.

You are essentially creating a “cock ring” with your non-dominant hand, only this cock ring is one which you use to monitor the arousal level of your masturbation session. You can’t have a soft cock when your perineum is at full bulge. You may even want to “pulse” your PC’s to “pump up” your cock. You have to try to make the perineum “bulge” and get as hard as you can make it,and then keep it hard. The thumb and the fuck finger are gently “pinching together,” restricting blood flow out of the cock, and the pressure on the perineum is , I think, stimulating your prostate, but without using insertion.

You are trying to basically masturbate yourself using your PC muscles and mental stimulation alone. Your cock should get completely stiff and completely aroused, and at the point where you are the most aroused, you will feel like you are having an orgasm….only without full ejaculation. You should experience emissions of pre-cum at this level, which indicates you’ve achieved the “BEYOND EDGING” state of bate.

Keep pushing on the PC muscles for as long as you can stand it. You’ll experience a full-on goon state, but one which is more easily controlled than with other masturbation techniques, such as “edging” or “stop and go.” To come out of the goon state, simply release your non-dominant hand’s “pinch” on your package. To get back into the goon state, just go back to the “pinch.” This is an attractive technique for watching serial porno loops, because you can “time” your “orgasms” to coincide with whatever is happening on-screen.

If you are an addicted masturbator, you may find this technique replacing “marathon edging” as your “go-to” favorite masturbation technique, because you can experience several minutes of “orgasm” within a one-hour masturbation session, and your ejaculations and orgasms will be more complete.

A caveat or two: It takes a while to “learn” the touch and timing of this technique, but when you find the right combination, it will hit you like a bomb going off in your brain and cock. You’ll also have to “learn” how long you can handle the “orgasm,” phase of this technique. At first, you may only be able to last about a minute. But with dedication I have experienced the “B.E. Orgasm Phase” for seven minutes, but it took me one year to be able to maintain that phase, increasing my endurance in 15-20 second increments.

Of course, as the masturbation session progresses, you’ll want to start stroking, increasing in VERY GRADUAL steps, until full-on “finishing” strokes accomplish your orgasm & ejaculation. Remember to keep pushing on that perineum during ejaculation; you’ll be able to experience a more continuous flow of ejaculate and more copious amounts of ejaculate, and a longer full-on orgasm.

Hope you enjoy years of masturbation pleasure, whatever technique you employ; there’s no such thing as a bad jack off session. Always can learn more, though.

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