Some tops have a difficulty in getting hard. What makes it frustrating for a waiting bottom is anticipating a big, hard dick and the top can’t get it up. Get your mind straightened out first before you have sex. Tops who are disconnected in a hook up. The tops who act above everyone else when they are getting a blow job. Tops who try to control the bottom in a blow job. Move your hand and allow the bottom to do his thing. Tops who want to pin down the bottom all the time during sex. extremely Rough tops who focus on slapping than the strokes of the dick. poundnstullablog.tumblr.com/post/147397369853/5-reasons-tops-are-not-having-the-best-sex-ever