1. IGNORE THE BOTTOM - DO NOT LOOK AT HIM.
Most times when we fuck, we look the bottom in the eyes. If those eyes are sexy or become a turn on for us, then that may get you to climax sooner than expected. My tip is ignore the bottom. Look away from him. Close your eyes and think about something else if you have to. Don’t lose the hard on - that’s the most important thing.

2. LEARN HOW TO HAVE SEX
Sometimes when we have sex, we do everything to get to that point - the cum-ation. LOL That’s me being like Wendy Williams making up words. I am serious, instead of having sex to cum, have sex to get to know the ass and the bottom. Be caught up with something else.
3. EAT THE ASS LONGER
Stop rushing to fuck the bottom. Take the time to eat the ass like groceries.

4. FOR A BRIEF MOMENT FUCK THE ASS HARD THEN STOP BEFORE YOU NUT
When I suffered with premature ejaculation I solved the problem not by taking pills but I did so with practice. Learn to fuck fast then stop. When you stop, if you are a freaky guy, pull out and eat the ass. Your bottom will appreciate this. If you love masturbating, learn how to edge, and edge for hours. Masturbate real fast, then stop all together. A top must condition his mind to reach his highest moment and stopping everything.
5. FIND A POSITION THAT WORKS FOR YOU
It is true. Sometimes I have sex with a bottom and I will never cum during doggy style. Other moments, you fuck a nice booty and the hole makes you want to cum in doggy style. Find the position that will not make you cum. There is one for you. Sometimes, tops should change up the positions. If you find you cum in Missionary position, save that for last when you feel the bottom has had enough.

6. TELL THE BOTTOM TO PUSH OUT HIS ASS
The more the bottom grips the dick, the more likely he will make you nut. Tell the bottom to relax the hole.
7. GET DRESSED AFTER A FEW POSITIONS
I am serious, fool your mind. Allow the bottom to undress you again. For example taking off your undies, that is all. This will condition the mind that you will be starting over. How cool is that?
8. Watch your dick fucking the bottom.

9. PULL OUT AND EAT THE ASS
Then stop before you nut. Practice stopping.And eat the ass.


10. AFTER 45 MINS OF SEX YOU ARE FREE TO NUT
Don’t allow porn to fool you. Come on. After 45 mins of you fucking the bottom, he should be tired. This includes your 30 mins of eating the ass first. Ensure you accomplish at least 5 positions, you have 1 to 3 rounds.
Second round - medium pace
Third round - Fast and Furious
