YU - FANG - PI - CHUN
According to Taoist philosophy, man, having all male attributes represents the Yang (+) force. The masculine principle is a lot more volatile, faster and more active than the feminine principle which represents the Yin (-) force.Nowadays, control over the ejaculation is a very important element in sexual intercourse. This is the most important issue in the Taoist art of love. Let’s take into account some Taoist advices:
- 1. Beginners should not to be too excited or too passionate, too hasty or hurried.
- 2. The beginner must learn to penetrate the ass very slowly (and gently) and come out suddenly if he feels that ejaculation is imminent.
- 3. If he feels that the excitement increases too much, he must stop thrusting immediately and withdraw very slowly so that only 1-2 cm remain inside the ass. He will remain completely still in this position. Then he will breathe deeply, contract his pelvic platform muscles very strongly (the anal sphincters and the PC muscle). At the same time he must focus his mind on the process of holding back his sperm. Thus he will sublimate and transmute the enormous force contained in the sperm into psychic, mental and spiritual energies. After this period (which can be 5 - 50 seconds), he can make some moves of gradual and prudent penetration. If he still feels that the excitement is too much he must apply once more the method described earlier (the blocking method) and even the “three fingers” method before going back to intercourse.
- 4. The one who wants to control his ejaculation has to be careful not to be hasty and have a very strong tenacity.
- 5. The blocking method makes sexual control easier, it is very efficient but it has to be used instantly, correctly and at the right moment. It needs to take place sooner than the non-return point (when the ejaculation process has been initiated the correct moment has passed).
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