Isn't the bottom always in control?
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What is body piercing? What is "C&B" play, or "genitorture"?
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Location Fantasy: Bathroom
Another location that induces a lot of fantasies (if not actual “practices”) id the Bathroom. This is probably due to two main reasons, first of all the association with nudity, which is often normal in a bathroom. And second because of the association with water, an element capable of enhancing sexual stimulation.
We’re of course considering here only a home bath-room, not a public toilet to which we’ll dedicate some more attention in a different post.
So the idea of performing the sexual act under the shower or in the bath-tub is something that affects the dreams of many people. So here are a couple of suggestions you should take into consideration when practicing sex in the Bath-room.
The shower can be a much more dynamic contest to experience sexual pleasure. All main activities (oral sex, rimming, anal-sex) can be performed, with the only limitation that most of the sex needs to be “standing”. So perfect positions for this are The Kneeling Position for blowjob. One point of attention regarding oral sex in the shower is the flowing water. Which may interfere with the normal breathing. Something that, in some cases, can increase the pleasure of it, but take care! For what concerns anal sex Standing Positions are the most obvious. Shower also calls for some more “fun” actions, like pissing and freedom to cum wherever you want, since water will help the cleaning rpocess.
For what concerns the Bath-tub it very much depends from its size. One of the best options in this case, talking of anal sex, is to use the Sleeper Position which is perfect to underline the relaxation atmosphere of the bathtub itself, and is the best to avoid the dangers of the slippery environment.
In any case, have loads of fun!
So are you ready to start practicing?
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We’re of course considering here only a home bath-room, not a public toilet to which we’ll dedicate some more attention in a different post.
So the idea of performing the sexual act under the shower or in the bath-tub is something that affects the dreams of many people. So here are a couple of suggestions you should take into consideration when practicing sex in the Bath-room.
- Slippery Floor make sure you pay attention to the fact that the floor gets slippery quite easily if you’re not careful enough. This of course depends from the floor quality and type.
- Water is a “bad” lube. If you’ve ever tried fucking under the shower or in the bath-tub you’ve probably noticed that water actually creates more problems than solving them. As such it is a quite bad lube, so if you intend to practice anal sex in the shower, make sure you bring along some lube in any case. Using a shampoo or a shower gel could be a bad idea, because it can irritate the anus internally.
- Don’t “pump” it in. Another thing to take care is not to pump water inside your partner anus. Especially if you are in the bath-tub this could happen. The issue is that water (especially if warm) can create some intestine troubles if pushed inside. So make sure you don’t get out completely from his anus.
The shower can be a much more dynamic contest to experience sexual pleasure. All main activities (oral sex, rimming, anal-sex) can be performed, with the only limitation that most of the sex needs to be “standing”. So perfect positions for this are The Kneeling Position for blowjob. One point of attention regarding oral sex in the shower is the flowing water. Which may interfere with the normal breathing. Something that, in some cases, can increase the pleasure of it, but take care! For what concerns anal sex Standing Positions are the most obvious. Shower also calls for some more “fun” actions, like pissing and freedom to cum wherever you want, since water will help the cleaning rpocess.
For what concerns the Bath-tub it very much depends from its size. One of the best options in this case, talking of anal sex, is to use the Sleeper Position which is perfect to underline the relaxation atmosphere of the bathtub itself, and is the best to avoid the dangers of the slippery environment.
In any case, have loads of fun!
So are you ready to start practicing?
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Edging example
A skilled edger will use this method to stay near the cresting point for a long time.
This is sometimes referred to as dick surfing. Of course, as he nears the cresting point, the best way to avoid going past the point of no-return is to avoid all contacts as you can see later (1:27). The edger’s goal is to find the appropriate level of stimulation to stay in the pre-orgasmic zone without going over nor losing it.
Even if he stays in control, the yearning to ejaculate will swell over time to a point where the edger’s mind will be consumed by this intent. His erection will be supreme. The pressure at his cock’s base will be unbearable. Orgasm will grow to be an obsession and everything else will become irrelevant.
At this moment, the edger morphs into a resolute masturbator (1:43) and nothing can stop him from spilling his seeds (1:46) ! Bliss.
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Is it true that excessive masturbation can cause you to have less pleasure from sex?
Finding it hard to cum from penetrative sex and E.D. problems etc ?
No, it isn’t.
What is true is that certain masturbation techniques can numb the penis to a point that the stimulation provided by penetrative sex will appear insufficient. This is particularly true for circumcised men used to masturbate using an aggressive choke the chicken grip (a tight grip around the cock head) to compensate for their penis relative insensitivity. While this is the most common cause, other unusual masturbation habits such as hitting or squeezing hard to obtain an ejaculation do change the brain’s expectations as to what is needed to achieve orgasm. To a point where the brain eventually asks for this kind of treatment to trigger the orgasmic response.
The good news is that this learned response can be reversed. First, of course, by avoiding from then on the problematic mannerism. Then by adopting new masturbation methods that will allow penetrative sex to be enjoyable again. Masturbation sleeves are particularly good for this reeducation, since they offer strong penile stimulation all the while requiring the penetrative back and forth move to work their magic. Hence, the distressed man can relearn the typical stimulation pattern of penetrative sex while still achieving orgasm. After a few weeks or months (depending on the seriousness of the problem), a high percentage will report a much more enjoyable sexual experience if not complete recovery.
You will notice that the treatment involves masturbation… a further proof that masturbation — as a habit in itself — is not problematic at all.
As for erectile dysfunction… Of course, we only consider psychogenic erectile dysfunction in this case. And here too, masturbation in itself is not the cause. If a man has a hard time having an erection with someone but not when masturbating, this man definitely needs some psychological consultation (psychologist, sexologist) to explore why he is experiencing this mental block in intimate situations. There is either a fear or a painful memory at play. His ability to masturbate only serves as a proof that his problem is not physical but psychological.
Masturbation in and by itself cannot cause someone to have less pleasure from sex. All the contrary : by allowing an individual to explore his sensuality and discover his sensitivities, masturbation actually enhances the quality of future sexual encounters. However, some bad masturbation habits can be detrimental, and these bad habits should of course be avoided.
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No, it isn’t.
What is true is that certain masturbation techniques can numb the penis to a point that the stimulation provided by penetrative sex will appear insufficient. This is particularly true for circumcised men used to masturbate using an aggressive choke the chicken grip (a tight grip around the cock head) to compensate for their penis relative insensitivity. While this is the most common cause, other unusual masturbation habits such as hitting or squeezing hard to obtain an ejaculation do change the brain’s expectations as to what is needed to achieve orgasm. To a point where the brain eventually asks for this kind of treatment to trigger the orgasmic response.
The good news is that this learned response can be reversed. First, of course, by avoiding from then on the problematic mannerism. Then by adopting new masturbation methods that will allow penetrative sex to be enjoyable again. Masturbation sleeves are particularly good for this reeducation, since they offer strong penile stimulation all the while requiring the penetrative back and forth move to work their magic. Hence, the distressed man can relearn the typical stimulation pattern of penetrative sex while still achieving orgasm. After a few weeks or months (depending on the seriousness of the problem), a high percentage will report a much more enjoyable sexual experience if not complete recovery.
You will notice that the treatment involves masturbation… a further proof that masturbation — as a habit in itself — is not problematic at all.
As for erectile dysfunction… Of course, we only consider psychogenic erectile dysfunction in this case. And here too, masturbation in itself is not the cause. If a man has a hard time having an erection with someone but not when masturbating, this man definitely needs some psychological consultation (psychologist, sexologist) to explore why he is experiencing this mental block in intimate situations. There is either a fear or a painful memory at play. His ability to masturbate only serves as a proof that his problem is not physical but psychological.
Masturbation in and by itself cannot cause someone to have less pleasure from sex. All the contrary : by allowing an individual to explore his sensuality and discover his sensitivities, masturbation actually enhances the quality of future sexual encounters. However, some bad masturbation habits can be detrimental, and these bad habits should of course be avoided.
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Upward Squeeze Masturbation Method
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Boxer Shorts Rub Masturbation
DIFFICULTY = Easy
LUBRICATION = No
In this technique, rub the penis with your knuckle through the fabric of a comfortable pair of boxer shorts or other underwear.
You can also get a better grip on the testicles with the other hand by using this method. As a variation, try
it with a thicker fabric such as denim or jeans. This can prolong the intensity before orgasm.
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Briefs Rubbing
Put your penis through one leg opening of a pair of unworn jockey shorts. Grasp your penis masturbate. The feel of the shorts brushing against your balls as you stroke will enhance your session. I like to kneel when I do this because you get better contact with the material.
Tight Swimming Trunks
When clearing out a cuboard the other day, I came across a pair of old my old swimming trunks. Having done it in briefs and with a penis ring (both of which felt really good) I decided to do the two techniques together. I cut a slit in the front of the trunks and put them on. It was amazing! The tightness of the trunks on my balls gave an excellent sensation when I orgasmed.
I regularly use a variation of the boxer shorts technique [pictured above]. I adore wearing silk directoire knickers and the feel of this wonderfully soft material alone stimulates an erection. I can wear just a shirt and my knickers whilst alone at home and am able to maintain an erection lying down, sitting in a chair or standing up. I try to delay ejaculating for as long as I can but nature eventually takes over and I savour the sheer ecstacy of an orgasm. I keep my knickers on and enjoy the wet feeling on my tummy.
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Interlocking Grip Masturbation Method
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The 6 Secrets of Gay Anal Sex
Know how the anus works.
Before having anal sex, let’s talk about how the anus works. The anus is the opening at the end of the colon which controls the passage of waste. Waste passes through the small intestines to your colon, then your rectum and finally out the anus. The opening and closing of the anus is controlled by the internal and external sphincter muscles (the most important muscles when engaging in anal sex). The sphincter muscle is a sensitive membrane with many nerve endings and thus the source of pleasure or pain.
Reduce the pain.
Pain associated with anal sex can be due to pressure or friction against the sphincter muscles, hemorrhoids or anal fissures. Some pain can be reduced by properly lubricating. Seek a gay-friendly doctor for assistance with hemorrhoids, fissures or other medical conditions.
Get to know your body.
The more familiar you are with your body, the more enjoyable anal sex can be. Each person’s sphincter muscles react to penetration differently. Since the muscles control the opening and closing of the anus, you need to learn how yours works. Spend time safely exploring the sensitivity of your sphincter and how it reacts when you are relaxed or tense. Practice relaxation techniques such as deep breathing. Use a small sex toy, then gradually increase the size. Exploring the sensitivity of your sphincter is an exercise both you and your partner can enjoy prior to penetration. Openly communicate how you feel in certain situations: What makes you tense? What are your limits? Stop if you feel uncomfortable, experience pain or bleeding. The more you both know about your bodies, the better your anal sex experience.
Practice good hygiene.
Many gay men shy away from anal sex because of the possible hygiene problems. Maintaining proper hygiene is not only important for an enjoyable anal sex experience, but your health as well. Cleaning can be overdone, however. Be careful with over the counter internal cleansing products. They contain harsh ingredients not formulated for the anus. Also, avoid over wiping as this can cause irritation and bleeding. Baby wipes also contain perfumes that can irritate the skin. To properly clean, use premoistened adult wipes, like Charmin Fresh Mates or Kleenex Cottonelle Flushable Wipes.
Beware of the dangers of STD’s.
The anus is a thin membrane and therefore a hot bed for sexually transmitted diseases.HIV and other STD's can easily enter the bloodstream, especially when there are abrasions or tears in the anus. Having a thin membrane between your bloodstream and your partner’s bodily fluids is what makes bareback sex so dangerous. Always use a condom and practice safer sex.
Many gay men avoid seeking medical attention because they feel if they’ve had anal sex the doctor can immediately tell. Yes, the anus is stretched after anal sex, but it returns to normal soon after. If you think something may be wrong with your anus, see a gay-affirmative doctor.
Before having anal sex, let’s talk about how the anus works. The anus is the opening at the end of the colon which controls the passage of waste. Waste passes through the small intestines to your colon, then your rectum and finally out the anus. The opening and closing of the anus is controlled by the internal and external sphincter muscles (the most important muscles when engaging in anal sex). The sphincter muscle is a sensitive membrane with many nerve endings and thus the source of pleasure or pain.
Reduce the pain.
Pain associated with anal sex can be due to pressure or friction against the sphincter muscles, hemorrhoids or anal fissures. Some pain can be reduced by properly lubricating. Seek a gay-friendly doctor for assistance with hemorrhoids, fissures or other medical conditions.
Get to know your body.
The more familiar you are with your body, the more enjoyable anal sex can be. Each person’s sphincter muscles react to penetration differently. Since the muscles control the opening and closing of the anus, you need to learn how yours works. Spend time safely exploring the sensitivity of your sphincter and how it reacts when you are relaxed or tense. Practice relaxation techniques such as deep breathing. Use a small sex toy, then gradually increase the size. Exploring the sensitivity of your sphincter is an exercise both you and your partner can enjoy prior to penetration. Openly communicate how you feel in certain situations: What makes you tense? What are your limits? Stop if you feel uncomfortable, experience pain or bleeding. The more you both know about your bodies, the better your anal sex experience.
Practice good hygiene.
Many gay men shy away from anal sex because of the possible hygiene problems. Maintaining proper hygiene is not only important for an enjoyable anal sex experience, but your health as well. Cleaning can be overdone, however. Be careful with over the counter internal cleansing products. They contain harsh ingredients not formulated for the anus. Also, avoid over wiping as this can cause irritation and bleeding. Baby wipes also contain perfumes that can irritate the skin. To properly clean, use premoistened adult wipes, like Charmin Fresh Mates or Kleenex Cottonelle Flushable Wipes.
Beware of the dangers of STD’s.
The anus is a thin membrane and therefore a hot bed for sexually transmitted diseases.HIV and other STD's can easily enter the bloodstream, especially when there are abrasions or tears in the anus. Having a thin membrane between your bloodstream and your partner’s bodily fluids is what makes bareback sex so dangerous. Always use a condom and practice safer sex.
Many gay men avoid seeking medical attention because they feel if they’ve had anal sex the doctor can immediately tell. Yes, the anus is stretched after anal sex, but it returns to normal soon after. If you think something may be wrong with your anus, see a gay-affirmative doctor.
What happends if Im masturbaring but I don't shoot my load?
The posterior urethra is the assembly room where the various glands contributing to the semen’s content empty themselves and get mixed together as arousal increases, thereby creating the whitish semi-gelatinous liquid known as semen. When the body readies itself for ejaculation, the bulbocavernosus muscles contract, increasing the pressure in this chamber (you can feel this if you keep your fingers on the perineum as you masturbate). When the chamber is sufficiently pressurized, the sphincter between this posterior urethra and the penile urethra opens, while the bulbocavernosus muscles contract rhythmically : you are ejaculating !
As you noticed, as the point of no-return is reached but before the ejaculation itself begins, pressing firmly on the perineum immediately behind the scrotal sac will pinch the base of the penile urethra, manually squeezing the sphincter and preventing its opening. This, in turns blocks the expulsion of semen. Pressure should be maintained for as long as you experience orgasmic contractions, at least, if not a little longer to allow the pressure inside the posterior urethra to subside.
I understand you know all this since this is what you are doing already, but this intro was to put others to speed if they needed to be. So, now on to your questions :
a) Is there any damage to my cock or health problem doing this ?
Semen in itself is non toxic : what hasn’t been expelled during ejaculation will be recycled and reused or washed out with urine. Metabolically, there are no health problem to be developed from not ejaculating. In other words, you won’t get diabetes, hypertension, cholesterol or liver problems because of this.
This perineal push technique is not anatomically healthy however : it should be considered as a last resort method when you feel you’ve lost control while edging. It should not be your main method to prevent ejaculation : instead, you should learn to better identify your point of no-return and stop masturbating (or at least slow down) to allow your arousal to wane a little.
Aside from the fact that you may experience some pain in the testicles and around the anus, damage may be caused with frequent use of this technique over time to the ejaculation-related parts of body including the ejaculatory ducts and vas deferens as a result of over pressurization. Using this method repeatedly will also lead to retrograde ejaculations as the urethral sphincter muscle will weaken over time as a result of being exposed to higher pressure than what it was designed for. As for your penis, since it is after the sphincter, it cannot be affected by this. Let me insist on the fact that using this method once in a while will never be a problem. The problem is using it too often.
Retrograde ejaculation may not appear to be a huge problem initially : why should you bother if your semen goes into your bladder ? As I said earlier, semen is non toxic, so your bladder won’t suffer from this. What’s annoying with retrograde ejaculation is that when time comes for you to ejaculate for real, your cumshot will be much smaller as a proportion of your payload will be simultaneously ejaculated into your bladder. This may lead to fertility problem… as well as impact on the quality of the show !
Note however, that all this is true only when you press the base of your penis behind your balls to stop the shooting. I you instead choose to simply stop to masturbate altogether and not ejaculate at all, then there will be no over pressurization (as this happens because you willfully prevent the opening of the sphincter). If you simply stop masturbating, then whatever semen was prepared will simply sit there, in the posterior urethra. And as I said earlier, semen is non toxic and non dangerous in itself, so nothing bad is to be expected… except maybe that you may feel cranky and frustrated !
b) Where does the cum go if I don’t shoot ?
You probably got it by now : semen is non toxic ! What hasn’t been expelled by ejaculation will be recycled and reused or washed out with urine.
You will notice, the first time you pee after you’ve ejaculated (or not), that your urine is foamier. If you haven’t ejaculated at all, it may also be a bit cloudy also : that’s the unused semen being washed out. The foaminess of urine is caused by the high protein content… in this case from the semen.
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As you noticed, as the point of no-return is reached but before the ejaculation itself begins, pressing firmly on the perineum immediately behind the scrotal sac will pinch the base of the penile urethra, manually squeezing the sphincter and preventing its opening. This, in turns blocks the expulsion of semen. Pressure should be maintained for as long as you experience orgasmic contractions, at least, if not a little longer to allow the pressure inside the posterior urethra to subside.
I understand you know all this since this is what you are doing already, but this intro was to put others to speed if they needed to be. So, now on to your questions :
a) Is there any damage to my cock or health problem doing this ?
Semen in itself is non toxic : what hasn’t been expelled during ejaculation will be recycled and reused or washed out with urine. Metabolically, there are no health problem to be developed from not ejaculating. In other words, you won’t get diabetes, hypertension, cholesterol or liver problems because of this.
This perineal push technique is not anatomically healthy however : it should be considered as a last resort method when you feel you’ve lost control while edging. It should not be your main method to prevent ejaculation : instead, you should learn to better identify your point of no-return and stop masturbating (or at least slow down) to allow your arousal to wane a little.
Aside from the fact that you may experience some pain in the testicles and around the anus, damage may be caused with frequent use of this technique over time to the ejaculation-related parts of body including the ejaculatory ducts and vas deferens as a result of over pressurization. Using this method repeatedly will also lead to retrograde ejaculations as the urethral sphincter muscle will weaken over time as a result of being exposed to higher pressure than what it was designed for. As for your penis, since it is after the sphincter, it cannot be affected by this. Let me insist on the fact that using this method once in a while will never be a problem. The problem is using it too often.
Retrograde ejaculation may not appear to be a huge problem initially : why should you bother if your semen goes into your bladder ? As I said earlier, semen is non toxic, so your bladder won’t suffer from this. What’s annoying with retrograde ejaculation is that when time comes for you to ejaculate for real, your cumshot will be much smaller as a proportion of your payload will be simultaneously ejaculated into your bladder. This may lead to fertility problem… as well as impact on the quality of the show !
Note however, that all this is true only when you press the base of your penis behind your balls to stop the shooting. I you instead choose to simply stop to masturbate altogether and not ejaculate at all, then there will be no over pressurization (as this happens because you willfully prevent the opening of the sphincter). If you simply stop masturbating, then whatever semen was prepared will simply sit there, in the posterior urethra. And as I said earlier, semen is non toxic and non dangerous in itself, so nothing bad is to be expected… except maybe that you may feel cranky and frustrated !
b) Where does the cum go if I don’t shoot ?
You probably got it by now : semen is non toxic ! What hasn’t been expelled by ejaculation will be recycled and reused or washed out with urine.
You will notice, the first time you pee after you’ve ejaculated (or not), that your urine is foamier. If you haven’t ejaculated at all, it may also be a bit cloudy also : that’s the unused semen being washed out. The foaminess of urine is caused by the high protein content… in this case from the semen.
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Male Edging Ideas That Make You Last Longer Sexually
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I want to throw a play BDSM party; how can I go about it?
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