Those are just some of the questions I receive on a daily basis for the simple fact I blog about fisting. People are curious. Obviously inserting a whole hand inside someone is both scary and appealing at the same time. For some it might just be a fantasy they’ll never come to do, for others, fisting is a lifestyle.
But in the meantime, people often tell me they wanna get fisted, or fist their partners, but are afraid of getting permanently wrecked, be in diapers and so on.
Let me tell you a few secrets about fisting:
• Yes, it will hurt in the beginning - and by beginning I don’t mean for ten minutes, then it will get good. it will hurt the first few times you do it. It’s like going to the gym, you get sore on the first trainings, then you get the grip of it.
• No, fisting will not turn you loose for good - if you don’t push yourself to taking more than you can take, everything will be fine.
• Yes, fisting is very very very vey very very very (and I can say ‘very’ forever) pleasurable - no dick can turn the way a fist can, nor can a dick fill you up like a fist.
• No, fisting doesn’t necessarily have to be a part of domination/submission games.
In fact, many couples do it because of the intimacy they get from fisting with their partners.
• Yes, fisting is about trust. if you don’t trust your top, then hit it.
• No, the top is not in control. If the bottom doesn’t open up, then fisting can’t happen.
• Yes, fisting can be done regularly - people play with large dildos all the time, how is that different from fisting?
Most of fisting happens in the mind, not in the ass. It’s all about trusting your partner and letting him take you to high levels of pleasure. If you’re afraid, you shouldn’t be.
Fisting is definitely the best sex you’ll ever experience.
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