A man, edged. You will notice that he often changes his grip and pace. A regular pace and a sustained kneading foster the progress of arousal into orgasm. Change of pace or grip destabilizes the brain and hinders this progression.
A skilled edger will use this method to stay near the cresting point for a long time.
This is sometimes referred to as dick surfing. Of course, as he nears the cresting point, the best way to avoid going past the point of no-return is to avoid all contacts as you can see later (1:27). The edger’s goal is to find the appropriate level of stimulation to stay in the pre-orgasmic zone without going over nor losing it.
Even if he stays in control, the yearning to ejaculate will swell over time to a point where the edger’s mind will be consumed by this intent. His erection will be supreme. The pressure at his cock’s base will be unbearable. Orgasm will grow to be an obsession and everything else will become irrelevant.
At this moment, the edger morphs into a resolute masturbator (1:43) and nothing can stop him from spilling his seeds (1:46) ! Bliss.
In this post I present to you some clip-samples showing guys with above-average cum production. Watch authentic superior ejaculation-abilities as well as too-good-to-be-true pumpings which leave us rather puzzled.
Before I begin to introduce my samples, take a look at this nice drawing: You see all the glands involved supplying fluids that leave you thru your penis (which is represented here by its two erectile bodies).
The proportions in this pic shall match anatomical reality, giving you a clear idea about the storage-capacityof the individual glands. It is obvious that the bladder can hold the biggest amount of fluid and we sure all know that from experience. I mention this because it shall be of importance further down in this post.
A. Watch this guy shooting his load into a glas. No doubt this is real and a first-rate ejaculation. The guy cums in 15 spurts in what could be a double-ejaculation, but I consider this as one climax. Watch the volume he catches, it probably emptied his glands rather cumpletely!?
B. In this example we witness a very beautiful power-ejaculation. Although it´s just the cock-head in the frame, we clearly can observe the full-course of a forceful ejaculatory reflex, from the initial power-ooze, immediately followed by (8!) ropy jets of cum to the final (5-6) gushes of his cream. I have no doubt this is absolutely authentic.
Now, there seems to be a (natural) threshold in our perception of whether we believe a certain volume ejaculated is for real or if we judge it being a fake. D. Check out this humorous take on ejaculation with a brief and clearly fake scene of „shooting cum“ (it´s rather cum-pissing)!
Which brings me to those examples showing ejaculations appearing authentic and yet something is too-good-to-be-true!
More than 10 years ago I discovered clips showing a guy shooting truly unreal volumes of what appears to be cum. This guy is in fact expelling the fluid thru his urethra (i.e. penis), however, we just do not watch a man ejaculating. But how?
He inserts a catheter into his bladder and fills it with fluid resembling cum, he then pees it out. Aside from the sheer volume, the giveaway sign is being flaccid.
It’s also pretty hard to fake the twitches and spasms of an actual orgasm, although of course guys can leak a lot of cum without any spasms. In the videos I’ve seen, guys normally clench and release their PC muscle to make it look like spurts. Compare videos closely and you can see the difference.
In the so-called Retrograde ejaculation your system detours your cum right into your bladder! Responsible for this is a „misfunction“ of one of your sphincters (the one of your bladder, the internal one), check with this drawing: Now if you sounded your cocks urethra and pressed artificial cum into your bladder via a catheter it´d be just the reverse way your urine is leaving your body.
Back to the clip showing the massive „cum“ ejection and its explanation.
The bladder is the largest container for fluid (regularly urine) in your system, as you can check in the above drawing or other anatomical pics in this blog. Pissing urine or fake cum can be part of your sexual experience, but it has nothing much to do with the ejaculatory reflex. There is but one exception and that is the ability of some guys to sprinkle a fluid (in high volumes) being apparently neither urine nor semen!
Finally we encounter clips in which men share their baffling ejaculatory abilitiesleaving us without any explanation.
Now while the next clip – G. – may present us the pre-filled bladder variant (because the guy cums in 14 almost evenly spurts (pace-wise and volume-wise) of evenly textured thin white milk (all in all a very hot visual though!), there may be few very lucky men around who just produce huge amounts of semen naturallyand climax repetitively without much of a pause!? I was hinted to a clip by reader Addicted Penis Masturbator showing a man ejaculating unbelievable 37 (!!!) shots in one set – and I admit I have no clue about how this is at all possible (it looks authentic!). I think I make out 3 climaxes (assumed by two brief spurting-intermissions along his jerking).
H. Witness this mega-ejaculation and be happy for the guy cumming that long (96 secs!!) and exuberant!
A sharp-suited business man of about thirty shuts and bolts the door of the dungeon. At 6’2” and 200lb, he seems to fill the low-ceilinged space. He towers over the man he has come to meet. The two shake hands. “Jack,” the tall man says. “Simon,” the other replies. There is the briefest of pauses as the two men size each other up. “What do you think?” Jack asks, spreading his muscular arms wide. “Hot,” Simon replies taking in the bigger man’s broad shoulders and pumped chest and the torso that tapers at the waist and flares out again to accommodate the thickly muscled thighs
Both men visibly relax. They have made it past the transition when an online interaction becomes a real-world encounter. It’s not just the relief that their online and real selves match up––That’s only the first part one of the transition––the second is the adjustment to the physical reality of the other person. From their online chats, Simon knew that Jack in person would be self-confident and assertive, but this is magnified when projected by a body that seems to be sculpted out of slabs of muscle and is expressed, not by text that flashes up on a screen, but by words spoken by a man who knows how good looking he is, and how much power that gives him over others.
They had met three months before in a gay chat room, and it had taken them months of occasional and sometimes fraught online chats before they’d agreed to meet in dungeon for the evening, from 6 to 10 PM, after which Jack would go back to his girlfriend who thought that he’d been marking time at a work function. Jack inspects the equipment in the dungeon. He’s particular impressed by a metal seat whose back and sides consist of a framework of thick metal tubes bolted to the wall. He reaches over the back of the seat and grabs the sturdy metal post that is bolted into the floor and ceiling between the chair and wall. He tests the post’s strength against his own. “It’s solid,” Simon says. “That’s why I chose this place.”
When people from outside the gay BDSM world look at bondage gear, they see sinister leather and metal artefacts that remind them of medieval torture chambers, but if they took the trouble to inspect them closely, they’d see that a lot of it is poor quality and shoddily made. Of course, you can buy more expensive heavy-duty restraints, but many doms, quite apart from not wanting to pay the higher price tags, prefer something that looks the part but that the sub could get himself out of in an emergency. Others, however, hold to the maxim, “It’s not bondage if you can get out of it.” Jack had used those very words to Simon when he’d started to explain the kind of scene he wanted. For Jack, it was all about bondage.
“We’re wasting time,” Simon says, his voice suddenly taking on a harder edge. Noticing the tone of command in Simon’s voice, Jack’s instinct is to respond to the challenge from a rival male. If this were a business or social situation, Jack would have used his physical presence to establish his dominance. But he checks himself. This is part of the agreement: If he wants to be tied up, he has to submit for long enough for Simon to do the job he’s come to do. He drops his head. “Yes, sir,” he mumbles. “What was that? I didn’t hear,” Simon says with growing assurance. Somehow Simon now appears larger, but it’s not the relative sizes of their bodies that have changed but the space they make use of. Jack’s has shrunk, ceding control of the dungeon to Simon. “Yes Sir!” Jack repeats grudgingly. But Simon stops there, knowing not to push his luck. Jack hasn’t signed up for an evening of sub-dom role play, or, as he’d said, “any other gay shit.”
“Strip naked and fold your clothes away neatly, slave,” Simon orders, sitting down on an elaborate carved wooden chair that might be someone’s idea of a master’s throne, but looks ridiculously theatrical to Simon. Nevertheless, it gives him the perfect vantage point from which to watch Jack strip. The businessman’s suit jacket and slacks, the precisely knotted tie and crisp white shirt are folded neatly into a pile on the floor and crowned with the final item, Ryan’s stylish boxer briefs––everything just so: the right brands, the right colors, and the right fit.
The business suit has stripped one layer of authority from Jack. In theory, his nakedness in front of a clothed man should make him feel powerless and humiliated. But Jack naked is even more magnificent than Jack dressed, and both he and Simon know it. Simon tries not to show the uprush of pure animal lust that bubbles up from his groin and courses through his body. He pauses for a moment to admire the impressive musculature that Jack had built and sculpted since childhood when he had first started to compete in sport. A professional sportsman for ten years, in retirement, he hasn’t let himself go soft.
Simon is no flabby loser, but he’d be the first to admit that he isn’t in Jack’s league. He’s a well-preserved forty-two-year-old gay man with his own business. He started to dom seriously in his mid-thirties after dabbling in gay BDSM for years. After he’d bought his own place, he kitted out a small playroom. It was the mention of “fully-equipped playroom” in Simon’s listing that had prompted Jack to contact him. Early on in their online conversation, Jack had asked to see pictures of Simon’s playroom. He’d taken one look and had declared it inadequate. “I could bust out in no time,” he’d said with total certainty. “And when I do, I get to tie you up and use all those kiddy toys on you, mister.”
It was then that Simon had realized that Jack was nothing like any of the subs he knew. He’d met gay bodybuilders who looked like Jack. He’d initially mistaken him for one of those air-headed, helium-heeled muscleboys who looked great in chaps but usually couldn’t take much BDSM. They usually only wanted one scene: To be tied into a sling, fed a steady supply of drugs, and fucked and fisted all night. If they were the gay parody, Jack was the model they were parodying. He insisted he wasn’t gay or even bi, and declared categorically that “any gay sex shit” wasn’t going to be part of the scene.
At first, Simon had taken it for granted that Jack wanted to be restrained so that he, Simon, could do something to him. When Simon tied up a sub in his playroom, it was as a prelude to a BDSM activity or sex. He’d never considered bondage to be an end in itself. That’s why it was B&D––bondage and discipline and S&M. He knew that there were guys who liked to be encased in rubber or leather, locked in sleep sacks, and left for hours, but that wasn’t what Jack was after. He had to be tied in a single position for a scene several hours long, and apart from the hood and restraints, he was to be naked. When Simon had again raised the question of sex or S&M, Jack had replied angrily that if Simon attempted anything when Jack was restrained during the scene, he’d break free and break every bone in Simon’s body.
After that exchange, Simon had seriously considered ending their online contact and blocking Jack’s messages. The guy might have been some kind of gay-hating psycho. In the end a mix of lust, hope, and curiosity had overcome his misgivings. But after that, he’d given up trying to negotiate with Jack, whose idea of negotiation was telling Simon what he wanted and asking him, not whether he wanted to do it, but whether he was able to do it. Simon wondered how long Jack had been working on the scene and how many other doms he’d approached. From then on, Jack explained the scene, and Simon listened and tried to work out how to achieve it in practice. His playroom was out, and a hire dungeon was the obvious choice, as long as it had facilities for Jack-proof bondage.
It was only when they’d settled on the place and Jack was sure that Simon was able to deliver on the bondage that Jack told him what happened after he’d be tied and hooded. Simon had been sure there was something more and he waited eagerly for Jack to tell him. Simon had imagined a number of possible scenarios, from the extraordinary to the absurd. “Dude,” Jack typed. “When I’m secure, and after you’ve given me a chance to break free, you’ll start to jerk me off. But you can’t let me shoot until the very end of the session.” The great revelation was that Jack wanted Simon to edge him! It was such a letdown that Simon couldn’t think of anything to say, but realizing that Jack expected him to say something, he’d typed, “Awesome.” He’d almost given up again that evening. But after all the months of online investment, he thought he should get something for his trouble. Hell! If that was really all Jack wanted, Simon would just walk away and ask the owner of the dungeon to go release Jack. But in his fantasies about the scene, he still harbored the hope that there would be––must be––something more to it than bondage and an adolescent jerk off.
The session begins and Simon is still convinced that the naked Jack will ask for something more. He sits on the metal seat and allows Simon to put into practice his design for inescapable bondage. The dungeon has a set of good lockable wrist and ankle restraints, and the metal tubing and vertical post makes for excellent attachment points. Ryan’s arms are tied extended behind him, one hand on either side of the post so that he cannot move his hands backward or forward––the only way he might be able to slide or twist out of the restraints. Ankle restraints and straps around his thighs hold his legs immobile against the legs of the seat and the metal tubing. A collar holds his head in place to the back of the seat, and a broad lockable strap under his pecs fixes his torso to the tubing behind him. The signal that the scene has begun in earnest is when Simon fits the hood over Jack’s head and locks it shut. He steps back.
Jack remains completely still and quiet for a minute or so. And then Simon sees that every muscle on Jack’s body is contracting. His chest swells, stretching the leather strap. He’s exerting the absolute maximum physical strength against the restraints and the metal structure they’re tied to. The repeated muscle contractions are accompanied by a vocalization––that’s the only way Simon can describe it. Starting low, it climbs through pitch range to end abruptly in a strangulated yell as he runs out of air. “Whatever you hear and whatever I say,” Jack had said in their final online chat, “you have to leave me there until ten.” A simple yes had not been good enough. Simon had had to agree to it several times, and then swear that he’d do it.
After another ten-second pause, Jack tenses his muscles again, this time trying to rock his body forward to try and pull the whole assemblage of seat, post, and tubing out of its fixings. His continued failure prompts several more attempts to release himself by attacking the structure in different ways, seeking any weak spot that will be the key to his freedom. Simon is fascinated and impressed by the energy Jack is devoting to his escape attempts. His body glistens with sweat, and his breathing is ragged from exhaustion. For a moment, Simon wonders if Jack will succeed: Snap the post and free his hands, or pull the whole seat away from the wall. But finally he gives up. A few seconds later, the screaming begins. Jack bellows with rage and screams obscenities, threats, and insults. Simon is glad that the words are muffled by the hood and garbled by Jack’s rage because he’s sure that all of the abuse and threats are directed at him. As the rage subsides, it makes way for something that sounds like hysteria or panic. Finally, Jack begins to sob––long heartfelt sobs expressing some irreplaceable loss or terrible despair.
The sobs, too, subside. Jack is completely still and his breathing eases. Simon takes this as his cue to start edging his captive. “Give me some time to see if I can bust free,” Jack had instructed. “And then start edging me.” Simon kneels in front of Jack and pours lube over his dick that is now flaccid. As soon as Simon’s fingers wrap themselves around Jack’s shaft, it springs back into life. It’s fully erect in seconds. Soon Jack is moaning in pleasure. A warning “no-no-no-no” makes Simon let go of Jack’s dick that now stands rock hard and vertical. Simon only has to give it the occasional few strokes to elicit an instant response, quickly followed by an urgent warning “no-no-no,” if he goes on too long.
Simon suddenly understands why Jack had chosen him and spent months coaching him for the scene. How many doms had he approached in the past? Most would have turned him down straight away or quit part way through when they realized what he wanted. It isn’t an altogether pleasant realization that he’s been chosen because Jack was sure that he’d do exactly as instructed. His reward is to handle what must be in gay terms, the best and least accessible body and cock in town. But he hasn’t had any input in the scene, apart from finding and hiring the dungeon. The scene could not happen without him, but only in the same way that it couldn’t happen without the restraints: He’s just one component in an elaborate fantasy to which he’s contributed nothing.
Nevertheless, Simon has to admit that he’s turned on by the scene. If you look at the scene in terms of its content, very little happening, but witnessing the intensity of Jack’s reaction, Simon realizes that a lot is going inside Jack’s head. And now he does believe that Jack is straight, and that he’s the first and only gay man who’s seen Jack bound and naked, and the first man to play with his amazing cock.
At the beginning of the session Simon had felt used. He was just another prop, like the dungeon, the bondage gear, the seat. But now any idea of walking out, or of using the equipment in the dungeon to teach Jack a lesson has gone. It’s not going to be one of Simon’s top ten sexual experiences, but it will be on of his top ten experiences. And he’s pretty sure it will just be the once, and that at ten o'clock when Jack gets dressed and walks out of the door, he’ll never see him again. For their remaining time in the dungeon, the two men share a strange, wordless communion. Simon has pulled up a chair and spends most of his time staring at Jack’s perfect body, wondering what’s going on in his head. But he can’t make much sense of the facts he’s assembled: very hot straight man, former sportsman and successful businessman, the ultimate alpha male. What’s he doing here with a gay man, naked, restrained, and with a boner so hard and responsive, you’d normally only expect to find it on a horny teenager?
For most of the last hour, Jack cries quietly in the hood. When Simon’s cellphone vibrates at 9.45, he’s both relieved and sorry that the session is ending and that their strange connection is about to end. Jack has been the easiest man to edge. Normally, Simon finds it tedious to edge a sub but sometimes consents to do it in exchange for something he wants. But Jack has needed only the briefest of touches to draw up drop after drop of pre-cum from his swollen cockhead. Simon quickens his pace to push Jack over the edge and grant him his long-delayed climax. The warning no-no-no extends into an ecstatic nooooooooooo as Jack reaches the point of no-return. When Jack finally shoots, it’s not the spasms that spurt of spunk high into the air that Simon expected but more the overflowing of a long pent-up store. Semen flows continuously out of Jack’s cock for much longer than Simon thinks is humanly possible, coating Jack’s shaft and Simon’s hand, spilling over the seat, and dripping over the floor. The flow ceases; Jack falls quiet, no longer responding to Simon’s touch.
Not knowing what else to do, Simon goes to the bathroom to wash his hands. When he returns, he instantly sees that the old Jack is back. The erection is gone, and Jack immediately shifts his head in response to Simon’s approaching footsteps. “What’s the time?” He asks, as if the preceding three-and-a-half hours had not taken place. “10.30,” Simon replies. “Shit man, I said ten o’clock.” Shocked by the speed of the transformation, Simon can’t think of anything to say. “Hurry up! Get me untied. I need to get back to my girlfriend.” Simon unlocks and unbuckles the network of straps and restraints. Once released, Jack showers and dresses, and without saying another word to Simon, he leaves the dungeon. On the drive home, where his boyfriend eagerly awaits to hear what happened, Simon tries to work it out for himself. What should he say: the truth or something a gay man would believe?
Catharsis
You may wonder why I picked the story of Jack and Simon for the edition of this blog dedicated to bondage. The story is certainly atypical of the average gay BDSMer’s experience of bondage. But I chose because it highlights the aspects of bondage that are often overlooked. Bondage is often reduced to a mere prelude to other forms of play or sex. But bondage is the bedrock on which the whole of gay BDSM rests––a physical shorthand standing for submission, slavery, powerlessness, and loss of control.
Like Simon, we can only guess at what was happening inside Jack’s head during the scene, but the experience of being tied without any chance of escape, triggered an emotional reaction so powerful that I recognize in it the power of catharsis: the process of bringing to the surface and releasing emotions we normally find difficult or impossible to access. The ancient Greeks, who coined the term, identified theatrical performances, especially tragedy, as a way of triggering cathartic experiences. A gay BDSM scene, which is itself a type of performance, can be a way to access those deeper closed places within ourselves.
As a dom, I have witnessed the powerful emotional responses that a first scene can elicit from a novice. And in every case I can recall, the initial trigger was bondage. Most of us haven’t been tied up since our childhood games, hence its instant impact in a scene. Bondage provides the initial shock and awe of a gay BDSM scene. When asked what they expect from a session with a dom, subs usually include the phrase “total loss of control.” Bondage is the easiest technique that will make a sub experience this loss of control. And on a purely practical level, it frees your hands up to engage in other activities.
For Jack, inescapable bondage was the only means he had to access the part of himself that he needed to reach. The pretend bondage that most of us use in scenes wouldn’t have worked for him. He had to lose control completely. And this gives us a clue about what might have been going on in his head. Jack was a man who had always been in control; his life an uninterrupted sequence of successes; blessed with good looks and genetic advantage. But maybe he, too, needed to experience what it was like to be utterly powerless and reduced to being the plaything of another man. Did he need to do it to reassert his masculinity, or was it to deal with some other, much darker inner demon?
Bondage 101
My first bondage kit consisted a couple of dressing-gown cords, a necktie, and a scarf to act as a blindfold. But I have since acquired several boxes and drawers full of gear, at least half of which I rarely or never use. The right gear should facilitate a scene and contribute to its atmosphere, but do not confuse gay BDSM with gay BDSM gear. You cannot buy gay BDSM expertise and experience, and ownership of any amount of gear is no guarantee of either. A novice dom needs to get some gear to start experimenting with, and in Part III, I list the items that might be included in a Basic Bondage Kit that is more than sufficient for most bondage scenes. Only when you find something that you really want to do that you cannot do with the basic kit, should you go back to the fetish store.
Cuffs
At some point in my early gay BDSM career, I graduated to handcuffs. But as anyone who’s used played with cheap handcuffs can testify, they’re either easy to get out of, or they close too tightly around the wrists, quickly becoming too uncomfortable to wear. As for suspending someone in handcuffs, you’d have the sub screaming to be released in seconds. If you’re after sensual bondage, metal is not ideal for several of reasons, but primarily comfort, yours and his.
Rope
Rope, while it has many uses in gay BDSM, can be a tricky proposition for the novice. Tie ropes too loosely and they don’t restrain the sub, too tight and you cut the circulation. The latter is not particularly dangerous, but quickly becomes so uncomfortable that it interrupts the scene as you struggle to unpick knots so stretched that they sometimes require to be cut with scissors. Unless you’ve been a scout, a sailor, or a climber, your repertoire of knots might be limited to the regular shoelace knot, which while great for shoelaces, is pretty feeble for bondage. It is worth learning a simple sliding knot or noose that doesn’t undo itself as easily. The Japanese have turned rope bondage–– shibari ––into an art form, but their intricate rope confections require miles of rope and infinite patience on the part of the sub who has to wait the thirty or forty minutes for the dom to complete the tie, which, in my view, they could have spent having fun.
I would recommend rope and its constrictive capacity for cock and ball ties to use for ball stretching with and without weights, and cock/ball leashes. But selecting the right material and thickness for CBT use is essential. (see Basic Bondage Kit section below for my recommendation on type of rope to get).
Leather
Although I never bought into the whole “leather lifestyle,” ever since I got my first set of leather restraints, they’ve been my most used and useful piece of gear. Fitted and removed in seconds, and unlikely to cut the circulation or damage the skin, wrist restraints, when combined with a collar and ankle restraints gives you access to a large repertoire of safe, secure positions.
Plastic and Velcro
Plastic ties of the type used in Fifty Shades, I would definitely not recommend. Fitted too tight, they will cut the skin and circulation, and you need scissors to cut them off. Sex shops sell starter bondage kits consisting of nylon restraints that fasten with Velcro. They neither look the part, nor are they particularly functional. Don’t waste your money. Stick to rope or invest in good restraints.
Heavy duty
The restraints Simon used on Jack were thick leather with good quality metal fixings that can be padlocked shut. There’s always the danger that a determined sub like Jack could work his hands out of locked restraints––escapologists have tricks to escape from shackles, chains, and locked restraints. But Simon had secured Jack’s arms behind his back, in such a way that he could not move his hands enough to get out of the restraints. Additionally, he was secured around the chest, thighs, and ankles so that he was pretty much immobilized, and unable to use changes his body position and shape to escape. Simon could have used heavy metal shackles and collars that have no give at all. While they definitely look the business, they are expensive, heavy, and uncomfortable for the sub and for any dom who might be hoping for any physical intimacy, as metal and the more sensitive parts of the human anatomy do not mix well.
Basic Bondage Kit
Leather wrist restraints
check the quality of the metal fixings. What often fails on cheap restraints are the fixings that join the metal and leather. Unless you’re planning to meet a Jack, you won’t need lockable restraints; A solid buckle arrangement is all that you need. Check how the strap is attached to the leather cuff. My first pair, while they looked good, failed because the strap came loose from the cuff. There should also to be a means of clipping them together or to something else quickly. A lot of restraints only have rings, which means you need to get in a supply of carabiners to fasten them. By chance, the second pair I bought had handy hook clips on each restraint.
Leather ankle restraints
Same as above but slightly larger. Mine just have a ring, so I do sometimes have to scramble to find an unused carabiner, but the average human leg is so powerful that you need heavy-duty fixings and not light clips to hold them.
Leather neck collar
Apart from being a major signifier of the sub or slave status, the collar is a very useful place to attach the slave’s arms if you want to keep them away from his body.
Length of chain
I recommend a short length of chain to link restraints, collars, and equipment quickly, without the need for knots, and of course, it’s unbreakable.
Rope
You can buy Japanese bondage rope for $50-60 for 30ft, but I’ve always made do with cotton rope I buy from yachting supply shops for a fraction of the price. I keep several lengths at hand: 3ft, I might use to tie a sub’s hands or for a simple cock and ball tie; I’ll use a 5-6ft length if I want to do a combined hand and cock and ball tie or a cock and ball leash. When I experimented with shibari, I used 10-20ft lengths, but the more rope you have, the more it tangles and the more difficult it is to thread through itself and knot.
If your home is not blessed with pillars or ceiling beams to restrain your subs to, rope can be your simplest solution. It’s easy enough to tie a sub to a chair or bed. And if you have a slatted headboard, you can tie rope loops around the end slats to provide solid anchor points to which to clip the sub’s wrist restraints. To restrain a slave standing without any obvious attachment points and minimal gear is a challenge that I’ve faced while staying at hotels or visiting a sub’s home.
If you have enough rope, you can use an internal door. You need two lengths, each one long enough to tie around the sub’s wrist and ankle and wrap around the full length of the door. The simplest is to tie one rope to the right wrist, drop it over the top of the door to the floor and pull it through the gap at the bottom to secure the right ankle. Do the same with the left wrist and ankle and once the door is shut the rope should be held in place. If it doesn’t, you could tie opposite ankle to wrist, so that the two ropes make a cross on the back of the door. My most challenging improvised tie was at a hotel where I could not use the room door and the bathroom had sliding door. The room did have a large fitted wardrobe with two doors and a sturdy clothes rail that proved to be adequate to immobilizing the sub standing spreadeagle.
Always use natural cotton rope, that is not too thin or thick. I usually recommend the thickness of a pencil. Too thin, and it can cut into the skin, and too thick, it may be hard to tie smaller organs or to knot properly. Never use nylon ropes, as they are too hard to be comfortable and easily damage the skin. Hemp and other natural rope fibers are too rough. Because cotton ropes fray, buy a roll of vinyl tape to seal the ends.
Caribiners
Always have a supply of these on hand to clip restraint to restraint, to collar, to chain, to suitable fixings and furnishings.
Eyes on plate
This is an optional extra and the simplest solution to restrain a sub in a standing position. The eye on plate is another yachting fitting that you can easily fit to woodwork to provide a secure attachment point for ropes and restraints.
This topic is MALE MILKING - not popular milking as many could intend it (i.e. banal teasing with final cumshot). We’ll speak about the use of the male body as a semen farm. And we’ll explain how to force this farm to work hard to produce unexpected quantities of milk. We are not interested in normal cumshots. We are interested in how to induce a BULL to do the work nature intended him to do, i.e. semen production. We are interested in techniques we can use to force the bull’s genitals to work like a cow tit, and in techniques we can use to milk his juices.
I obviously assume that you have some experience or knowledge of the male anatomy and male genitals. If this is not the case, I advise you to learn some basics before you read this article. If we want to use the male body correctly, and especially if we wish to interfere with some instinctive mechanisms people generally think they know, we have to take a step backward and go into this matter more thoroughly. Subjects you should know in detail are: - How male body is made up. - How male genitals (external and internal parts) are made up. - How male genitals work. This latter subject should comprehend: - The role and functioning of testicles - The role and functioning of spermatic cords - The role and functioning of the prostate gland - The role and functioning of seminal vesicles - Last but not least: what happens in male genitals during the so called “orgasm”.
Knowing about these subjects will not only allow to make our bull to have an orgasm, but to use his genitals for a massive production of their seminal juices, which is a predominant part of the fantasies of most of us.
A very useful introduction to the ejaculation process, with a clear and scientific distinction between “emission phase” and “ejaculation phase”, can be found in an article by B. Benders, Continuous Male Orgasm, 1999. In our approach one session will be divided into two different stages: the AROUSAL process for semen production, and the MILKING process for semen extraction. The session requires one BULL (or more), a very manly and strong man, preferably straight and well endowed; and a MILKER, a person who, working on the body of the bull, stimulates it and milks it. Sometimes the bull can be the same person as the milker: if he is alone, he can be his own milker, and can milk himself - our approach will provide for this eventuality also. Both stages are pleasurable, for the milker and for the bull, although at the end of the session the bull may be very tired and exhausted.
A nice and fun part of what we call a milking session is the first part, which involves preliminary acts intended to arouse our man and his complete genital system. These acts can seem very easy to perform, and in part they are so. In fact, it is not a difficult thing to arouse a male, especially if he is young, healthy, and manly, and he hasn’t ejaculated for three days or more. But we should clearly keep in mind that, if we want to milk him properly, we need to arouse him completely, with all the tricks which everyone knows, which some have defined as “edging”, and which I hold to be too superfluous to be described here. I only want to point out two significant aspects frequently neglected.
First. A very special attention should be paid to our bull’s testicles (generally, bigger and healthy testicles corresponds to a stronger sexual power. But this concerns more the choice of a bull than his treatment). During the arousal process they should be stimulated in different ways. At first they can be softly massaged, then, when the excitement grows, they can be more heavily palpated. Many of us can understand when a boy is fully aroused by watching his penis. We need to understand it also by his balls. This is a chief skill. When a male is getting aroused, his balls start an important work, which is a quick production of sperm and testosterone. The penis can be useful to turn on testes, but testes turn on the other genital glands and are the key of the entire genital apparatus. When testicles increase their work, they start to grow. Having them palpated and massaged becomes pleasurable, and stimulates them to work more. Don’t worry about the penis - although it probably is already fully erect, and its foreskin, if it’s uncut, is already withdrawn. The balls become full. The scrotal sack wrap them perfectly. A good way to force them to do their job is to squeeze them together by the sides. Another excellent way, which I use every time, is to apply a vibrator to them, keeping it on for at least three minutes with heavy vibrations. You can surely find your own best way.
Second. Attention must be paid to the precum. When the Cowper gland starts to secrete its fluids, known as “precum”, the genital system is close to being loaded. His testicles are swollen, his prostate gland is already engorged, his seminal vesicles are surely fully distended. Do you remember our goal? The biggest quantity of male juices. Now we are going to find out how they can be milked. You can collect them in a small glass.
For the location of the prostate gland you can refer to the Benders’ article cited above, which also explains how to reach it. On the web there is a very good page which describes clearly the shape and function of the prostate gland. This allows me to not be too detailed here. The only thing I cannot agree with is the pressure applied by finger on this gland. In my experience, that pressure should start in a very light manner, and become stronger little by little.
You can massage it at least as hard as testicles, till it doesn’t ache. The prostate gland is frequently described as a chestnut shaped gland. This is quite true. Perhaps it resembles more the cockhead, the glans penis, with the difference being that the prostate gland is upside down, its tip is below and its lobes start on sides and are above, like in the drawing of a heart. It is in the lobes that the greatest part of the prostate fluids accumulate during the arousal process. So, as Squidgy suggests, we need to rub gently on the sides. It will help to arouse the gland, and you will see evident consequences in your stud’s penis also. You can keep up this massage for some minutes, then, going into a deeper massage, also work on the tips of the lobes, on the highest part of prostate gland. If you do it correctly, he will feel the desire to be massaged with more pressure. His prostate needs to be milked. Do it starting from the sides. His penis will probably become more erect, but you don’t touch it. Let him focus his attention on the prostate gland. Its pleasure is sometimes faint, and can be totally wiped out if you do not concentrate on it. After several minutes, his prostate starts to discharge its fluids into the urethra: in a few seconds you can see the first drop appear on the piss slit. When this happens, you can milk the gland more confidently. Milk it, especially on the sides and top, guiding the fluids towards the center of the gland.
There is no limit of time for a good prostate milking. It can last ten minutes or one hour, according to the case (age of the bull, his sexual strenght, etc.). It is nevertheless certain that, when a healthy gland is aroused, it can be squeezed for at least five or six full drops of prostate fluid.
Only when the prostate gland seems completely drained, should a milker perform the milking of the bull’s seminal vesicles. This is not something a milkee can do alone. Most people have a thumb long enough to milk their prostate gland, but only a few can reach his own seminal vesicles, which lie above the prostate gland. The seminal vesicles play a great role in male semen production: they secrete approximately 60% of the seminal fluid. This helps us understand the importance of their drainage.
The seminal vesicles massage is a very strange feeling, and it can produce many types of emotions or reactions. If the bull is really aroused, it can drive him to the orgasm. So it is important to proceed to milk these glands only when the prostate gland has been already milked. Because the prostate gland requires some minutes to become engorged again, this helps to prevent an involuntary orgasm.
A good description of the location of the seminal vesicles can be found in Benders’ article (pics can be found on this page of Wikipedia). It’s helpful if the milker has long fingers. It’s better if he use two fingers, index and middle, together. When the fingertips go beyond the prostate gland, they reach the seminal vesicles. They are two clearly recognizable bulges which, starting from the prostate gland, spread sideways and more deeply. The touch should start from the top and moving towards the prostate gland. A light touch is sufficient to squeeze the fluids of seminal vesicles into the urethra, so don’t be surprised if the first time you try this kind of massage you’ll see thick drops of seminal fluid flow out from bull’s penis before you realize that you are touching just his seminal vesicles. When the first drops have spilled out, you can milk these two glands with more vigor. It requires only a few minutes since seminal vesicles can be drained, so you can obtain their milk more quickly than from the prostate gland. They should produce at least half of the seminal fluid contained in a natural ejaculation.
In a good session we can induce the bull to secrete at least one drop of Cowper gland’s fluid (precum), at least five drops of prostate fluid, which represent 10% of a normal ejaculation, and at least half of a normal ejaculation through the seminal vesicles massage. If we reckon all these numbers, we can milk about 60% of a normal ejaculation without triggering an orgasm.
And now begins the amusing part. Why have we avoided triggering an orgasm? This is THE FIRST TRICK of milking. Because doing so, our bull is not satisfied, and is still eager for the final pleasure. Someone might think that this kind of manipulation has drained our male, and that an eventual ejaculation would be less powerful. This is definitely wrong. When we decide to drive him to his orgasm, his ejaculation will be more massive and intensive than ever. How is it possible?
This is quite simple, and I’ll try to explain it with a practical example, which can destroy some fanciful ideas, but which is helpful in understanding these complex mechanisms. As we have seen, when someone is aroused, his internal glands fill with their respective fluids. If you go to the bathroom to evacuate when you are aroused, during your evacuation the pressure of excrements against your sexual glands empties them almost totally, much more than a 60% discharge. This is a physical and natural phenomenon, which helps those who don’t have sexual intercourse to expel part of his semen. This doesn’t absolutely remove the sexual desire. If the man has not had an orgasm, his body will continue his eager work, and his genitals will be quickly filled again.
There is a key element we now have to consider and this is THE SECOND TRICK of a good milking session. The testicles haven’t released their sperm yet. They are still aroused and engorged, and they are the most important glands in male reproductive system. Our milking has totally deceived them; they have not perceived that the internal glands have been emptied, and they have never stopped their work. More sperm, more testosterone. They are directly linked with our brain and if they keep working, also the internal glands are induced to secrete their juices. So, only when an orgasm turns off the arousal of the testicles, our brain stops the work of the internal glands. This is a perfect trick.
At this time anyone can imagine how to go on. Perhaps our bull is a bit tired, but surely he has enjoyed the attentions he has received, and all this kind of stimulation has been very pleasurable for him. His penis demands attention. We can resume a short stimulation stage. This will help his glands to be filled again in a very few minutes. Probably his testicles grow further, and this is just what we want.
In a very few minutes, we can start a second milking stage. Your fingers will find his glands in an identical condition to the first time. Probably his anus is now more relaxed and accessible, its internal walls a bit more dilated. His internal organs seem more open to be palpated. We can go on just like the first time. Thus, 60% + 60% = 120% of a normal ejaculation, and our bull hasn’t had the final orgasm yet. So, with only two milking stages plus the final release, we could collect around 220% of a normal ejaculation. But is it enough?
I think that the very first time you try this method, it could be enough, and you could be satisfied with two milking stages. But in a milking session I would consider as complete, there should be at least five milking stages, corresponding to a quantity of about four times a normal ejaculation. There surely can be more, but it all depends on your bull, on his age (23-38 years old are full-grown and sexually strong), on the period of time he do not ejaculate, on the size of his testicle and inner glands, on his alimentary habits, and so on. A good sign indicating when to stop comes from his balls. During all the milking session they have certainly grown very much. They have become very sensitive and are key part - more than we might expect - in the stimulation-production process. Their continuous work has forced your bull’s genitals to produce probably more than ever. When they are swollen, my advice is to avail yourself of the opportunity to milk it. More sperm, more testosterone - we said - more fluids to milk. But when testicles become aching and testosterone makes your bull more aggressive, he demands the final release which will satisfy his penis and testicles.
I don’t have any advice. You’ll know better than me, at that point, how to drive him towards the final release.
For the inexperienced there are some warning signs that the man’s penis is about to ejaculate. There is a good description:
“The testicles will tighten significantly just before ejaculation (about 5-10 seconds). The shaft of the penis will suddenly become stiff and rigid, more so than throughout your ministrations (about the last 2-3 seconds). The head of the penis will suddenly engorge with blood, swell largely and the penis shaft will feel like its gone rigid and is straining against itself (which it is) (approximately 1-2 seconds).
The last and final clue is that you will feel the cum-tube or center ridge on the underside of his penis shaft suddenly pulse. It will give one (empty of sperm) pulse, followed a fraction of a second later by a second and then subsequent pulses. The first pulse generally does not ejaculate semen; the second and subsequent pulses most assuredly do ejaculate semen and a majority of the semen is ejaculated during the first three contractions (½ -1 seconds). The remaining contractions and pulses of semen will diminish in volume.
- First contraction/pulse: usually devoid of sperm (empty pulse);
- Second contraction/pulse: contains sperm (approximately 1/8th of the total volume);
- Third and fourth contractions/pulses: contain sperm (approximately 1/3 of the total volume), this is the heaviest flow of semen during the ejaculation;
- Fifth, sixth, seventh and eighth contractions/pulses: contain sperm (approximately ½ of the total volume);
- Ninth and subsequent contractions/pulses: may or may not contain sperm and are sometimes referred to as ‘after waves’ or the penis attempting to continue to ejaculate sperm when little or none remains.”
Have you enjoyed your bull? Has he produced big quantities of his precious semen? Yes? Have you the faintest idea of how many sons could he conceive with the small glass of the male milk you have milked from him and which is now in your hand? Yes. The male has all this power.
Your bull is now surely tired. But your stimulation process has turned him on for such a long time, that he could ejaculate again. If this is the case, let him ejaculate another time. Naturally. He needs it. The orgasm reflex is a bit slower the second time. This makes its feelings stronger. He cannot miss it. He offers you the possibility of collecting another messy load.
Your bull is now soft. If you play with his penis, it scarcely responds to your wise touch. Take a penis vibrator. Use it on its shaft, hard or soft, until you feel his orgasm contractions. Stop the vibrator and see the spurt of his fresh milk. Feel his pleasure contractions subside in your hand.
Does anyone get turned on by fantasising about being milked with other guys, in simulated cum 'farm' situation. I get so turned on with the idea of getting kept, and milked with a bunch of other naked guys. Similarly, I love to cruise the galleries here and pick out guys who look suitable for milking, and imagine them all in the same barn lining up to have their cocks drained.
IT'S A DELICIOUS FANTASY that i would live in the reality!!!it's a natural pulsion for a male to pump out his sperm daily,and THE MILKING TECHNIQUE i think IS THE BEST WAY TO REDUCE SEXUAL TENSION,IT'S A SEXUAL ENJOYMENT!!!!Ideally the milking must be done gently and slowly to allow the guy to go slow slow to the point of no return and orgasm,to allow him have the time to full his balls and then shoot his load until he is totally drained and empted!!!
MILKING MUST BE DONE DAILY AND OFTEN,also because it prevents cancer of prostate and when you have done you feel a rush of adrenaline due to the orgasm and you feel in paradise,i live near a farm where there are some cows and i had many times this fantasy about be milked by another male guy and then i milk him!!!
Selection is very severe as Martians know they will have a chance to suck cock on earth only in the gay world and when they actually look beautiful. So, they only kidnap the most beautiful exemplars with huge cocks and heavy balls. At a certain point Martians become aware they will only be able to succesfully mix up with humans if they can adapt the human male. So, they start to genetically manipulate human males so that they have the same sperm needs as themselves having to suck cock every hour.
Through radiation they give absolute vagina quality to the male mouth and program men to have to suck cock or drink sperm every hour. Sperm and cock of other men become vital for every man. Guys aren't fighting each other any more because of their acute awareness their survival is in the lap of their brothers. World peace. Guys are completely dependent of each other for their survival. Everywhere (churches, institutuions, schools, shops,....) you find huge fellatoriums. Enormous milking farms are everywhere to provide men who cann't go to fellatoriums or have to breed (for breeding you need to drink more sperm of other guys as a consequence of the genetical manipulation) with the vital sperm amounts.
It seems that the men who tell hazing stories like to be fairly elaborate to insure accuracy. I am going to share this one with you, but abbreviated.
Then, standing there naked, the pledges were lubed up by the older fraternity brothers one-on-one and when the pledge was erect, the milking device was inserted over his penis as if it were the teat of a cow. The fellow writing added that as he felt the sucking action, he noted that he had automatically stood in a thrust position. He looked around at the other pledges and they also were in a sexual position. The sorority sisters on the viewing platform were playing with their genitalia. It wasn't long before all the pledges were cumming into the clear plastic tubing and receiving great cheers.
You just cant imagine how many times I have fantasized about having myself milked. It is so erotic to have another guy jack you and having to shoot your load with no control over it. I have been in cow milking barns and have been tempted to take a milker and put in on myself. Damn that must be hot!
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The Japanese artist Akari made a series about Martians kidnapping humans, milking the men and artificially inseminating the women after some selection. Akari totally lacks imagination. Artificial insemination is as old as universe. What he should have made, is a series about Martians kidnapping men to milk their sperm because Martians look like real men for 1 hour after they drink one human sperm load. As they want to invade the planet "Earth" and to mix up unnoticed with people, they are in very bad need for human sperm. They open very huge milking farms where the kidnapped guys are fiercely milked without any mercy.
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It occurred in the late 1950s or early 1960s at a college in Texas and it was an agricultural fraternity. (It seems common, as I understand it, if the pledges are female for a sorority, they wear their panties and bras and NOBODY touches them. But the male pledges for fraternities are eventually nude in front of everybody.) Anyway, the college had a barn where the cows were milked with the latest automated equipment. The viewing platform held the sorority sisters, but the male pledges were taken to the milking machines. The theme of the evening was domination and the dominitrix wore spiked heels, black clothing, had a whip, etc. to carry out the theme. She told the boys that she expected them to fill up the milk container.
"My summer job on the farm gets a lot more interesting :
".....It's a warm summer morning and I quickly work up a sweat, pausing in the cool interior of the barn to remove my shirt before heading back across the pasture for the last of the machines. As I near the main barn, I hear the soft lowing of the cows and the whirring of the machinery. Farmer McKinley is trying out his new system. He's got a dozen cows lined up in individual slots as he moves down the row, attaching the suction devices to their teats. I wonder what that feels like. It doesn't seem to bother them any. I grab the last of the old machines and head out. Back in the old barn, I place the milk machine with the others and sit down on a bale of straw to take a break.
Farmer McKinley will be busy with the cows for a while and won't miss me if I take a moment to relieve some adolescent tension. I unzip my jeans and spit in my hand, quickly stroking my cock to its full length. As I jerk myself, my gaze strays to the row of old machines against the wall and I'm suddenly struck by an idea that makes my cock twitch and start leaking precum.
I dig around in the back room until I find the extra tubes of lubricant the farmer uses to artificially inseminate the cows. I slather it on my cock, then pull one of the old milking machines into the center of the room and start the sucker up (pun intended). Not sure what to expect, I touch the opening of one of the four suction devices to the tip of my cock and gasp as it slurps it up, the rhythmic sucking drawing my entire cock into the cylinder. It sucks and sucks and sucks, and my shaking legs can't hold me up anymore. I sink to my knees and drop forward onto all fours, my hips thrusting, back arching, cock swinging as I cum, the machine slurping up my cream and spitting it into the collection tank. The machine keeps sucking, pulling at my sensitive cockhead, a sensation so intense it's almost painful.I'm panting, moaning helplessly, my whole body quivering as I reach down and grab the suction device, trying to pull it off, but I might as well be trying to pull my cock off instead. It won't budge. I shudder, moaning helplessly as I cum again, the greedy machine sucking up every drop and still hungry for more. I feel dizzy, unable to catch my breath. It was incredible experience, I've never enjoyed like that."
"To milk your partner’s prostate, insert a finger or more inside his anus. Feel for the prostate, a raised area at least one inch inside the anus which is about the size of a large walnut. Massage it gently but firmly, starting slowly before increasing the intensity.
The orgasm achieved through milking is commonly known as a prostate orgasm. This orgasm is said to be more intense and more pleasurable. The man may feel like he needs to urinate before this orgasm, even if his bladder is empty. It’s best to empty the bladder before milking to help the man relax.
It can be difficult for some men to accept something entering their anuses. Starting with a genital massage of the penis, testicles, and perineum can help these men relax and make the process feel less clinical. You may also incorporate milking with a hand job to increase his pleasure.
While milking is most commonly enjoyed for sexual pleasure, it can also help improve prostate health. Some man find milking is a good natural substitute for taking pharmaceutical drugs.
While milking can be pleasurable and beneficial for the prostate, it’s important for the person milking to remember the organs and tissues being massaged are very sensitive. Never milk your partner’s prostate when your nails are long to ensure you don’t damage the skin inside the rectum. Hands should also be kept clean. Sterile latex gloves may be worn. Some water-based lubricant can make milking easier and more pleasurable. Alternatively, a milking device or sex toy can be used to milk the prostate".
Am I Normal? Normal Semen Volume: The Low Down on Your Load
Life isn’t a porno. Busty cheerleaders rarely order a sausage pizza, and when they do, the night doesn’t end in a rampant orgy with the delivery guy. This also means that the average joe rarely releases the explosive, enormous amounts of semen that porn tends to portray. So what’s the normal semen volume?
The average amount of semen that a guy releases may surprise you. According to World Health Organization (WHO) standards, the average amount of semen that a guy produces per ejaculation is a paltry 2.5 ml (for you ‘Mericans out there, that’s around half a teaspoon).
The scale of what qualifies as a normal amount? Between 1.5 ml (about 1/3 of a teaspoon) to 6.8 ml (roughly half a tablespoon). If you’re below 1.5 ml per ejaculation, there are several possible causes, including:
- Frequent Sex: There’s only so much semen that your body can produce. If you’ve been ejaculating frequently (daily or more), chances are your natural stores are running pretty low, causing a lower volume.
- Vitamin Deficiencies: How you fuel your body can affect performance on a lot of fronts, especially your reproductive system. If you’re not getting enough selenium (found mostly in nuts, seeds, beans, and fish) and zinc (found mostly in beef, poultry and lentils), your semen volume could be suffering. For foods that can boost your semen volume and quality, check out our list of the Top 12 Fertility Superfoods.
- Obesity : Those extra pounds could be lowering your semen volume. Obesity (a BMI of 30.0 or above. Read our article on BMI and Male Fertility for more information.
- Low T : Hormonal levels are what drives the majority of sexual function. Testosterone is the fuel that helps semen production. If T levels are too low, less semen is produced. Symptoms of low T include fatigue, weight gain, and a loss of sex drive.
- Retrograde Ejaculation : Also known as a dry orgasm, retrograde ejaculation is a condition in which no semen is released during ejaculation. Instead of semen traveling out of the urethra upon orgasm, it’s shot back up the urethra and into the bladder.
Q: I’ve always [believed that my] ejaculation and my semen volume has always seemed small. I’m wondering if. . . . there is anything that I can do. Thank you for the information.
A: Thanks for your great question. I have to ask To what are you comparing your amount of ejaculate? What makes it seem as though it’s not very much? If you are comparing yourself to what you see in porn, you better stop right there and think again. Too many people compare themselves to porn and somehow it doesn’t sink in that IT’S A MOVIE and some aspects of it are FAKE. A mixture of cornstarch and water to simulate semen can even be used to heighten the effect, especially for shots to the face. And remember, that in a movie, a shot can be edited anyway you like – made to look like it’s lasting longer or whatever.
How much semen is in an ejaculation?
Most people have difficulty judging the exact volume of their ejaculate, especially when it’s spread out or partly soaked up in a napkin or tissue. On average, guys ejaculate about 1 teaspoon-worth of semen in one ejaculation about 5 mL which is not a large amount. The amount (volume) of ejaculate will be a little more if it’s been awhile since you ejaculated and less if you ejaculated recently.
How does arousal affect the amount of ejaculation?
A man’s body is constantly producing sperm and storing it up for ejaculation. This gets mixed with fluid produced by the seminal vesicles and prostate. Apart from frequency of ejaculation, the amount of time spent in sexual activity and the amount of arousal can also affect the volume of ejaculate. The longer the build-up, arousal, and direct stimulation prior to ejaculation, the more volume of fluid can be produced to mix with sperm for ejaculation. Some men also have noticed that this increase in ejaculate volume with longer stimulation also produces a waterier semen because of the increased fluid to sperm ratio.
You can improve your ejaculation.
So it stands to reason that if you are dehydrated, your volume will probably be less. Other factors that affect it are getting proper amounts of zinc in your diet, getting good sleep, stress levels and your frequency of ejaculation. Genetic factors and age also play a part, but those are not under your control. Strengthening your PC muscles can produce stronger contractions on orgasm and help push out more fluid.
