How to Have Sex Longer - Tips for Tops

Must admit, I suffered bitterly from premature ejaculation. We know what happens, you get so excited and all of a sudden you cum. This is sometimes embarrassing for both top and bottom. More so, for the top because he is expected to be the long distance top, going and going and going for hours. This blog post will start to guide tops on what to do to last longer in bed.

1. IGNORE THE BOTTOM - DO NOT LOOK AT HIM.

Most times when we fuck, we look the bottom in the eyes. If those eyes are sexy or become a turn on for us, then that may get you to climax sooner than expected. My tip is ignore the bottom. Look away from him. Close your eyes and think about something else if you have to. Don’t lose the hard on - that’s the most important thing.

2. LEARN HOW TO HAVE SEX

Sometimes when we have sex, we do everything to get to that point - the cum-ation. LOL That’s me being like Wendy Williams making up words. I am serious, instead of having sex to cum, have sex to get to know the ass and the bottom. Be caught up with  something else.

3. EAT THE ASS LONGER

Stop rushing to fuck the bottom. Take the time to eat the ass like groceries.
Eat more.

4. FOR A BRIEF MOMENT FUCK THE ASS HARD THEN STOP BEFORE YOU NUT

When I suffered with premature ejaculation I solved the problem not by taking pills but I did so with practice. Learn to fuck fast then stop. When you stop, if you are a freaky guy, pull out and eat the ass. Your bottom will appreciate this. If you love masturbating, learn how to edge, and edge for hours. Masturbate real fast, then stop all together. A top must condition his mind to reach his highest moment and stopping everything.

5. FIND A POSITION THAT WORKS FOR YOU

It is true. Sometimes I have sex with a bottom and I will never cum during doggy style. Other moments, you fuck a nice booty and the hole makes you want to cum in doggy style. Find the position that will not make you cum. There is one for you. Sometimes, tops should change up the positions. If you find you cum in Missionary position, save that for last when you feel the bottom has had enough.
This is the kind of ass that will make you nut in doggy style - see how it jiggles.

6. TELL THE BOTTOM TO PUSH OUT HIS ASS

The more the bottom grips the dick, the more likely he will make you nut. Tell the bottom to relax the hole.

7. GET DRESSED AFTER A FEW POSITIONS

I am serious, fool your mind. Allow the bottom to undress you again. For example taking off your undies, that is all. This will condition the mind that you will be starting over. How cool is that?

8. Watch your dick fucking the bottom.

9. PULL OUT AND EAT THE ASS

Then stop before you nut. Practice stopping.

And eat the ass.


10. AFTER 45 MINS OF SEX YOU ARE FREE TO NUT

Don’t allow porn to fool you. Come on. After 45 mins of you fucking the bottom, he should be tired. This includes your 30 mins of eating the ass first. Ensure you accomplish at least 5 positions, you have 1 to 3 rounds.
First round - slow

Second round - medium pace

Third round -  Fast and Furious
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