When I grab my bed rails to get banged out, I’d much rather do it for an older gay man!
As a 23-year-old gay man, I think I know a lot about what it’s like to be part of this community. That’s because sine I turned 18, I’ve pretty much been out.What I’ve learned over the years is that the hotter you look, the more attention you receive. That’s not anybody’s fault per se but instead, a function of gay culture.
In my case, I’m an above average looking guy who identifies as a bottom. Oh sure, I do other things but bending over for other dudes has always been my thing.
During the course of my homo development, I’ve developed keen insight into obtaining the best sex and more importantly, from whom.
That’s why I’m going to give you my top five reasons for choosing to exclusively bottom for older gay men.
Check these out.
1. He’s easier to hookup with
When you spend your entire time trying to chase after the most beautiful guy on Grindr, it often means ending the night with a big fat goose egg.What I’ve found is that by picking a guy who is older (sometimes by a lot) my chances of “getting some” increase dramatically! Don’t get me wrong. I do have standards. But older gay men just seem a lot easier to get with.
2. He likes to please
Another reason I like gripping my bedrails for an older guy, like a wolfish daddy, is because 99% of the time, they like to please! Here, I’m talking about their ability to empathically tune into what I’m looking for.I think part of this is because they’ve grown past the stage of thinking sex is just about them; something many people my age still don’t seem to get.
3. He knows what he’s doing
Guys who older (aka 40’s, 50’s 60’s) know exactly what they are doing when it comes to topping. Well, at least that’s been my experience. Plus, a lot of older guys are big time uninhibited and are much more passionate!I’m not saying younger guys don’t know how to top but a lot of them don’t. I think the best way you get experience is by “doing” and that only comes with time. And so in this way, older gay men just know their sh*t.
4. He takes his time
A real big checkmark in the “bottoming for older gay men” box relates to duration. I don’t know about you but guys my age seem to have a problem making things last. And that really sucks if you are a power bottom like me.Older gay men, however, seem to last a lot longer. They take their time during the pounding process and have learned how to edge themselves effectively. What’s not to like about that?
5. He’s usually down for seconds
Have you ever hooked up with a guy on Scruff or one of the other apps and found that after they have you, they don’t want to play again? I certainly have! I think a lot of this has to do with younger gays always wanting “the next new thing”.But when you bottom for an older guy from the apps, there is a really good chance he’s available for seconds and often thirds. Maybe it’s a maturity thing? All I know is that most of my regular FB’s are men who are in their 40’s and 50’s.
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