But occasionally, I try to change things up and get my mojo on with other men like me who sleep on the bottom bunk. And before we get too far in, you should know that I’m not versatile – not even a little bit. I guess that makes me an avowed bottom.
That may seem stupid but it’s true. My friend’s think I’m cray cray. “Everyone knows two bottoms are like oil and water – they don’t mix!” one of my buds recently said. I was like whatever.
If you’re open to it, I’d like to lay out my 5 reasons for seeking out sexy time with men like me – guys who like to ride the big pony as we shoot for the stars.
Some of these points I will mention here may strike you as common sense. Others will hopefully cause you to pause and reflect. Read them all to fully grasp their deeper context.
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1. Learn new things
When I decide to hook up with another gay bottom, I usually get to learn some new skills that aren’t related to bending over. Examples include:- New techniques for oral
- Different ways to stimulate my man-hole
- Personal story swapping on which guys on Grindr have the largest banana.
2. New approaches to kissing
If there’s one thing we bottoms know how to do – it’s how to kiss. Not that tops are bad at it. Most are great. It’s just that bottoms are all about having things put into various openings. In turn, they have special insight into stimulation. When I connect with another bottom, I get to:- Learn different ways to French kiss
- Assess how responsive another bottom is with my make out skills
- Determine if I need to adjust my mouth actions
3. Try out new toys
If you are into toys, you already know it can be fun to pleasure yourself. But I’ll tell ya what – you can double the pleasure when you invite over another bottom! Here is why:- If you both have clean toys, you can ride them for days and make out like crazy!
- Using the art of edging, you can help one another with premature release issues.
- You can get into dirty talk and idealize your favorite male celebrities with role play. Chris Evans is my personal favorite!
4. Mutual Massage
When you are a bottom, you use a lot of muscles that tops just don’t. Speaking for myself, it helps to have my lower lumbar area rubbed because it tends to tighten up during intense sessions.Tops are usually good about giving massages but bottoms know exactly where the tension resides. Additional benefits.
- Mutual massage can be shared before foreplay.
- Ability to focus in on bubble butt muscles that need some TLC.
- A chance to feel another guy’s rump as a reminder of what tops are looking for.
5. Topping Lessons
This final point may sound a little off but stay with me. If you are a bottom and hook up with another bottom, you get the chance to learn (or reinforce) important concepts.After all, nobody wants to be “that bottom” who turns a top off, right? Here’s what I’m talking about.
- Bottoms know all too well the importance of hygiene and are the first to explain how to clean yourself out and wipe your butt.
- Using toys, bottoms can teach one another various moves to pass on to our top men.
- With the spread of heterosexual pegging, we can follow their lead and strap something on for a dandy of a time!
- Older bottoms can teach younger bottoms a lot about boundaries with tops.
Summing Things Up
After reading this post, I hope what I’ve shared makes sense. It just seems like too many of us feel we need to hook up with top guys only.Honest to goodness – we don’t!
And for what it’s worth, the boys who like drilling us often struggle with the same issues. At least we aren’t alone.
So the next time you are on Grindr or Scruff or whatever app you use to find a guy, I encourage you to seriously consider getting your hands on a bottom dude.
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