Honestly speaking, if you are not the dominating type, then just be yourself. Don’t try to be something you are not because eventually, you might not enjoy the process.
Anyway, if he is my submissive btm, I will :-
- Order him to do what I feel would be the things that will make me high, e.g. suck my dick, lick my balls, etc.
- my voice will be more commanding than my usual self, like do this, take that, etc.
- take charge and not seek permission if I want spank his ass or bite/nibble on his butt cheek, etc. just do it.
- Confidence in bed is the key; which means you need to know your own abilities in bed.
The trick is to be
1) pro-actively place him in various position. and observe which are the positions that bores him. do not let him have the chance to even think that he need to tell u to change position.
2) talk / moan in a more manly manner than he is.
3) strengthen your grip. eg, missionary position…strengthen your grip when you are holding his ankle / knee. they prefered to be man-handled.
4) don’t hold back. let your imagination run wild.
in short, having dominating sex… is not fully about brute force and slapping of butt. its more of knowing what you can do, and carrying it out confidently.
But then there are many type of submissive btms out there. know which type your man belongs to and act accordingly.
some likes to feel as if they are being raped
some likes you telling them what to do
some likes to be treated like dirt
some into sm….
Some btms r submissive only sometimes. I also myself only submissive when the top don’t know how he suddenly can make me submissive.
But then you know I know the things we do inside r very very shy to let other people know. Then suddenly I meet the top again and I not yet feeling submissive I suddenly remember last time he do this he do that to me inside the room. Then my friends around me talking cock, I feel so scared that maybe they will know or the top go and tell them. Waaah I mean even prostitutes also not do that things how come I let him do that to me. I face red until feel got no face.
Then I swear next thing dont try anymore so shy. If the top look too dangerous better dont try. But after try a few times the tops not strong fxxkers I also feel not happy. Then dont know why I feel not satyfry. Then finally one day say dangerous also must try.
It is very mouton to me. Want but dont want so shy. But this type of top also very expert they dont care you want or dont want. They want mean they want. I tell you this type of feeling is very funny because when he and me just one looking can understand I am feeling submissive but play hard to get.
I want to avoid him but he keep chasing me until I get more and more excited then I stop walking and stand and wait. He stop behind me put hand inside my towel and his finger slowly touch here touch there near my hole. Then dont know how but his finger is already inside my hole.
Then he push me into room and push me to the bed. After that my head already blur blur let him rape. Very rough and very loud. Of course I enjoy but later regret again. So forever mouton. This top really know how to enjoy making me do so many submissive things because they enjoy to remember how. I dont want to remember how.
My fb likes to dominate and I like to submit.
When he pushes me on my knees, I take his dick in my mouth.
He shoves it deep to the back of my throat until I gag, tears run down my face and saliva flows.
He cock slaps and rubs his cock on my face; he curses me and slaps my face when he feels my teeth on his dick.
When he squeezes my dick, he feels it is hard and throbbing; I am mildly embarrassed that he knows I am getting my kicks.
He gets me to a doggy position when he is ready to fuck. He spanks my butt to make me stretch my legs out further.
He kneels behind me and pushes my legs out until they can’t go further.
He pumps me with regular rhythms, wrapping his arms around my throat, whispering in my ear, and I moan with pleasure.
Then he switches to intense and deep pumping; I throw my head back with each thrust and cannot help beating the mattress with my hand.
When he is ready to cum, he pulls off his condom and I get on my knees. He shoots on my face and rubs his cum all over my cheeks and mouth.
He tells me to leave his cum to dry on my face.
We need a safe word soon because sometimes he really gets into it and it’s almost like getting raped lol.
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