Having anal sex for the first time isn’t easy, I know, but if done right, anal sex can be some of the best sex you will ever have!
This is the next step. A comprehensive, one-stop resource to give you a better idea of how to have anal sex for the first time.
Before we talk about how to have anal sex, let’s start with your body. If you are going to have good sex then first and foremost, you need to be in touch with both your mind and body.
Keeping both in sync and listening to them is the first step to learning how to have anal sex that feels great!
Mental
More than you may realize, sex is all about your state of mind. Your brain is a powerful tool It controls everything from your thoughts, feelings, movements and emotions.
The biggest fear for anyone who has never had anal sex is definitely the pain. This doesn’t help when being nervous or uptight is your absolute worst enemy when bottoming.
If you are not comfortable and mentally ready, it will cause your body to tense up and that is a bad thing.
Put simply, if you are not in the right state of mind, then your body won’t be either.
Sex is not something you should rush into or do on a whim. You need to be comfortable and ready.
Physical
The simple most important piece of advice I can give to anyone starting out is to listen to what your body is telling you. Follow’s its cues and pay attention to what it is trying to tell you.
Before I knew how to have anal sex, I always thought anal sex had to be painful, but this is completely false! The fact is:
Bottoming should not hurt.
In fact, it should be some of the best sex that you have ever had.
To put it simply, pain Is your body’s way of telling you that something is wrong.
This may mean you need to slow down, use more lube, relax. It may be even saying I’m not ready yet.
The most important skill is to learn how to read what your body is telling you and adapt what you are doing accordingly.
Anal Sex Supplies
Before we dive into what to do before and during your first time on the playing field, you need to have the right equipment.
Unlike other types of sex, with anal sex, you need to buy an anal lube.
As you may already know when having anal sex your body does not have a natural lubrication. That means you need to get lubed up beforehand.
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