Being a great Bottom - Tips for BTMs

Even if you are naturally a top: if you become a male escort you may want to be a bottom some of the time. As a rent boy, your job is to make the client happy, as long as what he wants to do is not too weird or risky.



If you have never bottomed before you need to get ready. It’s not just about lying there and letting him have his way with you. Just as it’s easy to be a bad lay as a top, you have to be an active participant when you are on your back or your knees.

The good news is that you don’t have to worry as much about performance anxiety if you are the penetrated partner. If you can’t get it up, it’s not a big deal, as long as you can take what your client has to offer. It’s also much easier to fake your pleasure as a bottom than it ever will be as a top.

Keep in mind some of these universal rules of ass play at all times, so that you can be all that you can be!

  Just because he wants your ass, doesn’t mean he’ll want to fuck it. Some guys get off using their fingers and mouths on their bottoms.
  There is no reason for anal sex to hurt, if you go slow, relax and prepare yourself.
  If you have had trouble with anal sex in the past, that doesn’t mean you can’t learn to love it.
  You have two sphincters, or anal rings. Each one works independently and he needs to push through both slowly.
  It’s easy to cum from anal sex if you let yourself get into it.
  Eating right will make anal sex more fun and less messy.
  Keep your ass clean.
  Just because you are a bottom does not mean you are a submissive.
  Always use lube.
  Make sure he keeps his condom on.
  Try to get him to pull out before he cums - it’s just safer that way!
  Anal sex can be safe sex. Just be careful!

Topping From The Bottom

It can’t be said often enough - just because your client is on top does not mean he is in control. Yes, he may be having a fantasy about being in charge of your ass - but experienced guys know that the bottom is always the real master.

For one - he’s paying you, not the other way around. For another, you have the right to stop things whenever you want. Finally, the way you move your ass and body has a direct effect on how hot your ass will seem to him.

Keep It Clean

When it comes to anal sex, cleanliness is next to godliness. Before you go out on a date, if you know he wants to top you, make sure you give yourself an enema so you are squeaky clean.

Then, insert lube into your ass before you go out. That way you don’t have to worry about trusting him to do it. The more lube the better - particularly if you are not that experienced.

Always make sure your partner wears a lubricated condom. Not only is unprotected sex very dangerous, the condom can actually

Slow And Steady

Your partner shouldn’t simply thrust all the way into you with one go. Instead, he should ease his cock into you slowly and stop every time it hurts. Then, he should wait a minute and start pushing forward again when you have had time to relax.

Anal sex is not a race to the finish line!

We can’t stress this enough - make sure he uses lots and lots of lube. There are some lubes, like Eros, that are designed to make it easier for him to penetrate you. If you are worried at all about the pain, you might want to invest in a bottle.

Positions

One of the most important parts of being a bottom is figuring out which position will work best for you. Some guys like to be on their back with their knees bent. This allows the penis to have a straight line into you, which can make it a slicker journey.

Other guys like to be on their hands and knees and feel like they are offering themselves to their client - and increasing his pleasure.
New bottoms might try being “on top” and sitting slowly down on the dick. It will allow you to be in control of your penetration.

Exercise

First off, you want to have a nice ass. After all, your clients are going to be looking at it. Running is a great way to keep your ass in shape.

Also try doing lots of squat thrusts. They can help both your legs and your ass look as beautiful as possible.

Size Matters

When it comes to anal sex, bigger is rarely better. While it would be nice to service every single client who wants to fuck you, some guys are simply too big.

If I guy gets undressed and there is just too much meat - tell him. Yes, he may be disappointed, but he will also be flattered. Then give him the blowjob of his life.

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