Sexually Transmitted Diseases

Trichomoniasis

Trichomonas vaginalis was first discovered by a young Frenchman in 1838. Interestingly enough, he thought he had discovered the causative organism for gonorrhea, and the differentiation of the two organisms took another 50 years. Both are caused by organisms, gonorrhea by a gram negative intracellular diplococci, originally called Neisseria gonorrhea, and trichomonas by a protozoa.
Before antibiotic therapy developed, trichomoniasis was dramatically different from what it is today; patients sometimes came in with difficulty walking because the genital area was irritated, and the vaginal discharge was so profuse that it literally ran down their legs when they stood up. The discharge, when viewed with the aid of a vaginal speculum, was seen to be thick, frothy, and yellow-green, and it was extremely smelly.

The diagnosis for this particular infection is made by the physician on the spot, who does a microscopic test called a “wet mount,” using a slide with either saline or a stained laboratory vehicle for easier microscopic identification. The protozoa can be easily seen moving around on relatively low-power magnification of the microscope. There are occasional false-negative readouts, probably due to overwhelming activity by the body’s white blood cells, so that no actual trichomonal organisms can be seen during a test, but are visible at a later examination. This particular test usually gives an instant diagnosis.

The disease is easily treated using metronidazole. This particular drug has been used worldwide for over a quarter of a century. It has an inherent clinical safety record, never having caused death. When a woman who walks into the gynecologist’s office has a trichomoniasis diagnosis made and is given the proper medication, that medication is doubled in amount so as to include her sexual partner (or tripled if there is more than one sexual partner). The same procedure is followed for a man at the urologist’s office. The urologist writes a prescription not only for the man but also for the woman if she is not being seen by her physician.

Trichomoniasis is not a reportable disease. It is, however, a disease that can be fairly drug resistant, so in the United States the patient is asked to return to the office for a repeat test to make sure that the problem has been solved.

Chlamydia

Another common STD seen in the health care practitioner’s office is chlamydia trachomatis. Public health experts currently list this particular disease as the most common disease in the United States, with more than five million new cases discovered and treated each year. Until recently, it was not a reportable infection. One of the reasons it was not reportable is that many if not most physicians treat it on the basis of a sexual and social history, combined with the suspicious physical and microscopic findings. They do this because it is extremely difficult to obtain a good culture result (the cultures have a very high percentage of false-negative readouts). The CDCP and the U.S. Public Health Service have now asked that positive serologic tests for chlamydia be reported. Experts on this particular infection indicate such serologic tests are sometimes reported falsely as positive. This can cause legal problems for the patient and the physician.

The real problem with this obligate intracellular parasite is that it causes infertility in women. It is, however, easily treated. The use of tetracycline for seven to ten days by both partners will clear up this infection. If the tetracycline, a most inexpensive drug, causes severe stomach discomfort or other side effects, erythromycin or doxycycline will achieve the same result. However, chlamydia has a strong silent component to its clinical picture; it is often ignored or interpreted by the person who has acquired it as something else. Consequently, no physician is consulted or asked to run a confirmatory culture, and the infected individual unwittingly spreads the disease to others.

Because it is so common, its presence should always be considered, and, of course, the presence or absence of this particular infection is always considered in the many infertility clinics. Women who have the disease and are unaware of its presence may experience significant damage to the interior of the Fallopian tubes. Normal Fallopian tubes are necessary for fertilized-ovum transport. If that reproductive highway has been destroyed, the patient is rendered unable to have a fertilized egg move down her tubes and into her uterine cavity to begin a pregnancy.

Men with chlamydia may see a urethral discharge, so this infection is a common reason for their seeking medical advice. It is not now presently known whether most of the physicians in the United States who treat this problem of chlamydia discharge in men either double the medication and insist that the woman be also treated, or refer her elsewhere.

A variation (there are three variants of this particular infectious disease) is capable of producing blindness, since it causes a disease of the eyes called trachoma. The presence of chlamydia trachomatis is the most common cause of blindness throughout the world. The United States has several well-known research centers working on this disease. One is at the University of California at San Francisco, and the other is at Indiana University-Purdue University Medical Center in Indianapolis, Indiana.

Herpes

Another common sexually transmitted infection in the United States is herpes genitalis. In 1980, when herpes occurred in an epidemic form, its presence made the cover of Time magazine and the front page of the Wall Street Journal. It is a viral infection transmitted by sexual activity that causes blistering discomfort. Acyclovir is effective in suppressing the circulating activity of the herpes virus, decreasing the discomfort and making the individual less likely to transmit the infection to others.
It is almost uncivilized in the current era, with acyclovir available, to know that one has herpes and yet to deliberately not take the medication and hence infect others. It is an STD that has active states and inactive states, and the level of discomfort varies widely among individuals. Some men have only mild urinary complaints and do not know they have the disease until they accidentally infect a new female sex partner. The infected woman most often experiences flulike symptoms, has pain urinating, and is covered with blisters on her swollen genital area. The resultant discharge is frequently infected with other organisms and can be quite odoriferous.

If the individual is careless in personal habits and touches the areas of the genitals that are involved, then rubs his or her eyes, the disease can be transmitted to the eye, causing a severe form of conjunctivitis that produces blindness. The problem with the eyes can be arrested by using intravenous acyclovir, but it certainly requires the expert attention of an ophthalmologist just to save the eyesight. If one acquires this infection, soap-and-water hand washing and scrupulous attention to all the details of personal cleanliness are extremely important to confine the blisters and the disease activity to the original site.

The disease can produce mental problems or a severe headache, as well as the aforementioned generalized flulike picture. It is also capable of affecting the long nerves of the legs so as to produce sciatica plus a pain with bowel movements.

Herpes is seen in the office involving all ages and all kinds of health complaints and problems. Clinical diagnosis can be made quickly by anyone who has spent several years practicing medicine. Inexperienced nurses and physicians may, however, misdiagnose it as a chronic yeast infection. However, the obverse of this statement is also true: women with chronic yeast vulvar infections will present the clinical picture similar to a chronic deteriorating herpes infection. The test for herpes is a positive vaginal culture. The culture, however, is not 100 percent correct. It is perfectly possible to have herpes and have a negative culture. This can be a serious problem for the pregnant woman, because if the mother has an acute attack of herpes while she is in labor, the infant, who has no immunity to the disease, will acquire the herpes, and before the advent of intravenous acyclovir therapy most would die.

With acyclovir, herpes has come to be an annoying accompaniment to sexual activity, and its only serious problem now is the transmission of an active infection to a newborn infant. Herpes was originally proposed as the infection causing cancer of the cervix, but that has been demonstrated to be scientifically untrue. Herpes is not now believed to cause cancer.

Gardnerella

Another commonly acquired bacterial infection with a reputation for easy diagnosis (i.e., not requiring an expensive laboratory culture test) is gardnerella vaginalis. For many years, this infection was known as hemophilus vaginalis, but Eldon J. Gardner, a physician who spent his life observing, collecting data, and testing for this infection, was honored posthumously by having his name attached to the genus of bacterium involved. Gardner argued that this was an important reproductive tract organism although often overlooked by many practicing physicians and a real troublemaker for a newborn infant. He felt that it was a major cause of problems in the reproductive system and that it could be very easily diagnosed by well-trained physicians when alerted by the presence of a unique vaginal, fish-like odor.

Prior to the work of Gardner, physicians in positions of authority promoted the infection as a silent infection, or an organism that was thought to be a normal inhabitant of the vaginal vault. Such descriptions still exist and are extremely confusing to laypeople doing library research and to medical students and residents trying to figure out how a troublemaker could be normal. It is not a reportable infection. It is easy to treat using metronidazole (see trichomoniasis, above).

Group B. Beta Hemolytic Streptococcus

A very important infection, which also has the distinction of arising from a bed of disinformation labeled “normal vaginal flora” (and similar confusing clinical designations), is group B. Beta hemolytic streptococcus. The importance of this infection to Americans was worked out by the National Institutes of Health and the U.S. Public Health Service under the influence of Dorland J. Davis, an epidemiologist. In the early 1940s, the disease was observed as a cause of death in new-born infants at Harvard’s clinical facilities and at Johns Hopkins Hospital, in Baltimore, with the number of infant deaths attributed to it hovering around 40 a year. As the years went by and constant and progressive observation of the clinical phenomena occurred, it became obvious that the behavior of the organism was that of a sexually transmittable bacteria. Gradually, the number of deaths rose to between 3,000 and 4,000 a year, a number that, unfortunately, still prevails in spite of extensive literature and extensive publicity concerning its damaging effects on new-born children. Apparently, a major reason for the indifference to the presence of such a harmful disease was lack of a requirement to report the infection, a problem now remedied. It is a major cause of mental retardation, cerebral palsy, and deafness. Some of the confusion about the disease is because it is a common inhabitant of the prepuce in the uncircumcised male infant as well as the uncircumcised adult male, in whose foreskin it flourishes. The lack of circumcision frequently predisposes young boys to hospital stays for severe urinary tract and kidney infections.

The acquisition by the woman of unusual forms of group B. Beta hemolytic streptococcus, subdivided into categories by Roman numerals, does not occur until they become sexually active, unless unusual circumstances prevail. Since it can be an STD, both sexual partners, or more if there are other partners, must be treated for this organism simultaneously. The organism remains sensitive to penicillin products, and so far it has not developed the usual picture of antibiotic resistance. If the acquisition of the infection occurs at the end of the pregnancy, or if it has been acquired in a form that absolutely refuses to be cured by means of antibiotics, the woman in labor can be given intravenous ampicillin, and the presence of that medication at the time of labor prevents the child from acquiring the infection. Until very recently, the newborn who acquired the infection died as quickly as the infants who acquired herpes from their infected mothers. Fortunately, it has been recently discovered that attention to the hydration of the infant victim gives a greater chance of survival.

The disease itself can cause a localized vulvar skin infection that looks like psoriasis, cervicitis with an abnormal pap smear, or involvement of the Fallopian tubes, so that the victim will end up with ectopic pregnancies as well as urinary and kidney infections, especially in a pregnant woman. Recent work at Parkland Hospital, in Dallas, suggests that it is a major cause of stillbirths in the United States.

Syphilis

Syphilis first appeared in Europe following the return of Columbus from his voyages. There have been extensive arguments as to whether it was a New World disease that was then carried back to the people of Europe. The answer, of course, lies hidden from our view forever. Suffice it to say that an enormous epidemic of syphilis occurred shortly after Columbus’s voyage.

The disease was regarded as revolting because it caused huge bony exostoses that were hideous to look at. In the immediate past, syphilis was the major cause of stillbirth and a variety of congenital malformations. It is so highly infectious that doctors and nurses could get syphilis delivering a newborn baby from an infected mother. The baby itself was highly infectious. Syphilis remained a major medical and social problem until the development of Salvarsan by Paul Ehrlich and S. Hata in 1910. Salvarsan rendered the victim of syphilis noninfectious, but the treatment demanded weekly doses of the drug intramuscularly for at least six to eight weeks. The ability of people to comply with such a laborious regimen was a major problem. The other problem was that the laws of the United States would not allow open discussion of this overwhelming health problem. Finally, in 1936, the surgeon general of the United States, Thomas Parran, was allowed to use the word “syphilis” during a radio broadcast, and the push was on, with federal laws creating clinics and funding for discovery of infected partners.

With the arrival of penicillin 50 years ago and the discovery that it could cure syphilis, public health service interest in this particular disease began to fade. In the 1980s, however, it was realized that individuals who suffer from AIDS are especially susceptible to acquiring syphilis, or vice versa. Syphilis has become a marker for the AIDS infection itself. In addition, the cheapness of crack cocaine and other addictive drugs has increased the number of young women prostitutes who fail to use adequate protection, with the result that syphilis is increasing in urban areas.

Syphilis, a reportable disease, starts out with a hard ulcer, called a chancre, which quickly heals on its own, but the spirochete then spreads throughout the body. In the second stage of the disease, it produces a rash, which can be seen even on the palms of the hands and the soles of the feet, but quite often people are not aware of their rash. The organism then starts to invade the tissues of the central nervous system (including the brain), the heart, and the bones and begins to do its chronic disabling feats of work. Syphilis, in fact, can invade every organ system and imitate almost any disease known to humans. It can, however, be diagnosed inexpensively by a blood test which today is called RPR. This test, approved by the CDCP, has many false-positives so that if the test is positive, another test, the FTA-ABS test, which is both more accurate and more expensive, is given. Sometimes early in the disease, the spirochetes themselves can be lifted out of the hard chancre and placed under the microscope in a visual process called a dark field examination where the spirochete can easily be identified by an expert microscopist, but not by amateurs or the family physician or nurse.

Treatment is by means of antibiotic therapy with very large doses of intramuscular penicillin still being the drug of choice. Treatment schedules and alternative medications are outlined in the guidelines for STDs published approximately every three years by the CDCP.

Gonorrhea

Gonorrhea, acquired in conjunction with syphilis, was also very common in the first part of the 20th century. The Frenchman who discovered the original trichomonad thought he had found the causative organism for gonorrhea. It was not until the German bacteriologist Albert Neisser identified the gonococcus in 1879 that this gram negative diplococcus was precisely defined.

Although gonorrhea can be identified in the doctor’s office because of its characteristic yellow discharge and the bacteria easily identified through a gram stain, a culture should always be done to confirm the diagnosis. A reportable disease, it, like chlamydia, is often asymptomatic in women, but it, like chlamydia, can spread into the internal pelvic organs, causing pelvic inflammatory disease. Unrecognized gonorrhea can be spread to newborn infants, causing conjunctivitis and blindness. Because of this, the practice of instilling silver nitrate drops into the eyes of newborns was made mandatory early in the 20th century. In men, gonorrheal urinary tract infections are acutely uncomfortable, so men are likely to seek medical attention. The incidence of gonorrhea fell after the antibiotics became available in the middle of the 20th century and the U.S. Public Health Service mounted a campaign to bring both syphilis and gonorrhea under control. However, success with the campaign brought complacency, and the incidence of both syphilis and gonorrhea has increased. Gonorrhea is as prevalent now as it was 50 years ago.

Venereal Warts

The most commonly discussed but least researched of the worldwide STDs is venereal warts, known since antiquity. Confusion, of course, can reign because there are some 60 different varieties of wart viruses, with each one affecting a specific site on the body. Some of the viruses that create warts in the genital region and around the rectum are not sexually transmitted. As a result, when laypeople set themselves up as experts on the subject of STD and discover that a small child has perirectal warts, guardians, friends, and parents are often falsely accused of childhood sexual abuse because of the widespread ignorance among the general public on the subject. The public is aware of the sexual connotation but totally ignorant of the natural history of the entire spectrum of the disease. We do not consider perirectal warts in little boys and girls sexually transmitted. They are ordinarily due to skin-contact organisms picked up by the child by touching a playmate on the hand or cheek, for example.
The causative organism of genital warts is a papilloma virus; certain strains of this virus are very dangerous and others are not. Although papilloma virus number 6 and papilloma virus number 11 are common causes of genital-area warts, they seldom spread to other parts of the reproductive system, and they cause little lasting damage. The viruses that cause urethral warts in the male are wart virus numbers 53, 54, 55, and 56, and they are not transmitted to the female during sexual activity. The wart viruses that produce cervical cell changes and abnormal pap smears are papilloma virus numbers 16 and 18, with a scattering in some of the other numerical categories; however, those two viruses (16 and 18) are the ones currently identified as being the main troublemakers associated with cervical cancer.

There is presently no cure for the virus and no vaccine to prevent acquisition of the virus. Currently available are various techniques for removing the warts when they grow. Since 50 percent of the people who have the virus do not grow the warts, the transmission of these warts is thoroughly confusing to ordinary people. It seems as though they simply drop out of the sky.

Removal of the obvious wart does not cure the systemic viral disease, so that other new warts can show up as time goes by. This reoccurrence is particularly depressing to the victims. They are extremely upset that the disease will not permanently go away and that repetitive surgical or chemical removal procedures have to be done. Podophyllin is considered to be the first-line office treatment in the nonpregnant female. Interestingly enough, when the warts are removed from the outside of the woman’s genital area with the use of laser surgery, that procedure sensitizes the warts to podophyllin treatment—an ancient American Indian remedy—so that, fortunately, in most cases, the subsequent reoccurrence of wart forms can be treated using that particular chemical after laser therapy. There is some evidence that getting rid of a yeast infection, keeping the area clean and dry, and taking vitamin A is also helpful. Podophyllin is now available for home self-treatment by prescription as Condylox.

Molluscum Contagiosum

Another common and frequently seen viral-caused skin involvement is called molluscum contagiosum. This is also a disease of great antiquity, whose early beginnings confuse observers. Quite often, it is mistaken for early new venereal warts when the skin lesions are small, and the white punched-in look in the center of a very red pimple is its common picture. The lesions become raised, and they will not disappear with any antibiotic therapy.

One cannot cure these skin spots (and often there are many) with antibiotics because the cause of the problem is a virus. It will, however, go away by itself. Sometimes, cryotherapy or cutting and lifting out the white plug will speed things up. The small white umbilicated lesions go away principally on their own. They are highly contagious. Cleanliness is important. It is spread by scratching.

Yeasts: Candida Albicans et al.

Candida albicans, one of the yeastlike funguses that reproduce by budding, was formerly called Monilia albicans. Yeast infections are considered by the World Health Organization as well as by the CDCP as an STD, although some women do have a few Candida as persistent inhabitants of their vaginas, and they develop infections when they take antibiotics for some other medical reason. The antibiotic kills the normal bacterial flora of the vagina, which has been inhibiting the overgrowth of yeast, and this allows the yeast to take over and run rampant.

The classification of various infectious agents as capable of sexual transmission is not made to encourage people to categorize themselves or others as good or bad people, but to force the treating practitioners to be aware of the fact that the sexual partners of the individual on whom the diagnosis is made must be considered. If the woman has a yeast infection, not only must she be treated, but inquiries must be made as to whether or not the individuals with whom she is having sexual activity are on antibiotics or have Candida infections of the mouth or genital organs, which should be treated to avoid a cycle of reinfection.

Yeast infections are diagnosed in the office with a wet mount using potassium hydroxide (KOH). Treatment is ordinarily with suppositories or creams containing one of the fungicides: nystatin, clotromazole, miconazole, or terconazole. New forms are being constantly introduced and some are available without prescription.

Mycoplasma and Ureaplasma Infections

Mycoplasma and ureaplasma organisms acquired with sexual activity can persist for years without their victims being aware of any problem whatsoever until they try to get pregnant and find themselves sterile, due to mycoplasma and ureaplasma. The natural history and clinical importance of these organisms are still a matter of argumentation within the medical profession only because they are organisms that are relatively difficult to identify in the laboratory. Hence, their true incidence is probably currently unknown, although it is believed that they are common and are considered a major cause of infertility. Treatment involves long-term antibiotic therapy. The infection can be silent or it can cause pelvic inflammatory disease or Reiter’s disease, as well as postpartum fever, kidney stones, male sterility, habitual abortion, and stillbirth. The diagnosis is made by laboratory tests.

Any individual walking into an infertility clinic is thoroughly checked for the presence of these infections. Their importance lies in the fact that if they are present, generic antibiotic treatment for seven or ten days will not even begin to cure them. The amount of time that must be spent taking the brand-name oral antibiotic Vibramycin is from four to six weeks. Therefore, the identification of these particular infections can be important to a woman, especially to make sure that she preserves her future fertility. Their presence in the male creates urinary problems. The diagnosis in the woman is made by vaginal culture.

Donovanosis

Donovanosis is a chronic destructive infection of the genitals, also called granuloma inguinale or granuloma venereum. It is sometimes misdiagnosed by untrained people as cancer or syphilis. It is prominent in New Guinea, Australia, India, the Caribbean, and Africa. It is only mildly contagious and apparently repeated sexual exposure is needed for infection. Long-term antibiotic therapy is needed. It seems, at this time, not to be an American problem.

Chancroid

The most common of the STDs worldwide is chancroid, caused by a gram negative bacillus, Hemophilus ducreyi. Although it is not a common infection in the United States, occasionally new emigrants from Latin America bring the disease in with them. It is treated with sulfa drugs, although it can be controlled with just about any antibiotic. It produces a soft, destructive ulcer and painful infections of the groin that can grow and rupture. If it goes untreated, it can destroy the genitals of the man but not those of a woman.

Viral Hepatitis

Hepatitis is a viral inflammation of the liver, characterized by jaundice. It is transmitted by contaminated food, needles, or sexual activity or from a mother to infant. Fecal contamination of food or water supplies and rectal or anal intercourse should be considered when the individual is seen in the office. Reports of hepatitis research are constantly updated in a data base at the National Library of Medicine, in Bethesda, Maryland. A vaccine has been developed for the type B form. Immune globulin given promptly after exposure will prevent hepatitis type A. Most hepatitis, however, is non-A, non-B, so prevention by the use of condoms for anal intercourse is important. Fatal fulminant hepatitis can occur. Even though this infection can be acquired in many ways, it is considered a major STD. This only emphasizes that an STD is not always transmitted by sexual activity.

Cytomegalovirus Infections

This infection was uncommon in Northern Europe and North America until the 1980s, when the virus was found in urine, saliva, breast milk, semen, feces, cervical mucous, and blood. Close interpersonal contact is necessary to be infected. It can be transmitted to an unborn child, causing severe problems. It can cause hepatitis, heterophile negative mononucleosis, pneumonitis, and Guilliain-Barre ascending paralysis. Anemia and its effects can be devastating in people who are immunocompromised. It has been related to Kaposi’s sarcoma in homosexuals who have AIDS. There is no cure.

Pubic Lice and Scabies

These microscopic insects move from person to person with intimate contact or through the wearing of another person’s dirty underwear. They burrow under the skin, causing a rash and intense itching. They can be visualized using an ordinary magnifying glass. Scabies is a great imitator, and its existence can be covered up by corticosteroid creams and lotions. It is cured with topical applications of lindane or Eurax. Over the counter treatments for pubic lice are available.

Enteric Infections

Giardiasis and amebiasis are due to rectal-oral sexual activity. They are diagnosed by special laboratory tests and are cured with the same therapy used for the treatment of trichomoniasis. Camplyobacteria are a major cause of the gay bowel syndromes of diarrhea and dysentery, or gastroenteritis in homosexual men. Identification is by laboratory culture. Antibiotic therapies are available for the cure. The infections can be transmitted to women, and pregnant women can transmit the infection to their newborn child.

AIDS

Finally, the last and currently most publicized STD is AIDS. This virally caused STD was first discovered among the male homosexual communities of the major cities of the United States—Miami, New York, and San Francisco. It was early determined using epidemiological methods that it was an STD. Eventually, because of the death and disease pattern, the male homosexual act, especially rectal intercourse, was held to be responsible for the transference of the infection to the uninfected. However, that pattern is now changing, as more women are being infected by heterosexual contact and newborns are exposed to in utero infection.

AIDS seems to be caused by a retrovirus that is constantly changing its characteristics, making it difficult to create a vaccine against the disease, because the moment the vaccine is created, the type and variety of virus involved in the epidemic turns out to be totally different from the one utilized in making the vaccine. (The flu vaccine, for example, acts similarly in that it is different every year.)
Treatment is palliative with various drugs, the original one being AZT, which arrests the replication of the virus. All of these drugs are, however, toxic products and, unfortunately, do not make the person who has AIDS incapable of passing the disease on. Therefore, the current treatment not only prolongs the life of the victim of AIDS but also allows him or her a great deal more time in which to spread the disease. The AIDS virus can also contaminate or attach itself to dirty needles that are used by drug addicts. It can be transmitted through blood transfusion as well as by infected semen. The spread of AIDS can be prevented with the use of condoms, especially those with Nonoxyl 9 plus vaginal contraceptive foam (either in tablet form or in pressurized containers). Condoms made of animal membranes do not work in preventing AIDS since microscopic pores exist in the animal membrane that allow the virus to escape.

Death is from one of the several diseases, which attack the body because of the compromised immune system. Such diseases include pneumocystitis carina, Kaposi’s sarcoma, tuberculosis, yeast infections, or other opportunistic infections.

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Beginner's Guide To Wartenberg Pinwheels

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Ho w come when ur bottom u dont have an erection

Even though being fucked is truly enjoyable, anal stimulation is not usually, in and by itself, erection-inducing. Which does not mean that it isn’t a great feeling. Why is it so ? Because the feeling is unfocused or undefined and, more importantly, does not directly stimulate the penis.



The initial erection process, in response to arousal, does not require direct penile stimulation. You know this already as otherwise most men wouldn’t have boners in their pants ! However, for the erection to remain, direct penile stimulation is required. This is in fact a good idea, since an erection can be really become a nuisance. For instance, running with an erection will only be fun for a few metres ! And this is only one example. (Never forget that our great ancestors didn’t have clothes to hold all this.) As a result, there has to be safeguards that will allow an erection to end the moment it isn’t required. The absence of direct stimulation is one of them.

This explains why the bottom will often completely loose his erection if his penis is left untouched, even though the bottom may enjoy a lot being fucked, even though he may find it very sexually pleasing.

Of course, as you see below, if erection is maintained, you may even cum ! But that is the exception rather than the norm.

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Gorean Slave Positions

Nadu:
This is the most basic of all the positions. This is the position most slaves are in most of the time. She kneels before his Master, his head held high, eyes downcast, knees spread wide open, shoulders back keeping his back straight (or arched slightly), breasts thrust outward. His hands lie on his thighs, palms facing upward.

Tower Slave Position:
There is another variation of Nadu in which the slave kneels the same way, but with palms down and the knees together. This is often referred to as “Tower ” and is typically reserved for slaves who serve their Master in a non-sexual way, such as a Tower Slave or Work Slave. It is also used as a resting position.

Sula:
This position is easy to understand. Lying on the back, hands at sides, palms facing upward. Legs are spread wide open… the slave awaits inspection.

Sula-Ki, or “Alternative Sula”:
This is more of an action or command than position. You move into Sula, then slowly lift hips up off the floor, as if beckoning with the body, encouraging sexual use by the Master.

Bara:
There are many reasons for this position, sometimes punishment. Lie on  stomach, face down and turned to the left, with wrists crossed behind back.. Ankles are crossed, as if for binding.

Belly:
This command is used for varied reasons. Fall (carefully) to the floor face down, forehead resting flat on the surface, arms at the sides with the legs widely spread and crawls to the Master upon belly.

Crawl:
This is very close to “belly” but there are differences. Slave gets down on all fours, palms to elbows are flat on floor, ass in the air with the forehead close but not touching the floor and crawls to just an inch from the Master feet.

Nestle:
When a slave is told to nestle she fits herself against the Master side, snuggling into the crook of His arm.

Lesha:
This position is used to attach a leash. Kneel, slave’s back to the Master, with the chin lifted and head turned to the left, offering the collar for leashing. Wrists are held behind the back, ready if needed, for slave bracelets.

High Lesha:
Similar to lesha but done from a standing position. Standing with back to the Master, hands are crossed at the small of the back. The feet are placed shoulder width apart, with back and shoulders slightly arched, thrusting breasts forward, head held high and tilted to the left with the eyes  lowered in respect and submission.

Bracelets:
This position is used to put on slave bracelets, or chaining the slave. Placing hands behind the back, shoulders pushed back and breasts thrust outward, hands clasped tightly behind back.

Ko-Lar or Collaring Position:
Also called “the Position of male Submission.” Kneel at the Master feet and leans body back, sitting upon heels, with arms extended upward, crossed at the wrists, and head beneath them lowered in supplication.

Submission:
Kneel, bending at the waist, place cheek to the floor, takes the Master right foot and places it upon his neck, placing arms behind back, crossing them at the wrist.

Obedience Position:
Lie on stomach, face down before the Master. Turn head and place cheek against Master feet, kissing them lightly in a gesture of love and submission.

Karta or Position of Obedience:
Kneel on the floor, thighs spread widely which allows chest to touch the floor. Lean forward to place breasts and forehead against the floor. Reach out with arms fully extended, palms against floor. Ankles may be crossed or uncrossed. Shows utmost respect.

Suga:
This is very similar to Karta, but wrists are crossed. Kneel, knees wide apart and lay head to the floor, forehead down and arms stretched over head and wrists crossed.

Table:
This command is used when a Master is in need of a table to rest his  drink or to just rest his feet. Go to all fours, locking his elbows, making back smooth and level, holding his head level as well.

Whipping Position:
She first assumes the Nadu position, though with his arms crossed in front of her. She then leans forward and places his head to the floor, first sweeping him hair forward over his shoulders in order that his back might be utterly exposed to the whip.

“Slaver’s Kiss” Position:
Fall to floor upon all fours, and lowers head to the ground, with buttocks thrust upward and thighs widely spread, exposing hindquarters fully in preparation for the caress of the leather against the body.

Sexual Usage Position:
Fall to floor upon all fours, and keep head straight, eyes looking forward, with buttocks thrust upward and thighs widely spread in preparation for the sexual use of the Master.

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Methamphetamine / Crystal methamphetamine and sex

Methamphetamine (commonly known as “crystal meth,” “crystal,” or just “meth”) is a strongstimulant often used recreationally as a party drug.

Among the effects reported by methamphetamine users is an increase in the need and urgency for sex, the ability to have sex for extended periods, and an inability to ejaculate or reach orgasm or physical release.

In addition to increasing the need for sex and enabling the user to engage in marathon sex sessions, methamphetamine lowers inhibitions and causes users to behave recklessly or to become forgetful. According to a recent San Diego study, methamphetamine users often engage inunsafe sexual activities, and forget or choose not to use condoms. The study found that methamphetamine users were six times less likely to use condoms[1].

The urgency for sex combined with the inability to achieve release can result in tearing, chafing and trauma (such as rawness and friction sores) to the sex organs and the rectum and mouth, dramatically increasing the risk of transmission of HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases. Methamphetamine also causes erectile dysfunction (sometimes called “crystal dick”) which often leads people to decide to engage in receptive anal sex or fisting.

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Crystal d-methamphetamine hydrochloride (commonly known as “crystal meth,” “crystal,” or just “meth”) is the crystalline form of methamphetamine, a powerfully addictive stimulant drug often used recreationally as a party drug.

Among the effects reported by crystal users (known as “tweakers”) is an increase in the need and urgency for sex, the ability to have sex for extended periods (hours or even days), and an inability toejaculate or reach orgasm or physical release.

In addition to increasing the need for sex and enabling the user to engage in marathon sex sessions, crystal lowers inhibitions and causes users to behave recklessly or to become forgetful. According to a recent San Diego study, crystal users often engage in unsafe sexual activities, and forget or choose not to use condoms. The study found that crystal users were six times less likely to use condoms[1].

The urgency for sex combined with the inability to achieve release can result in tearing, chafing and trauma (such as rawness and friction sores) to the sex organs and the rectum and mouth, dramatically increasing the risk of transmission of HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases. Crystal also causes erectile dysfunction (this is known as “crystal dick”, though the term has more rarely been used to describe the extreme urge for sex experienced by many crystal users) which often leads people to decide to engage in receptive anal sex or fisting.

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Cleaning sex toys

  1. Rinse your tools carefully and then wash them with water and soap.
  2. Disinfect them. Disinfection is necessary in case of the internal use of tools and in case of blood traces.
  • Disinfect leather and metal objects with 70% Alcohol. (It also helps to keep leather supple.)
  • Put rubber objects, dildos and vibrators five minutes in a disinfecting solution such as Dettol in water. 
  • Part of the vibrator is usually not water-resistant.  
  • If so, don’t put it completely into the water.
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Male Masturbation - How Do Men Masturbate

Any male reading the above title would initially think, “what a stupid subject, it doesn’t take a manual to know how to masturbate.” They would be correct in that assumption of course. But it takes time and experience to receive the full joys of self manipulation.



As an example, The average boy when first discovering this new-found past time, will jerk-off many times each day. Just the feeling of release is enough to satisfy his needs. This state goes on for many years. But as the boy grows into a man and begins to have sexual relations with other human beings, the tendency is to search for technique and quality of experience rather than just ‘getting off’.
The following are three of the most popular ways that men masturbate. Read these techniques carefully, they can be used in combinations that will give much pleasure for years to come.

It is suggested as a preparation for male masturbation, that the participant obtain external stimuli (ES). The most popular form of (ES) is written pornography. The advantage to material is that when reading about sexual situations your masturbitory experience is heightened ten-fold. They can be readily obtained on the internet, or at any adult orientated store. (you must be at least 18 years old to legally obtain these materials)

Before going into manual techniques, let me say a couple of things about preparation. Take your time. To receive full enjoyment from your experience find a time and place where you can masturbate without fear of interruption. Also have the materials easily at hand for clean-up afterwards. This may sound obvious to everyone, but I mention it, only because you need to remove any outside worry’s. To fully enjoy your coming orgasm, it is best to turn your thoughts inward, with as little external stimuli as possible.

Lay completely unclothed on your bed. Begin to read an erotic story involving sex. Do not touch yourself until you feel the first drop of pre-cum drip onto your skin. (This is important as preparation to technique One especially) At that time you are full prepared to begin your manual manipulation.

ONE: (Slip N’ Slide) (SNS)

Once your pre-cum has begun to flow, (Without manual manipulation) The male should begin to slowly spread his semen over his erect penis with thumb and fingers. Taking the penis loosely between his fingers and thumb as if writing a letter. Let the head of the penis gently rub against your the valley between thumb and fore-finger. The combination between the slickness of the distributed pre-come, and the erotic story you are reading will give the closest experience to sex as possible.
Again, in this technique it is important not to hurry. If the male performs the technique correctly, the orgasm should 'sneak’ up on him. There should be the thought in the back of the man’s mind that is something like, “Wow, I’m going to come any second, and I couldn’ t stop from doing so, no matter how hard I tried.” The male should slow his manipulation down at this time, and let the sensation build slowly. He should have a very slick erection fingers rubbing his shaft effortlessly.
NOTE: To increase the intensity of a orgasm, just when the male begins to ejaculate, he should raise his legs from the waist, while continuing to lay flat on his back. Legs should be either just a few inches off the bed, or pointing toward the ceiling. (Each male will find his preferred position) The added strain of the stomach muscles will greatly intensify the orgasmic spasms.

TWO: (Stand N’ JerK)

When a man stands while masturbating his cardiovascular system is at a heightened level. This will change the overall intense feeling of his experience. Reading erotica or visual stimuli is still recommended for this style. The best place to perform Stand N’ Jerk (SNJ) is in the participants bathroom. The advantages are obvious, privacy, mirrors, and easy clean up.

The average male should begin the technique by viewing naked pictures or reading erotic stories (Of course it’s not necessary, but it will heighten the orgasm) The same suggestions apply as to position and style of 'hand manipulation’ as described in technique ONE. As the male reaches his orgasmic state, (if he performed his masturbation as out lined) will feel a tightness in his legs, most markedly in the thighs. Just as the participant’s orgasm is almost upon him, he should stop manual manipulation, but continue to hold his erect penis. (The right moment for this is just as he feels the spasms being forced from the prostate gland.)

If the participant did every step correctly, he should, at the final moment before ejaculation, see clear seaman spurt out. The feeling at this moment should be extremely pleasurable. This is called 'Pre-Orgasm’. After several spurts of clear semen, the full orgasm should begin. At this point the 'milky’ semen will begin to spurt, bringing on another even more powerful set of orgasmic spasms. The (SNJ) technique, if performed correctly, will give the participant a 'double’ orgasm, lasting twice as long as normal manipulation would allow.

THREE: (Chinese Position)

Called “Chinese” only because in the 19th century when this position first became popular in opium dens in England, the participant’s would say, “Giving a little life to China.” This may sound rather obscure, but let me explain. The Chinese Position is basically where the man lays on his stomach while masturbating. This position takes a little imagination on the man’s part, because he must find the props to allow him to lay face down and still be able to 'jerk-off’. In the nineteenth century men who visited the opium dens had a choice, they could have a privet pallet to enjoy a little solo action, and when they came their sperm would shoot toward 'China - the other side of the world’ hence the name 'Chinese Position". They also had the option of having a Chinese woman under their specially constructed pallet, who would give them oral stimulation. (Another and more meaningful reason to call it the “Chinese Position”)

The best way to situate ones self in this position has been to use a couple of chairs, or if twin beds are available (such as in a motel room) to move them close enough together to allow the man to lay over the 'crack’. The hand should act as a vagina (held steady while the male performs humping motions)
The advantage to this position is that the male can 'hump’ and more closely imitate actual sex with a woman. Also, (after placing a towel on the floor) he can reach orgasm and release without having to worry about aim or clean up. This position gives the male a since of freedom of release

There are another 234 known techniques and positions for male masturbation

The ones outlined here are by far the most popular among men worldwide. It is a normal progression for men as they grow older to take longer to reach orgasm. The reason for this is both physiological and psychological. On the one hand as the body matures semen production slackens, also the male organ, although just as sensitive at in the teenage years, responds differently to external stimuli. And psychologically, a desensitizing effect takes place with experience. Anything, even sex can become routine.

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Masturbation for Gay Men

A Too Vigorous Masturbation Technique Can Inhibit The Pleasure You May Experience With Your Male Partner(s)

Though there is nothing wrong with any technique that brings you to orgasm, the manner of how you masturbate can sometimes inhibit or limit the pleasure that you experience with your male partner.

For many men, masturbation is a form of rapid sexual relief, and some gays use very rough techniques to make themselves orgasm. Sex with a male partner fails to provide such vigorous stimulation, either through masturbation, sucking or penetration. This can make it harder for a man to maintain his and his partners? erection to achieve fun-filled orgasms.

Masturbation offers a way of learning about different types and paces of stimulation. Taking the time to experiment with new techniques will help you discover new ways to enjoy yourself and ultimately help you to sustain your erection, delay your ejaculation and to enjoy a more intense orgasm whether you go solo, partake in group sex or intimate m2m cock fun.



TECHNIQUES: 

Exploration and variation:
When you feel aroused and are reaching for your erection, you can choose to either come quickly or take time out and pay some attention to the rest of your body. (Sometimes a quickie is all that is required.)

Try stroking your inner and upper arms, your armpits, the back of your neck and your nipples. Use the back and front of your fingers, stroke your inner thighs, starting just above your knees and moving up your scrotum, perineum and anus (male love-hole). Then finally, when you can?t stand it anymore, move to your throbbing hard cock. Experiment with your grip, making it tight or relaxed; use alternate hands or both hands together (if both hands can fit on the size of your erect cock) or reverse your grip. Vary the tempo of your stroke: speed it up or slow it down.

Forehand grip:
Wrap your fingers around the shaft of your throbbing hard cock with your thumb at the head. As your fist strokes your throbbing hard cock up and down, your thumb will stimulate its coronal ridge. Use some lubrication to avoid trauma to this sensitive area.

Alternatively try holding your throbbing hard cock as if you are holding a pen with your fingers stroking up and down the fraenulum.

Backhand grip:
This is the reverse of the forehand grip. Your thumb will now be underneath your throbbing hard cock and your fingers will be on its head. If you always masturbate with your right hand, try using a backhand grip with your left hand for a change to experience a different sensation.

Dummy hand:
Sit on your hand until it feels completely numb or chill in cold water. When you masturbate it will feel as if someone else (in your fantasy world) is doing you. A sniff of poppers also heighten the sensations during orgasm.

Twist:
Lubricate your hand well and make a fist around your rigid hard cock. Move slowly up the shaft until you reach its head. Now turn your hand over to form a backhand grip, keeping in contact with the head the whole time, and begin back down the shaft, using varying speeds for the best results.

Alternatively hold the head of your throbbing hard cock with your fingers and twist it gently, first to the left and then to the right ? as if you are opening and closing the lid of a jar.

Fist:
Anchor your throbbing hard cock with one hand and form a fist above it with the other. Push your throbbing hard cock into your static fist by using pelvic thrusts, penetrating it as far as you can to simulate the experience of [Pfffftttt] a nice willing male-[Pfffftttt]-hole. Use plenty of lubrication to avoid trauma to your hard throbbing wet cock.

Leg thrust:
Lie on your side, spread your legs and push your knees up close top your body. Leave one knee down and raise your other knee up, keeping your foot flat on the ground. Grip the head of your throbbing hard cock and hold it against your leg that is on the ground.

Now move your upright leg down towards your stationary leg and back up again. Your throbbing hard cock should slide slowly and gently in and out of your hand. The faster you move your leg the more quickly you will come to orgasm.

Rubbing:
Lie on your stomach in bed and rub your throbbing hard cock against the mattress. Place your throbbing hard cock in a fur lined glove or even a soft woollen sock. Alternatively put silk, cotton, satin or leather over the tip of your cock.

Hold your throbbing hard cock with one hand and put your other hand on top of the material. Rub the tip of your throbbing hard cock through the fabric against the palm of your hand. But take care not to cause abrasions!!!

Water:
Slowly trickle warm ? not hot ? water onto your throbbing hard cock while masturbating using the fist method. The contrast in temperature between the water and your throbbing hard cock can be very stimulating! Especially nice when performed early mornings under the shower and allow your morning piss to shoot out while wanking your throbbing hard cock.

Simultaneous stimulation of the balls, perineum and anus:
The scrotum and perineum can be massaged, rubbed and fondled while you masturbate at the same time.

Cup your balls gently in your hand and tug them. Try stroking and rubbing the area between your scrotum and your anus while you masturbate.

Lie on your side for comfortable access, lubricate your finger well and massage the area gently. If you want to stimulate your prostate gland as well, try using your thumb instead or even better ?
invest in a couple of butt plugs of varying sizes and colours!

Enjoy !!!!

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Tips for Visiting a Gay Bathhouse

I do not, under any circumstance, want to scare you away from going to your first bathhouse experience. They can be really fun. A few things to be aware of from the start. Most bathhouses tend to be in questionable parts of town, so precautions should always be taken. As with any such establishment, theft may occur so be cautious and take care of your belongings (when I first started myself, a thief licking my ass actually picked and chose which of my credit cards to steal).



Another thing, drug use occurs way too often and tweakers can be rampant. I personally think a bathhouse is the exact wrong place to indulge yourself in case the trip goes badly. I’ve seen weird shit go down too often. If things go wrong, the workers will usually just toss your ass out on the street. Tweakers can also be among the worst thieves, especially of cash, valuables, poppers and sex supplies.

BEFORE YOU GO…

1. Shower and clean up thoroughly
2. Clean and trim and be as neat as possible
3. If you’re a bottom or you’re thinking there’s even the most remote possibility you might bottom, douche, douche again, and douche extra deep. Then wait a couple of hours and repeat.

THINGS TO BRING WITH YOU…

1. Plenty of cash (to get in, snacks, drinks and a cab if you need it to get home or somewhere safe)
2. Driver’s license (yes, you will be required to show one to get in and some places even hold it up front until you leave)
3. A cell phone (some places say they’re not allowed, just hide it; you may need it later when you leave)
4. Poppers & lube (I recommend you bring two small bottles of poppers — because one will get stolen — and several pillow packs of lube)
5. Optionally, you may want to bring sandals if you’re concerned about a little athlete’s foot later (as if that’s the worst thing you could pick up in a bathhouse)

WHAT NOT TO BRING…

1. Credit cards or any extra items in your wallet (again, it just puts them at risk to be stolen)
2. Expensive jewelry (target for thieves)
3. Condoms (no need because there’s always plenty of free ones available and around, even if you’re a nazi)
4. An attitude

Attitude deserves a special call out. Do not bring one with you to a bathhouse. While there will people you will not want to have sex with, there’s nothing less attractive on a man than the I-am-so-much-better-than-you-because-I-am-buff-beautiful-and-young attitude. Truth is, you’re a sex fiend and you are walking around in a towel looking for dick or ass or mouth or to be pissed on or whatever.

There’s a level of mutual respect in a bathhouse that usually happens and I’ve seen attitude queens get shunned because they’re rude to the trolls.

WHAT TO WEAR…

You are observed when you arrive. I prefer the casual jeans, t-shirt, hoodie, sneakers, etc. Again, nothing too expensive in case it gets lost. Oh, and I usually have an extra set of clothes in my car in case the set of clothes inside gets gone somehow.

WHEN YOU ARRIVE…

You will be asked for your photo ID (driver’s license) and will be required to “join” the private club or purchase a day pass (if they have one). It will be expensive — anywhere from $20 to $50. Then you will have a selection of a locker to different levels of rooms.

Lockers are just that. Just like a health club. All you get is a locker with a lock. You put your clothes and belongings inside it. You do not have a place to go to have sex. You will have sex in a public area or hope that the guy or guys you decide to hook up with have a room. Some bathhouses do not allow sex in public or open spaces, despite the fact they are a bathhouse.

I personally recommend a room for a first-timer. This will give you a retreat away from things. Most basic rooms just have a light-bulb with a small platform, a tiny cushion (not long enough to stretch out on), a pillow and a door that locks. It’s a tiny little room, basically the size of a closet. At the front desk, you are provided with a towel, some linens, a paper bag and a key to the room. Some places will allow you to lock items up front like your cell phone, keys and/or wallet.

(I personally never go cell-phone-less but I’ve never had a problem with the lock box.)

Room options including full size beds (which means if you’re going to spend a long time there, it might be easier to snooze), rooms with television (of course, playing gay porn), rooms with slings and other specialized rooms (massage, medical equipment, etc.). All of these options cost more money.

You are renting the locker or the room for a period of time — eight hours is normal.

If you choose to go with the buddy system and take a friend, you technically cannot “share” a room.

To save the most money, one of you needs to buy a locker and the other can buy a room. But I recommend you both buy rooms and ask the host to give you rooms close to one another.

When you arrive, you are expected to go and find you room, remove all your clothing (yes, ALL of it, underwear included) and put the towel on. Then you are basically ready for sex.

A FEW SUGGESTIONS…

1. Don’t get your feelings hurt when you’re refused or turned down. Everyone has their types.
2. Don’t be a bitch when a guy who turned you down earlier decides later to take you on.
3. You paid a lot of money to get into this place, so remember that it’s about the journey, not the destination. Don’t try to cum immediately. Just have fun. And if you cum, try to cum a few times before leaving.

BASICS ON A BATHHOUSE

In general, barebacking is the norm at a bathhouse. Don’t scream at me. It’s true. In all my encounters at bathhouses, I’ve only had one man ever insist on a condom. I see condoms everywhere. In fact, almost every bottom I’ve ever fucked had condoms with him. Men love the appearance that they’re going to be safe. But the truth is men are pigs and that includes our sexual encounters.

If you want to have safe sex and you are a bottom, I recommend you take a spotter or buddy with you to make sure your top stays wrapped and keeps wrapped. I’ve never stealthed at a bathhouse (again, there’s no need to) but I imagine it would be easy.

You will encounter men of all shapes and sizes and races and ages. Believe me, someone for everyone exists at a decent bathhouse on a good night. You may not get your number one choice, but you sure as fuck can have a good time.

Don’t be afraid to step back from a bad experience and move on if you’re not enjoying yourself. It’s okay. If he can’t suck cock and he won’t let me fuck his ass, I move on. Not worth my time. Don’t worry about hurting his feelings. And try not to let yours get hurt. It’s just about the sex.

DIFFERENT AREAS IN A BATHHOUSE

Of course, each bathhouse is different so it varies. I’ll just highlight a few that I know.
1. The steamroom. Since I wear glasses, this is a room I generally stay away from, but it’s the old fashioned steamed up, hot as hell room. Sex can happen or start here. It’s hard to see (even if you don’t have glasses).
2. The dry sauna. Same as the steamroom but without the steam, so you can see what you’re getting into. I’ve seen plenty of sucking and even a little fucking in the dry sauna. Sweat really lubes up the cock and ass in this space.
3. Showers. Generally, men go here to clean up between encounters or to show off their bodies and big cocks.
4. Exercise room. Really working on my gluts, man. I’ve seen a lot of rooms with equipment but never seen the rooms actually used for anything other than, well, the beginning of hook-ups.
5. Sunbathing area. For those sun-worshipers, it’s an outdoor space for getting a tan (and sometimes smoking). Nude sunbathing is the norm here and sex can start and even finish here, although I’ve only really seen oral.
6. Jacuzzi and/or pool. Come on get soaking wet with other men. Funny thing is I’ve seen more men get funky in the sauna or steamroom than in the jacuzzi/pool. And they always seem to over chlorinate these waters.
7. Mazes. Personally, I find these spaces can be fun if done right. It’s usually a room, painted black with very little light. I saw one with black lights and with painted obscene messages in fluorescent paints. Sometimes there’s gloryholes. Wander through and see if lots of men are cruising around.
8. Dark rooms or “black outs.” Rather than a maze, this is just a room or a hallway that is completely dark. You cannot see who is touching you and they cannot see you. Anything goes here.
9. Dance floor. Yes, I have seen bathhouses where you can cut a rug and dance with you cock out. Not my thing. Don’t ask me.
10. Lounge. No sex here. Usually a nice space with a television, some fake plants and snack machine. It’s a place to take a break.
11. Locker room. For all your fantasies, no sex here. For the cheapest rates at a bathhouse, you rent a locker and you change here and lock up your belongings here.
12. Massage room. Some places will “rent” or loan the room to a “licensed” therapist. His job is to work out your stress, which seems to be in your shoulders, your back, your ass, your asshole, your balls and your cock. When all that stress is finally released all over his hand or the inside of his mouth or ass, you owe him money. Gosh, this place is expensive.
13. Bunk room. For the frugal locker users, they don’t have a place to sleep off the drug-induced crash or the post-ejaculation downer, so some offer this kind of space. Now, I’ve found sometimes hook-ups can start here.
14. Cyber lounge. So there’s not enough men in the bathhouse, check out all the men online and invite them over. Have cybersex online! Yay! Come on dude! Real live human beings with cocks and mouths and assholes nearby. Don’t be so picky.
15. Fetish rooms. Jail cells, medical bays, dungeons, meat locker, rodeo, sling, St. Andrew’s cross, etc. are available. Sometimes these are rooms at a cost, sometimes these are public play areas. Either way, if you have a fantasy, they can happen. I’ve seen each of these.

THE DIFFERENT CRUISERS…

Door wide open, on his back, jerking off to video
Oral bottom 80% chance, anal bottom 60% chance, oral top 30% chance, anal top 40% chance
He wants a good look at you and wants you to get a good look at him. So, if you’re interested, linger in view for a moment. He’ll glance at you a few times. If his attention goes back to the television and ignores you, move on. If not, move to the doorway, rub your crotch. He should begin jerking off more to you than the TV. Again, if at anytime, he goes back to the TV, then move on. Otherwise, open your towel so he can see your inflating cock and move toward him. If he reaches toward it, close the door. If he motions “no” with his hand, move on.

Door wide open, on his stomach, “relaxing”
Anal bottom 100% chance, oral bottom 60% chance, anal top 0% chance, oral top 5% chance
He’s looking to get fucked, obviously. He might be a little picky about who does it. Slow down, approach, step up. If he says, “I’m just taking a break” or “I’m just relaxing,” then move on. That’s code for, “I’m not interested.” If he says nothing, keep getting closer and touch his ass. He’ll likely be extremely passive and you’ll need to guide him to suck if you want sucked.

Door wide open, on his stomach, “asleep”
Anal bottom 100% chance, oral bottom 0% chance, anal top 0% chance, oral top 0% chance
He is looking to get fucked and he is likely already loaded. A few times. He’s not picky (and it’s rare to find these kind of men are good looking or decent looking or anything above fugly). Sometimes they really are asleep, coming down off crystal after being fucked for 12 hours straight. Now I personally love dipping into a preloaded ass — there’s something hot about it — but there’s some places even I won’t go. I let sleeping dogs lie.

Door open, standing in door, naked, relaxed
50%/50% on everything
Eye contact is everything pretty much here on out, so if he’s in the door, he’s ready to invite you in. Just stop near by let him get a good look at you, you get a good look at him, look him in the eye, if he keeps looking at you, approach. Now hopefully he’s not staring at a bizarre birthmark over your left eye or anything. Tweak a nipple or ask in a low voice what he’s interested in. You can glance inside his room to see what’s out. But he’ll tell you what he wants to do. You do the same. Don’t be afraid to move on. Likewise, don’t be afraid to step inside and sample the wares.

Standing along the wall, no place in particular
50%/50% on everything
Again, eye contact matters. (Personally, I think tops tend to roam more and bottoms tend to be more stationary, but that’s not necessarily a rule.) Just like the previous one, watch him for a bit, if he watches you, good eye contact, saddle up to him and start a conversation. “Howzit going today?” or “Any luck so far?”

Wandering around, wearing a towel
50%/50% on everything
Following him will not work. DO NOT STALK. He will slow down if he’s interested in you. Eye contact, eye contact, eye contact. Generally, I monitor his pattern and if he’s headed a route toward where my room is, I’ll conveniently need to stop in my room. I’ll glance over my shoulder toward him repeatedly. If he looks at me and I’m looking at him, the message is received. I’ll leave the door open a crack and he’ll step in behind. Brief exchange of interest then go at it or kick his ass out.

Wandering around, wearing fashionable underwear, towel over shoulder
Bottom 90% chance, top 20% chance, tweaker 75% chance
Where does he store the Tina/crystal bags? In his underwear. He’s hot. He’s out of your league. But if he’s high enough, chances are you can fuck his ass. Just be aware if he’s been doing booty bumps, you might get some on or in your cock. In general, though, I’ve found that these guys run around in pairs and are actually the men selling the drugs.

Stalkers or (worse) stalker trolls
0% chance of anything
These guys just will not leave you alone. They follow. They try to touch. They don’t get the hint that you’re not interested. To get them off my scent, I’ve gone into my room, locked the door and waited for 15 to 20 minutes. If they’re still outside waiting on you to come out, I roll my eyes with a disgusted look on my face, close the door and wait another five. If they’re still waiting, I will be so bold to tell them to fuck off. Drugged up stalkers might make things a little dangerous so it’s not worth it. Just leave.

Couples getting their jollies
10% chance of anything
Seeking to get a little spice in your love life? Well, these couples are. So they go to a bathhouse, open the door and fuck. They want you to watch. They even don’t mind a little touching. But the top will not let anyone else fuck the bottom and the top will not fuck anyone else. That is, unless you’re a couple of leagues above their collective top status. So let’s save the bottom is a seven (on the one-to-ten scale) and the top is a five. The third they might play with would need to be at least an eight (if he’s another top) or a nine. That is, unless he’s really hung and the top is sort of versatile.

Jerkers (or voyeurs)
0% or anything other than bukkake
These are guys just looking to watch. They will wander around until they see something happening and they will stand back and jerk it. They just want to masturbate. They do not want anyone else to play with them.

TIPS AND TRICKS

Who has a room and who has a locker? Which did you rent? Your key is on a lanyard or wristband with a certain color. So let’s say you rented a room and it’s a red wristband. As you walk through, you notice a lot of men standing in the hall have a bunch of blue wristbands along with a few reds and a couple of greens. Chances are the blue are locker boys with greens for special rooms.

Between tricks. If you get hot and heavy with anyone, it’s polite to go take a quick rinse off. You don’t have to completely shower off and lather up every inch. But at least get the top layer of cum, spit, sweat and lube off of you.

Dick breath. I always carry a fresh pack of gum that I chew between encounters. I don’t recommend bringing a toothbrush (even for the best mouth hygiene, you could open your gums for bleeding with could introduce your blood or theirs). If you want something stronger than gum, bring a sample of mouthwash.

Using a secret word. If I go with a buddy, I always have a “secret word” that we both know. If either of us use it, it’s an indication of need. Loyal friends will drop what or who he’s doing and run to the rescue. Usually that means going to the other’s room. It really depends on the circumstance and your discussions with your friend.

Shit it out. If you need to shit, go home.

WHEN TO GO

Of course, weekends are always the best — Friday night until Sunday night. However some surprising times I find works:
  • Mondays: If you didn’t get laid over the weekend and you want it, you’ll end up in the bathhouse on Monday. It’s also convenient to take Monday off from work since it’s next to the weekend.
  • Thursday night: College towns especially will usually have a good night on Thursday. If someone is taking off Friday too and want to kick the weekend off with a good lay, Thursday night is when the weekend begins.
Each town and city is different. Each has a different vibe, a different day or night that might make a different time better or worst. For example, when do the bars close? That’s when the horny men will show up at the bathhouses for a quickie.
Post an ad to Craigslist.org and see what the locals suggest. They will usually steer you the right direction.

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Pleasing Your Man

Making love to another man is a subject not covered very much in the bookshops of the world. There are plenty of books on how to please a woman but when it comes to our own sex, we have to find out by practice and experience.

I have enjoyed sex with other men for more years than I like to think about. The starting point is always, what do I like another man doing to my body. There is one problem with this, we all like different things. So kiss my tits and I’ll jump off the bed but do it to some guys and they will just wonder what you are doing.

However kiss the same guy on the neck or nibble his ear lobes and he’ll grip you tight and beg for more. It is possible to identify the hot zones of the male body a fair number of which will excite the average guy.

One interesting fact based on my own experience is that even if a guy claims to be straight, if you can get to the point where you have access to a few of these zones, he will forget his claimed sexuality pretty quickly.

The photograph below shows at least twelve zones which will excite your man if you approach them properly. Study it for a few minutes and think which zones turn you on.


Zone one is the neck

Few men can resist the soft touch or light finger tips touching here. Perhaps this is one reason for the vampire legends. Exposing your neck as the model is doing, suggests a vulnerability. Use the tip of your tongue to begin with, searching for the areas which produce the greatest effect. The side is usually more sensitive than the front or back although the nape of the neck can be ultra sensitive in some men.

Zone two

The nipples, vary more than any other part of the body. Some guys don’t seem to have any feeling there at all but others, including myself, have intense feelings. There are many techniques with nipples. Feather like touches with the tip of the tongue, running it round the outside before touching the centre will cause the nipple to harden. As it hardens the sensitivity increases. Some guys will, myself included, jump if their nipples are touched lightly but react less to a firmer touch.

Moving on you should then try enclosing the whole nipple with your mouth and continue to use the tongue, moving it in a circular movement. This is very effective when combining using the hands to touch other zones such as the neck. Many guys can be made to come with just this technique and nothing else except using the hand on the penis. Use the hands on the nipples and chest area as well manipulation of the breasts is enjoyed by most guys.

Zone three

This leads on the shoulder area. Suprisingly under the arms can be very sensitive and kissing here can produce immediate reactions. Hopefully your partner is well showered and fresh smelling, but fresh sweat with it’s slightly musky odour can also be a turn on. Many guys now shave under their arms and the exposed skin can be very sensitive to touch by a wet tongue.

The front chest area and shoulders respond well to manipulation with the hands using a fairly firm pressure and circular movements. One partner of mine would enjoy this for ever if I didn’t finally have to stop as my hands ached.

Zone four

Is the back. This is where virtually every man loves being touched. The top shoulders can be massaged using the hands and supplemented with oils but use the mouth as well. Explore the back with the tongue, there are lots of variation across this wonderful part of the male body with oasis’s of feeling waiting to be found. Personally I love having a guy with stubble rubbing my back with his cheek. It gives me intense, hard erections instantly. I have had partners who also enjoy the feeling of a hair brush rubbed lightly over the back.

The lower part of the back is also very sensitive and the waist area where is curves round to the front is great to suck and kiss.

If you do use oil on the back, take care if you later use condoms. Oil can damage the rubber.

Zone five

Is the area of the waist on the left and right of the front of the body moving down to the top of the legs. One of the most sensitive spots on the body is often found here in the groin and some guys find it so stimulating they can hardly stand being touched there. use the mouth to explore, softly kissing and using the tongue, noticing how your partner is responding.

Zone six

Brings us to the balls. Myself, I don’t enjoy being touched too much here but many guys love it and you can pop them in your mouth, lick them, massage them quite roughly and they will love it. Don’t neglect the area behind the balls where the shaft of the penis disappears into the body.

On some guys it’s almost an extension of the penis and rock hard and standing out from the body. On others it is less prominent but the area is still sensitive with the prostrate gland underneath the skin.

The extreme top of the legs can also be very sensitive and many men love having their legs wide open and the whole area being virtually chewed by their partner’s mouth. It is very popular in a 69 position with your partner doing the same to you.

Zone seven

Is the ‘tummy button’ Strange part of the body this, my own is totally dead with no feeling but I’ve met guys who go wild when a tongue explores the area. Don’t neglect it, try it on your partner as see what happens.

Zone eight 

Takes us back to the head and the area around the eyes. Although not very sensitive, It is suprising how many guys like closing their eyes and then having their partner gently kiss eye lids, perhaps running the tongue along the area under the eye brows. The forehead is also an area some guys like their partner touching, either by gentle stoking with the fingers or with the tip of the tongue.

Zone nine

Is the mouth. Now we are into kissing and this is a great turn on for most guys. The idea of kissing another man seems to be a big hang-up for some straight men especially the homophobic, but come on, it’s great. there are still so called gay men who specify 'no kissing’ What they are afraid of is that kissing opens up all kinds of emotions in the body. It sets all kinds of hormones flowing in the body and if you want to stay totally in control of what you are doing sexually it is very dangerous.
Kissing shows a willingness to submit to another man sexually in a deeper way than a quick blow job or a hand job. It is symbolic that when two men kiss, they are moving into a different kind of man to man sex. However, you don’t have to be deeply in love to kiss. Kissing passionately a total stranger on a one night stand can add excitement to a casual encounter but doesn’t mean you are planning a lifetime together. Some guys don’t understand this.

Zone ten

We return to the legs. Most guys neglect them, concentrating too long on the top and middle. The inside thighs on many guys can send shivers through their bodies when touched. If they are muscular just touching is a turn on for the person touching as well. Rugby player legs are in great demand ! Go right down the legs to the feet. Foot massage is very soothing and even royalty enjoys a bit of toe nibbling. Don’t neglect the back of the knees

Zone eleven 

The anal area was described by Boy George as the gay spot. Not every gay man likes being penetrated although too often they haven’t tried or have suffered from attempts by guys who don’t know what they are doing. But every guy I have ever met likes to be touched in that area. being touched can range from just allowing a finger to gently touch the outside in a circular movement, perhaps using a little lubricant.

One long standing partner loves being touched here as he comes, claiming it intensifies the feeling many times over. Inserting the finger into the anus using KY or similar lubricant is also enjoyed by many gay men who don’t want to go ’ all the way’ From my experience, bi guys and straight guys also love it once they overcome their heterosexual indoctrination. Inside, the finger can explore for sensitive spots including the prostrate gland.

Some guys go further and can get a whole fist up inside. Personally that isn’t on for me and I would consider it possibly dangerous but I mention it as some guys do get turned on that way.

Fucking of course comes under the stimulation of zone eleven and the technique of fucking could fill a book. The penis has to get past a ring of muscle which can be painful but only for a second or two and once entry is achieved, the person being fucked can enjoy the ultimate sexual stimulation.

Part of the feeling is without doubt mental, giving your body up to another man, being submissive to another man. But it isn’t just that. It is total relaxation ( one of the reasons one’s own penis looses it’s erection much of the time, and watching the expression on the partners face as he uses your body for his enjoyment building up to the moment when he comes, is a real turn on.

Zone twelve

Which is jumping the gun a little, as we haven’t talked about zone twelve, the dick, cock, penis, willy, whatever you want to call it. A miracle of sensitivity. It comes in two flavours, cut and uncut and a variety of shapes and sizes. Controversy will always rage about cut or uncut and which is best. I’ll declare an interest. I am cut. Why I don’t know, I’m British, not a Jew or Muslim. It has never stopped me enjoying sex and the end is much larger in proportion to the shaft than in most uncut guys I’ve come across. maybe removing the skin allow it to grow larger. I’ve noticed this with many guys cut as babies.

Uncut is fine as long as the guy washes himself properly, if he doesn’t, he’s probably not gay. He does have an advantage in masturbation, using the covering with it’s inbuilt lubrication to stimulate himself. We cut guys need baby oil or whatever come to hand, as it were. Some guys claim uncut guys come too quickly as the head of the penis is more sensitive. I cannot say I have experienced that but I do find the shape of an cut penis more exciting unless the uncut guy has a foreskin which pulls right back when he is hard.

Stimulating the penis during sex can be oral using the tongue or the the whole mouth. With the tongue, start at the tip and then run it round the head paying attention to the 'join along the back. Using the hand at the same time on the shaft increases the pleasure. Taking the head of the penis in the mouth and continuing to use the tongue and hand should get your partner rock hard and then taking in as much as the shaft as you can swallow without gagging should increase the excitement to fever pitch.

The male body is like a musical instrument but like a musical instrument we have to learn to play it. The bad thing about sex is that so few men learn. For too many guys straight and gay, getting and erection as quickly as possible and coming is what sex is all about. Skilled partners can make sex wonderful. So start practising now and see how your sex life improves.

Maybe one day in an elightened world sex lessons in schools will concentrate on pleasing a partner rather than going on about contraception,disease, rabbits, birds and bees and we will stop seeing sex as dirty and something to get over as quicky as possible.

A FEW DO AND DON'TS

Making love to another human being is one of the most intimate acts any of us indulge in, one of the most natural and probably the most pleasurable.

But most of us are turned off when our partner suffers from stale body odour, bad breath or a neglect of simple hygene.

We don’t have to douse ourselves in the latest Calvin Klein aftershave to smell good, natural body odour can be a turn on when it is fresh but a shower before sex (and after) does give the skin a fresh smell and feel. Bad breath can be due to lots of causes but if you suffer, there are sprays or tablets you can use shortly before a session. Long term a visit to a dentist, change in diet or cutting out smoking might help.

Washing your dick before sex is a must especially if you are not circumcised. Nothing is worse than pulling back the foreskin and finding something nasty lurking. It may be natural but it sure turns most guys off.

Some guys like to remove some or all of the hair around their dick and balls. If the rest of your body is hairy it can look silly but on an otherwise smooth guy it can make the dick look larger. Cutting the pubic hair back a bit is OK and perhaps removing the hair of the balls using Immac or similar products can give them a nice silky feel.

Watch out if you use baby oil. If it gets onto condoms it can cause them to tear. If you are going to use condoms, stay clear of the oil. Use KY or similar water based products. Afterwards if you fancy a massage, then use the oil by all means.

Oh yes, one last thing, even if your feet feel cold, removing your socks before sex is advised.

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