Though there is nothing wrong with any technique that brings you to orgasm, the manner of how you masturbate can sometimes inhibit or limit the pleasure that you experience with your male partner.
For many men, masturbation is a form of rapid sexual relief, and some gays use very rough techniques to make themselves orgasm. Sex with a male partner fails to provide such vigorous stimulation, either through masturbation, sucking or penetration. This can make it harder for a man to maintain his and his partners? erection to achieve fun-filled orgasms.
Masturbation offers a way of learning about different types and paces of stimulation. Taking the time to experiment with new techniques will help you discover new ways to enjoy yourself and ultimately help you to sustain your erection, delay your ejaculation and to enjoy a more intense orgasm whether you go solo, partake in group sex or intimate m2m cock fun.
TECHNIQUES:
Exploration and variation:
When you feel aroused and are reaching for your erection, you can choose to either come quickly or take time out and pay some attention to the rest of your body. (Sometimes a quickie is all that is required.)
Try stroking your inner and upper arms, your armpits, the back of your neck and your nipples. Use the back and front of your fingers, stroke your inner thighs, starting just above your knees and moving up your scrotum, perineum and anus (male love-hole). Then finally, when you can?t stand it anymore, move to your throbbing hard cock. Experiment with your grip, making it tight or relaxed; use alternate hands or both hands together (if both hands can fit on the size of your erect cock) or reverse your grip. Vary the tempo of your stroke: speed it up or slow it down.
Forehand grip:
Wrap your fingers around the shaft of your throbbing hard cock with your thumb at the head. As your fist strokes your throbbing hard cock up and down, your thumb will stimulate its coronal ridge. Use some lubrication to avoid trauma to this sensitive area.
Alternatively try holding your throbbing hard cock as if you are holding a pen with your fingers stroking up and down the fraenulum.
Backhand grip:
This is the reverse of the forehand grip. Your thumb will now be underneath your throbbing hard cock and your fingers will be on its head. If you always masturbate with your right hand, try using a backhand grip with your left hand for a change to experience a different sensation.
Dummy hand:
Sit on your hand until it feels completely numb or chill in cold water. When you masturbate it will feel as if someone else (in your fantasy world) is doing you. A sniff of poppers also heighten the sensations during orgasm.
Twist:
Lubricate your hand well and make a fist around your rigid hard cock. Move slowly up the shaft until you reach its head. Now turn your hand over to form a backhand grip, keeping in contact with the head the whole time, and begin back down the shaft, using varying speeds for the best results.
Alternatively hold the head of your throbbing hard cock with your fingers and twist it gently, first to the left and then to the right ? as if you are opening and closing the lid of a jar.
Fist:
Anchor your throbbing hard cock with one hand and form a fist above it with the other. Push your throbbing hard cock into your static fist by using pelvic thrusts, penetrating it as far as you can to simulate the experience of [Pfffftttt] a nice willing male-[Pfffftttt]-hole. Use plenty of lubrication to avoid trauma to your hard throbbing wet cock.
Leg thrust:
Lie on your side, spread your legs and push your knees up close top your body. Leave one knee down and raise your other knee up, keeping your foot flat on the ground. Grip the head of your throbbing hard cock and hold it against your leg that is on the ground.
Now move your upright leg down towards your stationary leg and back up again. Your throbbing hard cock should slide slowly and gently in and out of your hand. The faster you move your leg the more quickly you will come to orgasm.
Rubbing:
Lie on your stomach in bed and rub your throbbing hard cock against the mattress. Place your throbbing hard cock in a fur lined glove or even a soft woollen sock. Alternatively put silk, cotton, satin or leather over the tip of your cock.
Hold your throbbing hard cock with one hand and put your other hand on top of the material. Rub the tip of your throbbing hard cock through the fabric against the palm of your hand. But take care not to cause abrasions!!!
Water:
Slowly trickle warm ? not hot ? water onto your throbbing hard cock while masturbating using the fist method. The contrast in temperature between the water and your throbbing hard cock can be very stimulating! Especially nice when performed early mornings under the shower and allow your morning piss to shoot out while wanking your throbbing hard cock.
Simultaneous stimulation of the balls, perineum and anus:
The scrotum and perineum can be massaged, rubbed and fondled while you masturbate at the same time.
Cup your balls gently in your hand and tug them. Try stroking and rubbing the area between your scrotum and your anus while you masturbate.
Lie on your side for comfortable access, lubricate your finger well and massage the area gently. If you want to stimulate your prostate gland as well, try using your thumb instead or even better ?
invest in a couple of butt plugs of varying sizes and colours!
Enjoy !!!!
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