In this kind of parties, group interaction is very limited if not existent. There are specifically targeted clubs that plan swingers parties, and very often the sexual activity in itself is done in small separate rooms. It is a very “traditional” activity, often spread also into the straight world (sometime with a bisexual tendency, as often the “swapping” can involve also this experience fort straight people).
The main difference with a more lascivious orgy, is the fact that in this kind of party there’s much more interaction. There’s always an initial “hunting” phase in which the swapping happens, and where there’s a hunt for the sex partner. Very often this phase takes the form of a cocktail party, and people are usually dressed in this phase. And this goes on until when all people disappear, engaged in their reciprocal pleasurable activities.
But a Swingers Party can also happen just with two couples meeting and “merging”. In this case having sex together (even if in “couples”) is a very hot experience.
For some people there’s a whole bit of excitement in seeing your longstanding partner engaged in sexual activities with somebody else. And often the idea of a couple swap is somehow more relaxing than that of a threesome or of an orgy, because everybody in the party is emotionally engaged.
In terms of sexual activities, everything works that we’ve already seen into our Oral-Sex section and into ourAnal-Sex posts.
Just a couple of hints.
- If this is your first approach to group sex, and you’re kind of jealous about your own partner, think first about the kind of “sight” you want to have. Some people think that being separate (i.e. having sex into two separate rooms) is better because you don’t see each other. Wrong! Very often this will just lead to jealousy thoughts obsessing you. If you want to have this kind of experience do it in presence, i.e. try to be in the same room!
- Start by knowing each other. Have a dinner together, talk, get to know each other a bit, and try to create a bit of reciprocal chemistry. This will help a lot create the right situation.
- Don’t limit yourself at mere “role” considerations. It’s wrong to just get sorted because of the “top”-“bottom” syndrome. It’s much better to get engaged because of the feeling of the evening. Something that will also avoid delusions.
- One in bed try to engage with each other, not just visually. Any kind of sexual activity can do, from touching to actual sex.
Or if you prefer a more “traditional” rear-entry position, you could have the two bottoms face each other (and why not, kiss).
This way this won’t be just a “couple” experience, but a much more thrilling and exciting event.
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