I know that may seem like BS but it’s true. Before explaining why, let me say now that if you think I look like a dog, think again. While I don’t pretend to be model material, I certainly hold my own in the looks department.
The truth is I find sexual experiences with significantly older guys way more satisfying. You see, I’ve gone the other route where I’ve tried slutting it up with men in my age group.
Just trying to make something happen is exhausting! When it does happen (and that’s rare) it’s also unfulfilling.
Honestly, who has time to go chasing after pretty boys and self-centered drama queens that just want to sit back while you drill them out?
This is especially true for bottoms around my age that seem to think their ass is a gift to the world! Half the time, they aren’t even cleaned out.
“Just open the door and come into my room – I’ll be on all fours waiting. You can use me and leave,” messaged one recent guy from Grindr my age. “Do you got any Gun Oil or Wet? I’m out.”
I was like DAYUM boy, at least have lube! Not only did he expect me to pound him (and not work for it), he also thought I was f*cking Walgreens. I was like – “No thanks!”
Obviously, not all younger bottoms are like this. But in my jaded experience, many are. I guess that’s why I’m over them.
On the other hand, give me a much older bottom man that’s got some salt and pepper hair or a bald spot and I’m in heaven!
Seriously, I am.
Here’s my five reasons why – for real.
1. Appreciation
One of the main reasons I like topping older guys that younger gays have put out to pasture is simple – they appreciate you. I’ve found that the older the man, the more likely he is to communicate his gratitude.The same cannot be said of muscle otters and dilfish-jocks who just lay there like mindless zombies while you work your butt off.
2. Eager to please
Another reason I like topping men 50 and above is because they are super eager to please. I’ve topped old and young alike and let me tell you that as a group, the older ones are better by far!They always seem to take special care to prepare. Not once have I had that happen with guys in my age group.
It’s true.
In fact, the younger ones have expected me to drop I was doing, zip over to thier place, and bang them on the spot. How selfish! Never mind they haven’t douched (properly) or taken care to use soap and water down there.
I’m sorry – I know I’m painting with a wide brush right now. Just sharing my personal observations.
3. Experienced
Just last month, I did a guy who was probably in his early 70’s. Let me tell you, this man gave me the time of my life. Sure, he may not have been as agile as dudes my age but he sure knew his stuff!You see, that’s the benefit of hooking up with guys that our community considers to be “ancient”. These men have years of experience. And they are more focused on pleasing than attention seeking.
4. Flattery
I’m not an escort and have never held myself out as one. But on three occasions now, I’ve been offered tips after a play session with “older” men.No, I didn’t accept the money and don’t plan on it in the future. Not that there’s anything wrong with it.
But man oh’ man, being handed a $100.00 bill after giving an older man a ride is super flattering. How many twenty something guys can you say make those kinds of gestures? Probably none, right?
5. Always up for seconds
Perhaps one of the best reasons I pass up on bottoms my age and opt for what some consider to be “too old” is because they’re always up for seconds … and thirds!Not once have I ever been turned down by one of my silver haired daddies. In fact, they love spontaneous hook ups and are DTF whenever!
I wish I could say that’s been my experience with younger guys.
Older is just better to me
As a gay man, I feel blessed that I’ve figured out how to get my sexual needs met early in life. No longer do I spend entire Sundays endlessly looking for trade.When you decide to let your guard down and do away with ridiculous requirements; like being the same age (ish) or insisting the guy have a perfect body, you’ll find hooking up to be way more fulfilling.
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