Mutual Jerk-Off Circle
In this case, in principle all masturbatory activities, both self and reciprocal, are allowed. There are less rules to be followed, except the basic one, which is “just” about masturbation.
Usually in this kind of happenings the overall feeling is much more orgiastic. Less rules to be followed means also that people will tend to split into couples or groups, trying to mutually please themselves. From this point of view, if there is no kind of super-visionary or planner activity, these kind of “party” may result less experiential then the two ones we’ve already seen. That’s why I’d suggest anyway to put some “rules of the game”, unless you’re in a closed circle with known people.
Mutual Jerk-Off Circles can actually just “happen” without much of a planning. In my experience it happened for example once that a similar circle just started in a sauna. It’s interesting when it’s like this, because you’ll notice how the sexual tension raises among the people in the room, but it does not get to a full orgy.
So, how tog et a good experience then? Here are some “suggestions” for you as a participant:
- Work on your pleasure. We’re talking about masturbation, so this means you should work on your pleasure, not just theirs. that’s why I suggest you try to concentrate on this.
- Practice. Mutual jerk-off, both in couples or in a group, can be very interesting if you let yourself go to something new, not just you “usual way” of practicing.
- Share. You’re in a group, choose a couple of the people around to have fun with. Don’t stay isolated. One positive aspect about a JO party is that contact is limited with the other participants, so you actually don’t really have to “like” them all. And you may discover that some less gorgeous people balance their un-attractiveness with a lot more experience!
The Mutual Jerk-Off “Problem”
What is the “Mutual Jerk-Off Problem”? Well, it’s a situation where a person simply… doesn’t cum if masturbated by somebody else. I don’t know what’s the exact reason behind this, but I myself run often into this situation, and have experienced the situation where you don’t feel anything more than a strong rubbing on your shaft and you feel your partner’s arm is soon going to end all its energiesAs said, I don’t exactly know the reason behind this. Probably it has a lot to do with the kind of stimulation you get. As I mentioned the shaft is not the sensitive part, but in a mutual JO session partners usually concentrate on that.
- Alternate, allow your partner to jerk you off for short period of times, then alternate with your hand-job. If you do this from the beginning it will not be perceived as “rude”, like a “you don’t know how to do it” statement :-)
- Show him. sometime it is just a question of position, or of rhythm. Don’t be shy and show him how to adapt to your sensations.
- Relax. Sometime I believe this situation is increased by our tension in not being able to cum. I found ti functioning sometime to just… relax, avoiding any kind of anxiety. This will help you a lot, if combined with the two above statements.
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